What is on your mind - Page 261

Nightshade · 01-08-2011, 11:33 AM

Remembering, reclaiming and rebuilding; My self esteem, my contentedness, my time, attention and focus, my home, my routine and my bank account.

I certainly didn't intend to sacrifice those things, but life happens and sometimes you don't realize until you look back, how much you've given up.

Ryobi · 01-08-2011, 12:40 PM

Everything. I think a better question for me today is, what's not on your mind.

Leigh · 01-08-2011, 01:24 PM

I keep thinking how nice it is to flirt with someone and not have any strings attached ~ just the chance to have some good fun without being attached. Don't get Me wrong, relationships are nice and it feels good to have someone in your life but since age 19 I always seem to be in one and for now it just feels good to be able to be naughty and bad with no U-haul in sight ............ I'm finally being allowed to be Myself, and I don't want that to end anytime soon

That is exactly whats on My mind right now!

Gemme · 01-09-2011, 08:03 AM

Should I go to the gym now or wait until after work? If I wait until after work, will I actually go?

sylvie · 01-09-2011, 09:53 AM

ive spent years, making a plan...dwelling on the plan.. and saying i will action the plan, but i've procrastinated..
and then it hit me, i'm hurting no one but myself..
no one can make the changes for me, no one can force me to want this..
and i know, i WANT this..

so i'm bundling up my procrastinating ways and tossing it out the window -
i'm forever encouraging people to go for the positives, but not following my own advice... time to live as i speak!

Miss Scarlett · 01-09-2011, 09:28 PM

An absolutely amazing weekend and how it passed way too fast...

WolfyOne · 01-10-2011, 10:51 AM

This weather is causing a sinus/migraine headache for me...............ugh!!!!

sylvie · 01-10-2011, 01:07 PM

that i have a few tasks this week.. one is to name something i like about myself each day for the next 2 weeks and the other is to pick one thing each day that i need to do, and follow through and complete it!

my appointment this morning was a bit hard, emotionally but, honestly did me a world of good as i am sitting and processing it all.. some things make much more sense..

will do me some good to do each of these things for the next 2 weeks, i really see some major growth in my future!

=)

little_ms_sunshyne · 01-10-2011, 06:00 PM

Sitting with a friend and chatting about life and all of its surprises. She says "Love is insane...Just go with it. What you learn from one relationship will make you stronger for the next."

I am thinking that she is on to something

lipstixgal · 01-10-2011, 06:59 PM

The snow coming that is what is on my mind and how am I going to shovel it without help..UGH

Leigh · 01-10-2011, 07:13 PM

Talked to a very good friend on the phone earlier, but got sent signals that now have Me thinking that something else is up ~ we are gonna talk again tomorrow but until then, I'm left to try and decipher what it could mean

Andrew, Jr. · 01-11-2011, 05:49 PM

I am thinking about the homeless people living in tents. I wonder if they are warm. If they ate the food I gave them.

Laerkin · 01-11-2011, 08:27 PM

How I'm going to accomplish all this school work, and write a 50-page life experience portfolio, and study for a 3-hour SAT-like exam to earn credits in US History while working full-time. Selfish, but it's consuming me.

Sachita · 01-11-2011, 09:02 PM

I can't get this song out my head... days now, rolling around

Ryobi · 01-11-2011, 11:18 PM

If something is infringing on my self respect, do I not have an obligation to myself to infringe on it's existence in my life?

sweetfemme247 · 01-11-2011, 11:22 PM

what is on my mind, hmmmmm someone special I have known for 5 years, we have been through hell and back but everytime he has always been there for me, today when I read he was changing his name finally I was so excited..... I text him just because it made me happy, I watch all his videos he does on YOUTUBE. I wonder if we will ever be a couple again.

Leigh · 01-11-2011, 11:46 PM

Whats on My mind is what the past left behind, the future will bring nothing but good things ~ no matter what has happened, what one (or two) have been through, some things are just meant to be

Miss Scarlett · 01-12-2011, 05:16 AM

My morning commute...

I will use common sense today and not be such a workaholic bullhead!

Jet · 01-12-2011, 08:06 PM

I was very moved by the president's address at the Tucson Memorial.

sylvie · 01-13-2011, 10:37 AM

- that making new friendships is a wonderful thing..
though i really miss the friendships that seem distanced right now..
i've faith that they , too, will be back on track one day..

01-08-2011, 12:40 PM	#5202
Ryobi Member How Do You Identify?: TG Stone Butch. Over all, I identify by living my life. Preferred Pronoun?: He/His Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Upper Midwest Posts: 633 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 683 Thanked 1,238 Times in 357 Posts Rep Power: 12468328	Everything. I think a better question for me today is, what's not on your mind. __________________ "If you can't do great things, do small things in a great way" Napoleon Hill. "To choose a word is to choose a world" Anonymous

01-08-2011, 01:24 PM	#5203
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I keep thinking how nice it is to flirt with someone and not have any strings attached ~ just the chance to have some good fun without being attached. Don't get Me wrong, relationships are nice and it feels good to have someone in your life but since age 19 I always seem to be in one and for now it just feels good to be able to be naughty and bad with no U-haul in sight ............ I'm finally being allowed to be Myself, and I don't want that to end anytime soon That is exactly whats on My mind right now! __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

01-09-2011, 08:03 AM	#5204
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,970 Times in 25,664 Posts Rep Power: 21474888	Should I go to the gym now or wait until after work? If I wait until after work, will I actually go? __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

01-09-2011, 09:53 AM	#5205
sylvie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Mr Mtn's babygirl Preferred Pronoun?: girly, she Relationship Status: fiercely protected ♥ Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Moving home in OR with Him VERY soooon !! Posts: 2,548 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,834 Thanked 7,501 Times in 1,850 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	ive spent years, making a plan...dwelling on the plan.. and saying i will action the plan, but i've procrastinated.. and then it hit me, i'm hurting no one but myself.. no one can make the changes for me, no one can force me to want this.. and i know, i WANT this.. so i'm bundling up my procrastinating ways and tossing it out the window - i'm forever encouraging people to go for the positives, but not following my own advice... time to live as i speak! __________________ my Mantra: i am letting go of angers, continuing to find forgiveness, welcoming inner peace & deserving of it all. my facebook weight loss page: http://www.facebook.com/asyllyjourney

01-10-2011, 10:51 AM	#5207
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,397 Times in 4,140 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	This weather is causing a sinus/migraine headache for me...............ugh!!!! __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

01-08-2011, 11:33 AM	#5201
Nightshade Member How Do You Identify?: Stonefemme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: . Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: here Posts: 125 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 503 Thanked 236 Times in 84 Posts Rep Power: 42018	Remembering, reclaiming and rebuilding; My self esteem, my contentedness, my time, attention and focus, my home, my routine and my bank account. I certainly didn't intend to sacrifice those things, but life happens and sometimes you don't realize until you look back, how much you've given up.

01-09-2011, 09:28 PM	#5206
Miss Scarlett Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: . Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: . Posts: 5,530 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,478 Thanked 12,947 Times in 3,419 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	An absolutely amazing weekend and how it passed way too fast...

01-10-2011, 01:07 PM	#5208
sylvie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Mr Mtn's babygirl Preferred Pronoun?: girly, she Relationship Status: fiercely protected ♥ Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Moving home in OR with Him VERY soooon !! Posts: 2,548 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,834 Thanked 7,501 Times in 1,850 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	that i have a few tasks this week.. one is to name something i like about myself each day for the next 2 weeks and the other is to pick one thing each day that i need to do, and follow through and complete it! my appointment this morning was a bit hard, emotionally but, honestly did me a world of good as i am sitting and processing it all.. some things make much more sense.. will do me some good to do each of these things for the next 2 weeks, i really see some major growth in my future! =) __________________ my Mantra: i am letting go of angers, continuing to find forgiveness, welcoming inner peace & deserving of it all. my facebook weight loss page: http://www.facebook.com/asyllyjourney

01-10-2011, 06:00 PM	#5209
little_ms_sunshyne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: . Posts: 3,312 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,339 Thanked 12,241 Times in 2,541 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Sitting with a friend and chatting about life and all of its surprises. She says "Love is insane...Just go with it. What you learn from one relationship will make you stronger for the next." I am thinking that she is on to something

01-10-2011, 06:59 PM	#5210
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494761	The snow coming that is what is on my mind and how am I going to shovel it without help..UGH __________________ Gail

01-10-2011, 07:13 PM	#5211
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Talked to a very good friend on the phone earlier, but got sent signals that now have Me thinking that something else is up ~ we are gonna talk again tomorrow but until then, I'm left to try and decipher what it could mean __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

01-11-2011, 05:49 PM	#5212
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	I am thinking about the homeless people living in tents. I wonder if they are warm. If they ate the food I gave them.

01-11-2011, 08:27 PM	#5213
Laerkin Member How Do You Identify?: Girlie with a touch of bossy Preferred Pronoun?: She, but not hung up on the details Relationship Status: Parenting our furry family with SmoothButch Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Washington DC Posts: 385 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 772 Thanked 963 Times in 257 Posts Rep Power: 4366971	How I'm going to accomplish all this school work, and write a 50-page life experience portfolio, and study for a 3-hour SAT-like exam to earn credits in US History while working full-time. Selfish, but it's consuming me.

01-11-2011, 09:02 PM	#5214
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,993 Times in 2,247 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I can't get this song out my head... days now, rolling around __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

01-11-2011, 11:18 PM	#5215
Ryobi Member How Do You Identify?: TG Stone Butch. Over all, I identify by living my life. Preferred Pronoun?: He/His Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Upper Midwest Posts: 633 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 683 Thanked 1,238 Times in 357 Posts Rep Power: 12468328	If something is infringing on my self respect, do I not have an obligation to myself to infringe on it's existence in my life? __________________ "If you can't do great things, do small things in a great way" Napoleon Hill. "To choose a word is to choose a world" Anonymous

01-11-2011, 11:22 PM	#5216
sweetfemme247 Member How Do You Identify?: fem Preferred Pronoun?: femme, she, her, baby, sweetie Relationship Status: holding my heart close and putting back up a wall Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: california, palm springs Posts: 994 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 206 Thanked 719 Times in 350 Posts Rep Power: 4115671	what is on my mind, hmmmmm someone special I have known for 5 years, we have been through hell and back but everytime he has always been there for me, today when I read he was changing his name finally I was so excited..... I text him just because it made me happy, I watch all his videos he does on YOUTUBE. I wonder if we will ever be a couple again. __________________ Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present. Jim Rohn

01-11-2011, 11:46 PM	#5217
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Whats on My mind is what the past left behind, the future will bring nothing but good things ~ no matter what has happened, what one (or two) have been through, some things are just meant to be __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

01-12-2011, 05:16 AM	#5218
Miss Scarlett Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: . Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: . Posts: 5,530 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,478 Thanked 12,947 Times in 3,419 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	My morning commute... I will use common sense today and not be such a workaholic bullhead!

01-12-2011, 08:06 PM	#5219
Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,647 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	I was very moved by the president's address at the Tucson Memorial.

01-13-2011, 10:37 AM	#5220
sylvie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Mr Mtn's babygirl Preferred Pronoun?: girly, she Relationship Status: fiercely protected ♥ Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Moving home in OR with Him VERY soooon !! Posts: 2,548 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,834 Thanked 7,501 Times in 1,850 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	- that making new friendships is a wonderful thing.. though i really miss the friendships that seem distanced right now.. i've faith that they , too, will be back on track one day.. __________________ my Mantra: i am letting go of angers, continuing to find forgiveness, welcoming inner peace & deserving of it all. my facebook weight loss page: http://www.facebook.com/asyllyjourney