what NOT to do in a relationship....... - Page 27

Soft*Silver · 04-14-2011, 10:59 PM

dontcha even THINK I am getting fat if you are busting out of your own granny panties....

Admin · 04-14-2011, 11:21 PM

Hey Y'all,

Just a reminder about posting in this thread (and this isn't necessarily directed at any of the recent posters, although it certainly applies to everyone)- We need to keep things very general in here, especially if you are currently dating or have dated anyone who is a member of this site. We wouldn't want any ugly feelings for anyone here - So please consider when posting, if you wouldn't want it said about you, don't post it.

Remember, don't poke at or pick at your exes here! (unless you want a little vacation

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Thanks all,
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msW8ing · 04-14-2011, 11:49 PM

Don't go into the relationship thinking " I can change this or that" . For Goddess sake. You fell in love with them for who they are (positives and negatives) NOT for what you think they should be.

foxyshaman · 05-06-2011, 10:54 AM

Don't EVER EVER turn your head from your "joyful ministrations" when you hear the crack of a well hit baseball during a game in the world series. Nope don't ever do that <again>.

Guy · 05-06-2011, 08:45 PM

Don't assume the worst, and secondly, just don't assume

Chazz · 05-07-2011, 03:30 PM

Don't sell her blood without telling her.

05-07-2011, 03:58 PM

Don't, whatever you do, decant lube from that industrial sized bottle into a smaller one that looks exactly like the bottle of antiseptic handwash that also lives on the bedside table...She really won't thank you!

Miss Scarlett · 05-07-2011, 03:59 PM

Do not allow yourself to be treated like an ATM...

Guy · 11-19-2011, 10:07 PM

Don't create a relationship with winners and losers. Relationships are between winners who seek answers to problems together.

RNguy · 11-19-2011, 10:20 PM

Seeing this thread reminds me of this what not to do in a relationship : don't take your love for your spouse , partner , significant other what have it , really, anyone that you love in general for granted because you never know when that person will leave this world. I say this as a trauma nurse that witnesses the reality of watching my patients loved ones stand over them and grieve and I hear this a lot " I should have ..... Or if only I didn't ..... Or said..... " it is sad to watch but also hits the heart as a reminder ....... Peace , RNguy

Tommi · 11-19-2011, 10:41 PM

*Don't pick yer nose n eat it. ________In front of her.

*sex is easy, relationships are icebergs, and they roll over

*glass 1/2 full ~ 1/2 empty.

I'm not real good at the do's n dont's

girl_dee · 11-20-2011, 06:12 AM

Don't lose each other.

Lazy Daze · 11-20-2011, 08:13 AM

Don't let your past relationships get in the way of the present

Don't let the little things ruin your relationship, and remember its ALL little things

Don't forget to laugh together

Don't forget to say I love you

Gemme · 11-20-2011, 12:37 PM

Don't critcize your partner's driving while you are in the car.

VintageFemme · 11-20-2011, 12:43 PM

I'm single for a reason. *insert chagrin here* So I'm taking really good notes from this thread!

Thanks y'all!

Guy · 11-20-2011, 10:27 PM

Stay with the topic

Don’t use a current concern as a reason to jump into everything that bothers you.

Miss July · 11-21-2011, 01:59 PM

Don't EVER be some one's door mat to just lay down & take their crap.

SoNotHer · 11-21-2011, 03:23 PM

Don't make someone feel like a "placer holder" or "person of interest - at the moment." Better yet, don't date someone you know is a "place holder."

Don't ask for something you are not prepared to give in full measure.

And most importantly, don't say one thing and do another.

tazz · 11-21-2011, 03:33 PM

Don't lose yourself in a relationship.

CockyDude · 11-21-2011, 08:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SoNotHer

Don't make someone feel like a "placer holder" or "person of interest - at the moment." Better yet, don't date someone you know is a "place holder."

Don't ask for something you are not prepared to give in full measure.

And most importantly, don't say one thing and do another.

All very well said. Thank you.

04-14-2011, 10:59 PM	#521
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04-14-2011, 11:49 PM	#523
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11-19-2011, 10:20 PM	#530
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11-20-2011, 08:13 AM	#533
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05-07-2011, 03:30 PM	#526
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Guy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: . Posts: 1,858 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,258 Thanked 2,574 Times in 889 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Don't create a relationship with winners and losers. Relationships are between winners who seek answers to problems together.

11-19-2011, 10:41 PM	#531
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11-20-2011, 10:27 PM	#536
Guy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: . Posts: 1,858 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,258 Thanked 2,574 Times in 889 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Stay with the topic Don’t use a current concern as a reason to jump into everything that bothers you.

11-21-2011, 01:59 PM	#537
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11-21-2011, 03:23 PM	#538
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11-21-2011, 03:33 PM	#539
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