03-16-2012, 03:50 PM | #61 |
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And I didn't mean that in a bad way....I have simply found that when people say they are "X", then they are always going to be "X"....they might change their ways for a while, but they always end up going back to "X". Does that make sense?
(and this is just MY personal experience I am speaking of)
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... there is no such thing as forever..or should i amend that with forever can have very different contexts depending on who is using it..people will lie to you, and lie to themselves..make sure you are clear & honest if you decide to use that term in your relationships to avoid disappointment altogether don't use it at all (imo)here & now is where your focus should be, evaluate & make sure it's what you need not want you wish it to be
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i've learned that you can become colder more jaded each time something hits you right in the face. Sometimes i wish i could learn never to let anything hurt me, ever again, then i could say i learned to shut off my hurt.
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there has to be ugly in the world to help us appreciate the beauty more some ppl need to try to run you down to make themselves look/feel better. that people who really wanna know you will take the time to do so i want to be a better person. Last edited by scootebaby; 03-18-2012 at 07:55 PM. Reason: forgot one :) |
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i've learned that life is just not all puffy clouds and rainbows. Those things are part of it, but living the reality of daily life, not a fantasy, is what i need in my life. i've learned i don't do well with not having a future laid out, goals, budgets, and a plan to meet those goals. i won't go through life coasting and not knowing, i need concrete plans and the action behind the plan. i've learned i need someone in my life who leads by example, not just empty words, i've learned i lose faith in people when they say one thing and do another, i've learned i need people in my life who make life happen for themselves, not let life happen to them. i have learned that i thrive with someone who gets all of this, wants to live a real life with me, and not play in a virtual bubble of playing house.
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i have learned always to trust my own instincts )))
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i am learning that i self impose stress and then don't handle it well
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