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03-23-2017, 03:33 PM
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in hard times, don't go for the jugular......
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03-23-2017, 06:22 PM
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be patient and let the other one catch up to what you just said...even if it takes awhile. Even if they argue against it. Even if you feel you werent heard...
and if they still didnt hear you...say it softer instead of harder.
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Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
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03-23-2017, 07:18 PM
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~ Be all of yourself, not just the "pretty picture" parts, even during the honeymoon.
~ Remember there are 2 people to think of in major decisions that will affect the other person. ~ Know when to walk away and give space when it's needed. ~ Communicate in any way possible. ~ Stay in touch with your passions and core beliefs. ~ Validate the other person's feelings. ~ Try to act out of love & care, not resentment. ~ Stay connected. ~ Spend quality time. ~ Don't forget all of the little things that made you fall in love with each other in the first place. ~ Get help if you need it. ~ Recognize and face if it isn't working out.
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Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot. D. H. Lawrence 
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03-23-2017, 07:33 PM
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At the very start of the relationship read The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman and determine your partners language.
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03-23-2017, 07:44 PM
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Amen. In my opinion, there is no way around knowing this type of important information to avoid being lost in translation and not knowing why.
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Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot. D. H. Lawrence
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03-24-2017, 04:36 AM
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03-24-2017, 07:41 AM
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"I'm sorry" goes a long way
Apparently, "I'm sorry I hurt your feelings" are just empty words.
Even if your intent wasn't to hurt someone's feelings, once they are hurt a heartfelt "I'm sorry" makes things better. Two morals to this story: Less is more. You can teach an old butch new tricks. 
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03-24-2017, 08:43 AM
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listen , share , laugh a lot together, seduce w/your body & soul , feast on hys needs , give in 2 hym.
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03-24-2017, 05:45 PM
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stay true to who you are... its easy to forget who you are sometimes....
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06-30-2017, 04:40 PM
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keep that communication going!
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06-30-2017, 11:27 PM
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Laugh, a lot!!!
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07-01-2017, 05:12 AM
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Show up, in every way.
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07-01-2017, 05:17 AM
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Keep those neurochemicals flowing. There's nothing like healthy daily doses of adrenaline, endorphins, enkephalins, and oxytocin to keep a relationship alive and healthy.
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07-01-2017, 04:24 PM
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be supportive when they are dealing with their own life's tuff stuff.
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07-01-2017, 06:13 PM
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Know when to keep your cake hole shut.
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07-01-2017, 06:14 PM
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Pick your battles! and only pick the ones you can win!
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07-31-2017, 06:54 PM
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by all means lean on each other..............
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07-31-2017, 07:41 PM
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Have integrity and a good moral compass, during the relationship, and even after it's over.
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07-31-2017, 07:53 PM
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07-31-2017, 07:55 PM
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Have some consideration for the other person. It goes a long way.
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I'm misunderestimated. 
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