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the 1st date. i know for sure. but i don't date girls. i date butches. but if anyone wants to see you again a 2nd time, they are into you.
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Prox, let me put this as plainly as I can
She IS into you!
I have read this thread from the start and all the signs she has given are green lights. Go forward assuming she is into you, not questioning it. Relax and enjoy. But I also want to say, that if she dates a lot of women, don't forget this either. Not sure what you are looking for in this situation but I would not advise you to assume you are the only one she is into. Cool?
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She walked and talked with me for a long time, picked me a before her bus came, and kept on waving goodbye from the bus window the first time we met.We were married for over thirty years.
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Want to add my own little quandary
I can be so clueless sometimes. And I miss opportunities. This frustrates me.
Today's example: Coming home from work, tired, a bit disheveled. Just thinking about dinner and a hot bath. As I am getting my two dogs out of the truck, I see a veeeery cuuuute woman unloading a u-haul truck. I am so ...? I honestly don't know (shy, clueless, ?) I barely even look her way. She stops what she is doing and smiles at me. I smile and say hi, then realize I forgot something in the truck, go back and get it. As I head towards home again she is still standing there smiling. I say hi again (dork?) as we walk past her. It does not dawn on me until I am in the bath that she had stopped what she was doing and was smiling at me. Who knows, maybe she was just tired and taking a break. Maybe she liked my dogs. Maybe her face is stuck in a smile naturally. But maybe, just maybe she was open to me saying something more than hi. Maybe something like welcome to the neighborhood? Maybe I will get another chance if I can even remember what she looked like. UGH! This is just today's example. I feel like my cluelessness makes me completely oblivious to these types of situations/opportunities in the moment. It is only after the fact that I sometimes get it. Can anyone relate?
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Being into you does not equate 4ever!
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When after your done talking and you tell her to have a nice day and she say's don't tell me what to do!
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If she lets you "in" even though you can be the biggest jerk on the planet earth some days.
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I must read this thread.... always gussing...
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If she shouts from her long hot shower "join me" She just might be into you
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When you both share what makes you uncomfortable about yourself and they listen and tell you, It does not matter I want you baby as you are.
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Me, Devil's Advocate: I'm with the turned tables contingent. Sounds like you're into her, so why not let her know? That doesn't necessarily mean you're placing any pressure on her. Sometimes you just have to leap.
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See!!! I'm not the only "downer"
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I'm seeing someone and we are meeting again tonight. Our first meeting was yesterday and we had fun. I hope she is into me. She asked to go to a comedy club tonight and of course some other woman wants to come. I'm not into that so I told her. I would like to spend the evening with you alone!! I think that is fair??
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Ah, thank you!
I haven't heard back from her in two days, but she is a busy woman - going to school, working, and being the vocalist in her band... very busy, indeed. I will not forget I'm the only girl she's into, and the way I see it, I'm not necessarily looking for a girlfriend... so whatever happens, will happen... I just know I like her I'm one of those girls, who, unless you outright kiss me - I don't really know if you're into me or not |
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Or, I tend to assume that the only reason a girl is interested in me, when she does make it obvious, is for carnal reasons (this has happened to me in the past and my heart was broke a little bit). I just don't know how to tell if a girl is interested in me for sex or for more, for who I am and not just what I can do for her in the bedroom (or the car, living room, kitchen, shower, etc. :P). It makes me honestly distrustful. |
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If she leans over whispers in your ear "you place or mine" she may be into you..... or she could just be horny one of the two.
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