Unwritten rules.... - Page 4

cathexis · 08-30-2022, 04:23 AM

Especially if you asked her out...

Open all car doors, carry whatever she needs you to, and walk curbside anytime you're on a sidewalk.

If you really want to impress her, you could order for her at the restaurant, if she smokes, light her cigarette, etc.

Buy her some flowers or a corsage if you take her out for the first time, to a dance, or on a holiday.

kittygrrl · 08-30-2022, 03:11 PM

enjoys poetry

Jedi · 08-31-2022, 02:20 AM

Not just talk about the fluff stuff but have serious heart to hearts

clay · 08-31-2022, 07:00 AM

kindness to others

nina03 · 09-01-2022, 11:02 AM

Must love animals. I currently have three dogs, two cats, and three goats. Fortunately Max loves them too, but if I somehow ended up single again, I wouldn't be able to date someone who didn't want to live with pets.

kittygrrl · 09-01-2022, 05:55 PM

for a date-show up a little early

kittygrrl · 09-01-2022, 06:01 PM

(before your date)invest a little time getting to know her through text or im...shell appreciate that she is on your mind

Stone-Butch · 09-01-2022, 08:34 PM

Don't talk about your hard day or bad news, keep it upbeat. After all , you can only make one first impression. Show her you are happy she is out with you.

kittygrrl · 09-03-2022, 02:48 PM

hot & tender

kittygrrl · 09-06-2022, 06:23 PM

in a tense situation does hy think before she/hy speaks

kittygrrl · 10-10-2022, 01:20 PM

..... nice

Stone-Butch · 10-10-2022, 06:45 PM

No means No !

MaddieRobbie · 10-12-2022, 07:11 AM

It was Anthony Bourdain who said "If someone spends the night with you at your home, it's common courtesy to know how to prepare them a decent omelet."

AlexF · 10-12-2022, 06:42 PM

Interested and aware of the world outside their door/borders

This is a great thread.

kittygrrl · 10-15-2022, 10:18 AM

fearless...

kittygrrl · 10-25-2022, 02:49 PM

new adventure..trying something neither of us have experienced but can mutually appreciate

Bèsame* · 10-27-2022, 12:51 PM

asking me what kind of coffee to have on hand. And what kind I want in it.

AlexF · 10-27-2022, 06:55 PM

consistency...

Stone-Butch · 10-30-2022, 04:56 PM

Never assume.

Bèsame* · 11-09-2022, 09:41 AM

Please keep honesty transparent, don't candy coat it.

08-30-2022, 04:23 AM	#61
cathexis Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?: They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status: open Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Great White North! Posts: 4,332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,812 Thanked 4,707 Times in 1,604 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Especially if you asked her out... Open all car doors, carry whatever she needs you to, and walk curbside anytime you're on a sidewalk. If you really want to impress her, you could order for her at the restaurant, if she smokes, light her cigarette, etc. Buy her some flowers or a corsage if you take her out for the first time, to a dance, or on a holiday. __________________ Insurrection is an art, and like all arts has its own laws. -----Leon Trotsky

08-30-2022, 03:11 PM	#62
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,356 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,565 Thanked 21,947 Times in 7,073 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	enjoys poetry __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

08-31-2022, 02:20 AM	#63
Jedi Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: they are my world Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In a galaxy far, far away Posts: 959 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,002 Thanked 1,732 Times in 544 Posts Rep Power: 12678953	Not just talk about the fluff stuff but have serious heart to hearts __________________ May the Force be with you!

08-31-2022, 07:00 AM	#64
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09-01-2022, 05:55 PM	#66
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,356 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,565 Thanked 21,947 Times in 7,073 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	for a date-show up a little early __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

09-01-2022, 11:02 AM	#65
nina03 Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/her, or they/them Relationship Status: Very married and in love Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Renton, WA Posts: 333 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 242 Thanked 1,001 Times in 262 Posts Rep Power: 8811370	Must love animals. I currently have three dogs, two cats, and three goats. Fortunately Max loves them too, but if I somehow ended up single again, I wouldn't be able to date someone who didn't want to live with pets.

09-01-2022, 06:01 PM	#67
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,356 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,565 Thanked 21,947 Times in 7,073 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	(before your date)invest a little time getting to know her through text or im...shell appreciate that she is on your mind __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

09-01-2022, 08:34 PM	#68
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,617 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,223 Thanked 9,280 Times in 2,998 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Unwritten Rules Don't talk about your hard day or bad news, keep it upbeat. After all , you can only make one first impression. Show her you are happy she is out with you.

09-03-2022, 02:48 PM	#69
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,356 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,565 Thanked 21,947 Times in 7,073 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	hot & tender __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

09-06-2022, 06:23 PM	#70
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,356 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,565 Thanked 21,947 Times in 7,073 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	in a tense situation does hy think before she/hy speaks __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

10-10-2022, 01:20 PM	#71
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,356 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,565 Thanked 21,947 Times in 7,073 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	..... nice __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

10-10-2022, 06:45 PM	#72
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,617 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,223 Thanked 9,280 Times in 2,998 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Unwritten rules No means No !

10-12-2022, 07:11 AM	#73
MaddieRobbie Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Free Join Date: Aug 2018 Location: Brooklyn Posts: 96 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34 Thanked 311 Times in 79 Posts Rep Power: 2491087	It was Anthony Bourdain who said "If someone spends the night with you at your home, it's common courtesy to know how to prepare them a decent omelet."

10-12-2022, 06:42 PM	#74
AlexF Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Join Date: May 2020 Location: USA East Coast Posts: 201 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 378 Thanked 376 Times in 141 Posts Rep Power: 5191405	Interested and aware of the world outside their door/borders This is a great thread.

10-15-2022, 10:18 AM	#75
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,356 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,565 Thanked 21,947 Times in 7,073 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	fearless... __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

10-25-2022, 02:49 PM	#76
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,356 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,565 Thanked 21,947 Times in 7,073 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	new adventure..trying something neither of us have experienced but can mutually appreciate __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

10-27-2022, 12:51 PM	#77
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,366 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,102 Thanked 40,929 Times in 10,721 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	asking me what kind of coffee to have on hand. And what kind I want in it. __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

10-27-2022, 06:55 PM	#78
AlexF Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Join Date: May 2020 Location: USA East Coast Posts: 201 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 378 Thanked 376 Times in 141 Posts Rep Power: 5191405	consistency...

10-30-2022, 04:56 PM	#79
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,617 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,223 Thanked 9,280 Times in 2,998 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Unwritten Rules Never assume.

11-09-2022, 09:41 AM	#80
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,366 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,102 Thanked 40,929 Times in 10,721 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	Please keep honesty transparent, don't candy coat it. __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.