Never Nudes vs. Ever Nudes. Pick a side. - Page 3

Hack · 03-01-2012, 12:40 PM

I guess I am an always clothed guy.

I've never been comfortable sleeping naked. I will on occasion, after I have known you a while. But I will almost always be in boxers or boxer briefs in bed. In pajama bottoms in the winter. Sometimes with a tshirt or beater, sometimes not.

For me, there is a disconnect with my body that makes naked weird for me. Also, I am modest by nature.

If a girl really wants skin on skin spooning or cuddling, I can be persuaded, but I am almost always in my boxers in bed.

nekohl · 03-01-2012, 08:29 PM

Au naturale as much as possible

Mtn · 03-01-2012, 08:32 PM

I'm naked when I shower, does that count?

suebee · 03-01-2012, 08:48 PM

I find myself at a stage in my life where I need - how shall I say it ........ ABSORBENCY if I don't want to have to change the sheets every night. There's nothing like skin-on-skin cuddling, but at some point in the night I usually have to put at least a T-shirt on to deal with my nightly menopausal sweat-fest. If I'm alone I'll usually be wearing something, but now that I'm coupled, I like to be able to touch and be touched. It's just comforting.

Sassy · 03-01-2012, 09:10 PM

Nude.
Exception: In the winter time, a warm robe, just so I don't have to have the heat cranked so high.

Alurra · 03-01-2012, 09:40 PM

I used to sleep in the nude...until we had a sizeable earthquake in the middle of the night.

Wouldn't that just be the icing on the cake? The house falls down and you have no clothes on.

Gemme · 03-01-2012, 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by *Anya*

Let's see, frequently without clothing.

Summer: sleep nude

Sex: always nude

Winter: sleep in t-shirts or PJ tops, never sleep with bottoms or panties-can't stand sleeping with bottoms

I'm exactly the opposite. I always have panties on, even when the rest of me is wiggly and free.

Semi for me!

Arwen · 03-01-2012, 11:20 PM

Couldn't vote. There was no "why do you want to know" choice or, alternatively, "noneyabusiness".

willow · 03-02-2012, 04:58 AM

Semi, varying greatly depending on weather. I do not like to be cold. Nude in bed, always. I bought a heated under blanket because I can not stand wearing anything in bed no matter how cold I am. The one exception was a freeeeezing camping trip in September a couple of years ago. It was all I could do to remove enough clothing to go pee! lol

1QuirkyKiwi · 03-02-2012, 10:52 AM

I share a house with my male English cousin and regardless of the fact he's a Nurse, sooooo, when he's here I'm clothed; when he's not, I'm Au Naturelle in my Birthday suit!

Novelafemme · 03-02-2012, 11:03 AM

There are five women living in my house, including me, so I do my best to keep my clothes on. I have scared Katy's mom many times as I come down the hall at 3am after a trip to the kitchen for orange juice and I'm buck naked!

Metro · 03-02-2012, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by MsMerrick

Cept for sex ..Kinda like Black Lace slips, the old fashioned kind.. or lingerie.. Somethin' .. Kimono.. Accessible but provocative... Naked is comfy

Half dressed..is sexy

the half-dressed butch equivalent... undressing another or being undressed is WAY too alluring to do without when given the opportunity (i.e. when NOT single.) even when single, i like my flannels, boxers 'n' t-shirts.

Miss_J · 03-02-2012, 03:47 PM

For myself... I bare it all. Having roomies is often interesting but they were warned before they moved in I may slip to the bathroom in my skin suit only so look the other way if it bothers them. hmmm come to think of it no word yet on if it bothers.

I once dated a butch who wouldnt even shower w me without having boxers on.. ahh well.. we all have our own comfort levels.

TimilDeeps · 03-02-2012, 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss_J

For myself... I bare it all. Having roomies is often interesting but they were warned before they moved in I may slip to the bathroom in my skin suit only so look the other way if it bothers them. hmmm come to think of it no word yet on if it bothers.

I once dated a butch who wouldnt even shower w me without having boxers on.. ahh well.. we all have our own comfort levels.

or it could be a way of showering and doing laundry at the same time?

pajama · 03-02-2012, 07:06 PM

I had to vote not nude, but only because I live with The Boy. When he's not home, underwear (usually boxers) only.

rustedrims · 03-04-2012, 04:02 PM

In the summer i prefer to wear nothing to bed and in the winter i wear socks..I cant sleep if my feet are cold..
Around the house i at least wear a t-shirt and socks..Eventually the sweats come on..I have a big sliding door off the deck without any blinds..One side i have plants..Not real private if someone stops by to visit..Right now t-shirt and socks..

s..

fishinabaggie · 03-06-2012, 09:38 AM

I am nakey as much as possible!! Actually, I really hate pants and I am not too fond of tops! LOL
Luckily, my love is equally comfy sans clothing. We sleep without clothes and usually always some skin touching.

apretty · 03-06-2012, 09:53 AM

When I got into bed last night and most nights, E is wearing sweats, socks, a hoodie, and a tee-shirt (plus underthings).

He says all of the layering is due to the weather and the fact that it's winter--But really? We live in San Diego. (Today's low is 50 degrees.)

apretty · 03-06-2012, 09:58 AM

*not san diego.

Julie · 03-06-2012, 12:38 PM

I grew up in a nude house. My parents were nudist. Though, as children we (my sister and I) were not. I was always nude at home, until I had my mastectomy. Then I hated my body and would not let anybody see me. Of course, the nudity around my son's changed once they got older and it made them uncomfortable. My eldest is for the most part a nudist at home. I love this about him - That he is comfortable about his body (he is quite overweight) and carries no shame or body issues... His wife is the same, though she was not until after they met.

If I were alone in my house - I would be sitting here naked LOL - oh yes I would be.

Julie

View Poll Results: How often are you nude?
Never-nude; clothing always.	27	20.93%
Ever-nude; frequently without clothing.	33	25.58%
Semi-nude; bras & panties are a go (or boxers).	69	53.49%
Voters: 129. You may not vote on this poll

03-01-2012, 08:29 PM	#42
nekohl Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: . Relationship Status: . Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Gone Posts: 446 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 632 Thanked 2,162 Times in 382 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Au naturale as much as possible __________________

03-01-2012, 08:32 PM	#43
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03-01-2012, 08:48 PM	#44
suebee Member How Do You Identify?: TOWANDA! Preferred Pronoun?: Queen Bee Relationship Status: Good 'n married. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Eastern Canada. But if I make a wrong turn at the lights I get stopped by a border guard. Posts: 1,499 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,355 Thanked 2,756 Times in 820 Posts Rep Power: 16450092	I find myself at a stage in my life where I need - how shall I say it ........ ABSORBENCY if I don't want to have to change the sheets every night. There's nothing like skin-on-skin cuddling, but at some point in the night I usually have to put at least a T-shirt on to deal with my nightly menopausal sweat-fest. If I'm alone I'll usually be wearing something, but now that I'm coupled, I like to be able to touch and be touched. It's just comforting. __________________ "Compassion, in which all ethics must take root, can only attain its full breadth and depth if it embraces all living creatures and does not limit itself to mankind." -Albert Schweitzer

03-01-2012, 09:40 PM	#46
Alurra Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: feminine ones Relationship Status: Single and social! Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: San Francisco Posts: 625 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 621 Thanked 1,264 Times in 348 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I used to sleep in the nude...until we had a sizeable earthquake in the middle of the night. Wouldn't that just be the icing on the cake? The house falls down and you have no clothes on. __________________ http://dl9.glitter-graphics.net/pub/...rik9yeyjcd.jpg We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are. ~ Anais Nin

03-01-2012, 12:40 PM	#41
Hack Just a guy. How Do You Identify?: Just a guy Preferred Pronoun?: male Relationship Status: Sparkle's consort Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: MA Posts: 1,458 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 807 Thanked 3,776 Times in 958 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I guess I am an always clothed guy. I've never been comfortable sleeping naked. I will on occasion, after I have known you a while. But I will almost always be in boxers or boxer briefs in bed. In pajama bottoms in the winter. Sometimes with a tshirt or beater, sometimes not. For me, there is a disconnect with my body that makes naked weird for me. Also, I am modest by nature. If a girl really wants skin on skin spooning or cuddling, I can be persuaded, but I am almost always in my boxers in bed.

03-01-2012, 09:10 PM	#45
Sassy Member How Do You Identify?: Female Relationship Status: Together Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: In the sunshine Posts: 598 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 815 Thanked 1,929 Times in 460 Posts Rep Power: 19641164	Nude. Exception: In the winter time, a warm robe, just so I don't have to have the heat cranked so high.

03-01-2012, 11:20 PM	#48
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03-02-2012, 04:58 AM	#49
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03-02-2012, 10:52 AM	#50
1QuirkyKiwi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: BBW. Unique femininity that does not encompass the western paradigm. Preferred Pronoun?: Anything Respectful! Relationship Status: Single, Happy, not Desparate or Looking, but Open to Possibilities... Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Europe and Aotearoa on a 5:2 ratio. Posts: 2,308 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,003 Thanked 6,035 Times in 1,617 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I share a house with my male English cousin and regardless of the fact he's a Nurse, sooooo, when he's here I'm clothed; when he's not, I'm Au Naturelle in my Birthday suit! __________________ What will make the difference to me is your strength of character and what's in your heart...

03-02-2012, 11:03 AM	#51
Novelafemme Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ........ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ........ Posts: 2,402 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,981 Thanked 8,925 Times in 1,834 Posts Rep Power: 0	There are five women living in my house, including me, so I do my best to keep my clothes on. I have scared Katy's mom many times as I come down the hall at 3am after a trip to the kitchen for orange juice and I'm buck naked!

03-02-2012, 03:47 PM	#53
Miss_J Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: ? Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Michigan Posts: 508 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,415 Thanked 1,558 Times in 324 Posts Rep Power: 10308963	For myself... I bare it all. Having roomies is often interesting but they were warned before they moved in I may slip to the bathroom in my skin suit only so look the other way if it bothers them. hmmm come to think of it no word yet on if it bothers. I once dated a butch who wouldnt even shower w me without having boxers on.. ahh well.. we all have our own comfort levels. __________________

03-02-2012, 07:06 PM	#55
pajama Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Klingon Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Just South of Nashvegas Baby Posts: 3,115 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,546 Thanked 7,476 Times in 1,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I had to vote not nude, but only because I live with The Boy. When he's not home, underwear (usually boxers) only.

03-04-2012, 04:02 PM	#56
rustedrims Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Northern Ohio close to Lake Erie and ice-cream places Posts: 444 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,123 Thanked 2,553 Times in 367 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	In the summer i prefer to wear nothing to bed and in the winter i wear socks..I cant sleep if my feet are cold.. Around the house i at least wear a t-shirt and socks..Eventually the sweats come on..I have a big sliding door off the deck without any blinds..One side i have plants..Not real private if someone stops by to visit..Right now t-shirt and socks.. s..

03-06-2012, 09:38 AM	#57
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03-06-2012, 09:53 AM	#58
apretty Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: sea shell Relationship Status: married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: san diego Posts: 1,687 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,927 Thanked 4,373 Times in 1,012 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	When I got into bed last night and most nights, E is wearing sweats, socks, a hoodie, and a tee-shirt (plus underthings). He says all of the layering is due to the weather and the fact that it's winter--But really? We live in San Diego. (Today's low is 50 degrees.)

03-06-2012, 09:58 AM	#59
apretty Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: sea shell Relationship Status: married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: san diego Posts: 1,687 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,927 Thanked 4,373 Times in 1,012 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	*not san diego.

03-06-2012, 12:38 PM	#60
Julie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Angel * Femme * Lesbian * Girl * Woman * Slut * Bitch * Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: No longer a Virgin Bride to Dreamer ~ May 17th, 2014 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: New York Posts: 4,674 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,676 Thanked 18,160 Times in 3,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I grew up in a nude house. My parents were nudist. Though, as children we (my sister and I) were not. I was always nude at home, until I had my mastectomy. Then I hated my body and would not let anybody see me. Of course, the nudity around my son's changed once they got older and it made them uncomfortable. My eldest is for the most part a nudist at home. I love this about him - That he is comfortable about his body (he is quite overweight) and carries no shame or body issues... His wife is the same, though she was not until after they met. If I were alone in my house - I would be sitting here naked LOL - oh yes I would be. Julie __________________ “Sometimes only one person is missing and the whole world seems depopulated.” ~ Alphonse de Lamartine - 1790-1869 http://i374.photobucket.com/albums/o...ps4d9fb6c0.jpg I Love You ~ I Love Us May 17, 2014