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Hello to all the new Planeteers! Welcome and I hope you enjoy your stay here and create bonds (maybe something more???) that will last. And feel free to drop any of us a line, a friendly hello, or whatever floats your boat. Anyways, welcome to you all.
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11-25-2012, 02:23 AM | #43 |
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Welcome,there are alot of great folks here and alot of information and stimulating conversations. Hope you find a comfortable place here. terry |
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11-25-2012, 03:45 AM | #44 |
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welcome to the Planet, TJ...enjoy yourself....lots of awesome people and information here...
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11-26-2012, 04:33 PM | #45 |
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Hello yall!!
Hello Yall
My friends all call me tee I am a44year old swbbw from Mississippi,Id love to talk to anybody and im as southern as sweet tea ....so thats where the nick comes from....I like the bucthy bois ...cause there so hot ...so give me a shout im sure we will have plenty to talk about!!! Latters Bois!!!
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11-27-2012, 03:55 AM | #47 |
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Hello
Hi everyone
I've just been nudged in the direction of this thread by lusciouskiwi so thank you so much for that. I fully intended to introduce myself before making my first post but I got a little sidetracked by some amazing photos in here...loving this place already. I'm Val and I'm 39 years old. I live in the UK with my cat in a country cottage, close to a city. I'm a therapist with children in foster care who have the kind of life stories that sometimes give me nightmares. The children work so hard at recovering and they impress me every single day. I'm also studying for a masters degree. I'm recently separated from my civil partner and not too sure about what to do with my femme lesbian identity after this loss. After 6 years together we had created the kind of comfortable bubble that couples do, so being on my own is both refreshing and a little scary. But we both knew it was time to part and mostly I'm ok with that. I love music, every kind of music and especially when it's played live. I will go to any old gig just to experience the specialness of hearing the noise and being around music makers and lovers. I've played in a women's drumming band, orchestras and a rock band. I love it all and there is something so thrilling yet secure about being in a song or piece of music with other people. I appreciate conversation about anything and everything, life, relationships, politics, tv programmes, gardening, vegan food, work, whatever. I find people, all kinds of people, completely intriguing but like most I can be shy to begin with. I'm here because I believe butch/femme dynamics are special and exciting and need to be nurtured. Thank god places like this exist. I'm looking forward to making some friends just as soon as I've figured out how to work the messages and smilies and all the other features on here. Oh, and drag myself away from those amazing photos too. So, hopefully see you around! |
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11-27-2012, 04:47 AM | #48 |
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Well, a warm welcome to all who have joined recently!! Have fun on our Planet and I look forward to seeing you all in the threads... mixing and mingling.
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11-27-2012, 06:46 AM | #49 |
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Welcome to everyone and enjoyed reading your introduction Redsunflower. Hope everyone is having fun.
I must say - it's great to have more members who spell the proper way! Just teasing.
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11-28-2012, 01:11 AM | #50 |
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Hello everyone!
My name is Sara and I just joined this forum tonight. I'm 35 years old and from the Midwest USA. I work at a public library and also as a freelance writer. I am currently married to a bio-man (for almost 7 years; no kids), but have recently come out to myself as at the very least bisexual (and more probably lesbian), and ID as a 'femme'. It has taken me my entire life of always feeling 'different' in some way and yet being scared to death of that difference to get to this point. I'm still scared, to be honest. So, joining this forum is a big step for me. I don't know what my future holds. I still love my husband, but we are very incompatible in a variety of ways, apart from me finally admitting to myself that my feelings for women have always been stronger. I have gone through emotional and verbal abuse due to his immaturity and lack of empathy and self-absorption (and childish temper outbursts). He is 40 years old, so I highly doubt this behavior is going to change. I feel like I deserve more. I also feel like I deserve to acknowledge the person I truly am, rather than the person I tried to turn myself into in order to finally 'fit in.' All of this said, I hope to make some friends on this forum; I've been reading threads and you all seem so insightful and interesting. I have a lot to learn and am anxious to finally begin this process of self-discovery. |
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11-28-2012, 01:22 AM | #51 |
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Hi, Sara and welcome
You're not alone; many of us, including myself, were married for various motives, especially "doing what's expected". I am sorry he's treating you wrong; you do deserve more, no matter what your orientation. Have a look around, get to know us and participate. People here are very welcoming.
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11-28-2012, 09:09 AM | #53 |
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welcome to all the newbies...glad to see lots of new faces and some really cool nics.
Enjpy the site. Feel free to say hi...and if I can help any of you get acclimated here, give me a shout out... Have fun...
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11-28-2012, 04:35 PM | #54 |
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Not a newbie...but its been so long it feels new
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WOW! Look at all the newbies!
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Hello I'm new here and just looking for friends. I am from AL where I live with my family of cats, dogs and fish. And... I'm not very good with introductions.
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12-11-2012, 09:23 PM | #58 |
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hi ArtistLady from a neighbor to the NE....look forward to seeing you around the forums. Feel free to holla if I can help you in any way...glad to have you aboard...you will find every one is very friendly & helpful..Clay
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Not so much a newbie this week, more like a semi-bie. It has been so much fun exploring the site and seeing all the insightful thoughts people have to share.
I used to visit butch-femme and for a while I was so sad it was gone, but it's great to see it alive and well To the moderators: Thank you for your time and creating such a wonderful place for us all to gather. ~MShey |
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