The older I get, the more I realize... - Page 35

bigbutchmistie · 12-12-2010, 12:58 PM

The older I get the more I realize :

I need more out of a date. I need to feel chemistry on all levels. And for me its there or its not.

If I dont feel on the "same page" with someone I cant be with them.

I need someone who "gets me"

Sachita · 12-12-2010, 01:07 PM

The value of patience and tolerance.
To cherish each moment.
To nurture all my relationships.

Isadora · 12-12-2010, 01:18 PM

My sisters rock
Toughy's sisters rock

We are, indeed, lucky to have sisters who are amazing. I hope you do, too.

JustJo · 12-12-2010, 04:30 PM

That actions don't just speak louder than words...they can completely drown them out.

That real communication takes real effort.

That compromise is important...and so is making a stand...and the hardest thing is knowing when to do each of those.

Kobi · 12-12-2010, 08:08 PM

If I share something troubling, it dissipates a lot faster.

When play becomes work and causes me to feel strife,
it is no longer play. Strife is not an acceptable option.

You often connect better with the most unlikely person.

Soft*Silver · 12-12-2010, 08:14 PM

...there's no place like home...

and always buy the right kind of lubricant for the sex play you are going to indulge in...

Bobbi · 12-12-2010, 08:38 PM

That I'm pretty cool for an old lady and I don't need another person to make my life complete or enjoyable. My life is very special and I really enjoy it.

Blade · 12-12-2010, 09:00 PM

I love my cooking........ugggg but I sure hate to clean up the kitchen behind myself

Tcountry · 12-12-2010, 09:27 PM

toigtmir....
...that as much as I want to always be there and not let anyone get hurt...I can't be everywhere...and sometimes hurt is part of the process...

Starbuck · 12-12-2010, 11:01 PM

The older I get, the more fond of naps I become.

Ebon · 12-13-2010, 01:13 AM

The Older I Get The More I Realize I have body parts that I didn't know were there because they never hurt until now.

socialjustice_fsu · 12-13-2010, 06:00 AM

...I have kind of started liking some country music.

...I used to talk myself in short little sentences, now I have a full
conversation.

...trying to move a 120 lb mirror up 19 steps to the apartment alone is not
using good sense.

...that paying attention to detail is essential.

...respect is truly earned.

...hearing the voices of special people in my life when they answer the
phone ~ It means they are still here and I say a prayer of gratitude.

...developing gratitude changes the way I see the world.

asphaltcowboi · 12-13-2010, 06:45 AM

that everything happens exactly as it is suposed to.. no sence in stressing or trying to change things that are going to happen anyway. that its easier to accept change and go on about my life then it is to fight to keep things from changing.

JustLovelyJenn · 12-13-2010, 07:06 PM

The older I get the more I realize...

... That threats really DO work, if your willing to follow through with them...

*evil chuckle*

JAGG · 12-13-2010, 07:34 PM

The older I get the more I realize, I'm getting older.

Jaques · 12-14-2010, 06:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie

The older I get the more I realize :

I need more out of a date. I need to feel chemistry on all levels. And for me its there or its not.

If I dont feel on the "same page" with someone I cant be with them.

I need someone who "gets me"

......but what about YOU getting THEM?

Blade · 12-14-2010, 07:33 PM

that my old bones and joints are not meant to be outside working when it is below 20 degrees and the wind is blowing.

Isadora · 12-15-2010, 11:33 PM

...that confidence strokes your power while arrogance strokes your ego. Really. They are so not the same.

little_ms_sunshyne · 12-16-2010, 12:29 AM

......I'VE GOT NOTHING TO LOSE!

SnackTime · 12-16-2010, 10:23 AM

that i DISLIKE winters

12-12-2010, 01:07 PM	#682
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,994 Times in 2,247 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	The value of patience and tolerance. To cherish each moment. To nurture all my relationships. __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

12-12-2010, 01:18 PM	#683
Isadora Member How Do You Identify?: Momma, Ma'am Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her Relationship Status: I am in love. Truly Madly Deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 997 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 502 Thanked 2,127 Times in 559 Posts Rep Power: 2369288	My sisters rock Toughy's sisters rock We are, indeed, lucky to have sisters who are amazing. I hope you do, too. __________________ "I have a respect for manners as such, they are a way of dealing with people you don't agree with or like." Margaret Mead Read me! www.leatherati.com

12-12-2010, 04:30 PM	#684
JustJo Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: pushy broad Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Follow your heart; it knows things your mind cannot explain. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Southeast corner Posts: 5,633 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 24,417 Thanked 25,406 Times in 4,660 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	That actions don't just speak louder than words...they can completely drown them out. That real communication takes real effort. That compromise is important...and so is making a stand...and the hardest thing is knowing when to do each of those. __________________ I'm not tall enough to ride emotional roller coasters

12-12-2010, 08:08 PM	#685
Kobi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Biological female. Lesbian. Relationship Status: Happy Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Hanging out in the Atlantic. Posts: 9,234 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,840 Thanked 34,634 Times in 7,640 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	If I share something troubling, it dissipates a lot faster. When play becomes work and causes me to feel strife, it is no longer play. Strife is not an acceptable option. You often connect better with the most unlikely person. __________________

12-12-2010, 08:14 PM	#686
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,907 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	...there's no place like home... and always buy the right kind of lubricant for the sex play you are going to indulge in... __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

12-12-2010, 12:58 PM	#681
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	The older I get the more I realize : I need more out of a date. I need to feel chemistry on all levels. And for me its there or its not. If I dont feel on the "same page" with someone I cant be with them. I need someone who "gets me"

12-12-2010, 08:38 PM	#687
Bobbi Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: florida Posts: 22 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1 Thanked 28 Times in 12 Posts Rep Power: 44431	That I'm pretty cool for an old lady and I don't need another person to make my life complete or enjoyable. My life is very special and I really enjoy it. __________________ "Life's a dance you learn as you go" I never claimed to be Ginger Rogers!

12-12-2010, 09:00 PM	#688
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,855 Thanked 14,414 Times in 4,058 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I love my cooking........ugggg but I sure hate to clean up the kitchen behind myself __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

12-12-2010, 09:27 PM	#689
Tcountry Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Country Boi Preferred Pronoun?: call it as u see it Relationship Status: Completely...complete ;) Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Either at the beach or in the pool Posts: 1,665 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,929 Thanked 4,287 Times in 1,181 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	toigtmir.... ...that as much as I want to always be there and not let anyone get hurt...I can't be everywhere...and sometimes hurt is part of the process... __________________ "You don't Find life worth living; You MAKE IT that way"

12-12-2010, 11:01 PM	#690
Starbuck Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Soft Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Oklahoma City Posts: 2,436 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,378 Thanked 2,148 Times in 756 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	The older I get, the more fond of naps I become. __________________ To forgive is to set the prisoner free, And then discover the prisoner was you.

12-13-2010, 01:13 AM	#691
Ebon Senior Member How Do You Identify?: With my souls eyes. Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: lol Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Here Posts: 3,476 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,524 Thanked 11,142 Times in 2,757 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	The Older I Get The More I Realize I have body parts that I didn't know were there because they never hurt until now. __________________ In Lak'ech Ala K'in I'm a Soul Rebel http://wannabereverend.wordpress.com/ Spirituality is not a belief system or ideology, it is the surrender of one's ego to the infinite wisdom and knowledge that is the universe.

12-13-2010, 06:00 AM	#692
socialjustice_fsu Member How Do You Identify?: Feminine Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: It’s all good. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: The gulf waters are sapphire blue and the beach sand is white as snow. Posts: 607 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,866 Thanked 2,155 Times in 439 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	The older I get the more I realize... ...I have kind of started liking some country music. ...I used to talk myself in short little sentences, now I have a full conversation. ...trying to move a 120 lb mirror up 19 steps to the apartment alone is not using good sense. ...that paying attention to detail is essential. ...respect is truly earned. ...hearing the voices of special people in my life when they answer the phone ~ It means they are still here and I say a prayer of gratitude. ...developing gratitude changes the way I see the world.

12-13-2010, 06:45 AM	#693
asphaltcowboi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Relationship Status: HAPPY Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: ..... Posts: 1,509 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,367 Thanked 3,297 Times in 1,042 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	that everything happens exactly as it is suposed to.. no sence in stressing or trying to change things that are going to happen anyway. that its easier to accept change and go on about my life then it is to fight to keep things from changing. __________________

12-13-2010, 07:06 PM	#694
JustLovelyJenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: That's Need to Know Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Aberdeen, WA Posts: 4,478 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,464 Thanked 13,992 Times in 3,684 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	The older I get the more I realize... ... That threats really DO work, if your willing to follow through with them... evil chuckle __________________ --Jenn

12-13-2010, 07:34 PM	#695
JAGG Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: JAGG Relationship Status: =) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tulsa (cat free zone) Posts: 6,093 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,651 Thanked 17,531 Times in 4,137 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	older The older I get the more I realize, I'm getting older. __________________ I don't want to spend my life with someone I can live with, I want to spend my life with someone I can't live without.

12-14-2010, 07:33 PM	#697
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,855 Thanked 14,414 Times in 4,058 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	that my old bones and joints are not meant to be outside working when it is below 20 degrees and the wind is blowing. __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

12-15-2010, 11:33 PM	#698
Isadora Member How Do You Identify?: Momma, Ma'am Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her Relationship Status: I am in love. Truly Madly Deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 997 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 502 Thanked 2,127 Times in 559 Posts Rep Power: 2369288	...that confidence strokes your power while arrogance strokes your ego. Really. They are so not the same. __________________ "I have a respect for manners as such, they are a way of dealing with people you don't agree with or like." Margaret Mead Read me! www.leatherati.com

12-16-2010, 12:29 AM	#699
little_ms_sunshyne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: . Posts: 3,312 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,339 Thanked 12,241 Times in 2,541 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	......I'VE GOT NOTHING TO LOSE!

12-16-2010, 10:23 AM	#700
SnackTime Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: UNattainable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Feeling the ocean breeze... Posts: 4,868 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,393 Thanked 13,228 Times in 2,883 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	The older I get, the more I realize... that i DISLIKE winters __________________ "There's something to be said for not saying anything"