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I haven't watched the documentary, but I can certainly see what he means. I will say honestly the last thing I ever thought about prior to transitioning and even when I started hormones, was dating someone and trying to find someone I could marry. Sure there are days I feel lonely, but for the time being I am happy where I am at. Regardless of that though I still am looking to meet someone, but I don't expect to get married tomorrow.
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Hey TD,
Nice post. I watched the Doc as well as the After Doc with Rosie. Considering some of the other stuff out there on Transmen, I have to say this was well done. I can relate to so much of what Chaz is going through, because I have already been there, done that and don't even want the shirt. I believe that anytime a person chooses for their life that one thing they must have or be...willing to risk losing everything else, they very possibly could be put into a situation where they do indeed live their life without a partner -OR- they could open up their lives in such a way that there is only room for that right person to enter into. That is simply one of those things that we as humans have absolutely no control over regardless of whether we transition or not. When I transitioned 13 years ago, I knew there was a strong possibility that I would forever remain single. What was more important to me at that time, was that I was choosing to save my own life. Yes, today I am single, but that's okay with me for now and I have zero regrets about transitioning. ![]() Quote:
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i am totally fine with being single. the pigs get me all to themselves ![]() seriously, right now, with a recent move back home to florida, i am busy/romancing the land-ocean-skyscapes at the moment! friendship comes first anyway. ![]() |
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Agreeing with the others about being OK about being single right now, but still looking.
![]() I didn't give a lot of thought about dating after going on T. There were a fair amount of single Femmes out there a half dozen years ago, where dating wasn't an issue as much as, even say, what I was packing in my wallet to afford the social opportunities which seemed to abound. ![]() Generally speaking, I think the Butch-Femme Community has 'setteled down', if you will, as many have found their life-partners and don't circulate as much as in years gone by. The crying shame of it for me is that I truely feel I am at my most sexually and athletically virile, but at the same time, I'm feeling a kind of aloofness that I attribute to the T. Although I hate to 'waste' anything, the 'I'd really like to be dating, but it's truely OK not to be for now' feeling others have expressed seems to hit the mark for me.
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Me too!!!!
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what is everyone up to for the weekend?
i am dog and bird sitting. the macaw can be heard for miles [naturally], and so i have to cover my ears around her and/or use ear plugs! the dogs are sweet- great dane and she sleeps with me; dobie; and rottie-mix. hope you all enjoy yourselves and get into such much trouble! ![]() belle |
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Tonight I am hanging with my best girl, Heather.
Saturday I am going to lunch and to the movies with my mom. Saturday night I am going to see women's football. A good friend of mine is playing. Sunday I am spending the day at home getting ready for the upcoming week. Should be a fun weekend!!! |
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Hey everyone
I have been watching the thread a bit and decided to post. I have been single going on three years now. I have not even gone on a date. I have loved the time I have spent on me (and mom, I care for her) but I have to admit, it gets a little lonely sometimes. I think it is really hard being FTM and a caregiver, even fewer options out there. I am in Jacksonville FL and I have to say I think I am the only transmale around and all the girls are invisible LOL |
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Welcome! I can only imagine how hard it is for you, but its a great thing you are doing for your mom! It shows alot of great things about you! Stay positive and one day that right femme will be there! |
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Good morning all! I'm having a very lazy Saturday!
I'm trying to stay motivated to finish a story I started writing last night - but I'm sort of "eh" about it. The weather is absolutely gorgeous this morning 74 degrees, but gonna ramp up to 92 later! eeek!
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