The older I get, the more I realize... - Page 41

Chad · 05-28-2016, 07:56 PM

I have learned that what really matters is relationships with other humans and pets. I try to be a good human I am polite, honest, and kind to other humans and pets.

Everyday I try to be the best me possible.

kittygrrl · 05-28-2016, 08:53 PM

love never dies..

LOQUI · 05-28-2016, 10:43 PM

Il est très simple: on ne voit bien qu'avec le cœur. L'essentiel est invisible pour les yeux.

Here is my secret.
It is very simple: It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.

-The Little Prince-

JustLovelyJenn · 05-29-2016, 12:56 AM

The older I get, the more I realize...

I still am not very grown up... and I hope I never am.

Bèsame* · 05-29-2016, 08:41 AM

Dancing is fun! But more breaks are needed between songs! Lol

Gayandgray · 05-29-2016, 04:15 PM

The older I get the more I realize, I just don't give a damned what other people think of me!!! I am ME, take me or leave me, I couldn't care less.

candy_coated_bitch · 05-29-2016, 05:01 PM

The older I get the more I realize I dont feel older inside.

Kelt · 05-29-2016, 08:24 PM

"Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose"

is true

- Janis Joplin

TL1 · 05-30-2016, 09:13 AM

How petty some things are....

Blade · 05-30-2016, 01:04 PM

Change is good, but not always

Chad · 06-23-2016, 11:32 AM

The older I get the more I realize just how valuable my time is. I am making the moments count.

JRM · 06-23-2016, 02:46 PM

The older I get the more I realize my fatass can't do flips off the diving board like I use to and I sure as hell can't bounce back quickly from a hangover like I use to

Prudence · 07-21-2016, 06:33 PM

In the end, it does not matter anyway.

candy_coated_bitch · 07-21-2016, 06:47 PM

That most situations, good or bad, are not permanent. You're never truly stuck.

anotherbutch · 07-21-2016, 07:43 PM

The older I get the more I realize how important it is to be comfortable in ones own skin... if you don't like yourself, it makes it tough for anyone else to like you.

Bubala · 07-21-2016, 08:26 PM

If one wants to be happy one should never get too attached to their work. Never take shit personally, never drag your work home with you, never check your work phone or emails from home or g-d forbid from vacation! Come 5 o'clock log off, run out and unplug. That's the path to happiness!

Gayandgray · 08-08-2016, 02:45 PM

The older I get the more I realize, that you have to get rid of toxic people in your life. Friends that are toxic definately need to GO, and even though family is a bit harder to get away from, you still need to limit the amount of time you give them. Negativity is so bad for you, and needy, negative, toxic people will only drag you down.

JDeere · 08-08-2016, 06:13 PM

That I'm dumber than I used to be. God help me.

Smiling · 08-08-2016, 07:47 PM

To take delicious advantage of the restorative magic that is nap time!
Simple pleasures are the best treasures.
It's worth the time and effort to be good to myself.
Listening more, and talking less is something more people ought to try.
Slowing down/aging has its advantages, too.

femmeandstrong · 08-09-2016, 04:54 AM

that few things are needed...
that fewer yet matter...
but those that do...
I want to hold dear...
and cherish and treasure and never let go...
and nurture and feed them ...
and enjoy watching them grow...

that it is love and kindness alone that will stand
the test of endurance...
the thing that will last
without having an end..

(from the ramblings of a reluctant adventurer from a very small treehouse )

05-28-2016, 07:56 PM	#801
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,315 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Older I have learned that what really matters is relationships with other humans and pets. I try to be a good human I am polite, honest, and kind to other humans and pets. Everyday I try to be the best me possible.

05-29-2016, 12:56 AM	#804
JustLovelyJenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: That's Need to Know Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Aberdeen, WA Posts: 4,478 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,464 Thanked 13,992 Times in 3,684 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	The older I get, the more I realize... I still am not very grown up... and I hope I never am. __________________ --Jenn

05-29-2016, 08:41 AM	#805
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,382 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,118 Thanked 40,949 Times in 10,733 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	Dancing is fun! But more breaks are needed between songs! Lol __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

05-29-2016, 04:15 PM	#806
Gayandgray Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Together a really long time Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: In my mind? On a tropical island Posts: 4,860 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,584 Thanked 12,877 Times in 3,079 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	The older I get the more I realize, I just don't give a damned what other people think of me!!! I am ME, take me or leave me, I couldn't care less. __________________

05-29-2016, 05:01 PM	#807
candy_coated_bitch Pixie Stick How Do You Identify?: The arteest formerly known as musicfemme. Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Happily taken. Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Northampton, MA Posts: 11,293 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,723 Thanked 31,830 Times in 6,111 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	The older I get the more I realize I dont feel older inside. __________________ My Etsy Shop My Patreon My Website

05-28-2016, 08:53 PM	#802
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05-28-2016, 10:43 PM	#803
LOQUI Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Non Binary, Trans, Always Me. :) Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 1,139 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,335 Thanked 2,486 Times in 848 Posts Rep Power: 19030327	Il est très simple: on ne voit bien qu'avec le cœur. L'essentiel est invisible pour les yeux. Here is my secret. It is very simple: *It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.* -The Little Prince-

05-29-2016, 08:24 PM	#808
Kelt Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Beach Butch Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: SoCal Posts: 2,751 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 19,765 Thanked 15,289 Times in 2,539 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	"Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose" is true - Janis Joplin

05-30-2016, 09:13 AM	#809
TL1 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch of stone Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: East coast Posts: 2,892 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,111 Thanked 3,456 Times in 1,007 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	How petty some things are.... __________________ "Our bodies were printed as blank pages to be filled with the ink of our hearts”

05-30-2016, 01:04 PM	#810
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,855 Thanked 14,414 Times in 4,058 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Change is good, but not always __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

06-23-2016, 11:32 AM	#811
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,315 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Realize The older I get the more I realize just how valuable my time is. I am making the moments count.

06-23-2016, 02:46 PM	#812
JRM Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Not looking Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: Ohio Posts: 116 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 40 Thanked 386 Times in 107 Posts Rep Power: 5899365	The older I get the more I realize my fatass can't do flips off the diving board like I use to and I sure as hell can't bounce back quickly from a hangover like I use to

07-21-2016, 06:33 PM	#813
Prudence Member How Do You Identify?: "congratulations, it's a girl" Preferred Pronoun?: Woman Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Second star to the right, and straight on till morning. Posts: 509 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,333 Thanked 1,177 Times in 363 Posts Rep Power: 9187054	In the end, it does not matter anyway. __________________ "There is a vitality, a life force, and energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and because there is only one of you in all of time, this expression is unique."---Martha Graham

07-21-2016, 06:47 PM	#814
candy_coated_bitch Pixie Stick How Do You Identify?: The arteest formerly known as musicfemme. Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Happily taken. Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Northampton, MA Posts: 11,293 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,723 Thanked 31,830 Times in 6,111 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	That most situations, good or bad, are not permanent. You're never truly stuck. __________________ My Etsy Shop My Patreon My Website

07-21-2016, 07:43 PM	#815
anotherbutch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single and very content this way... Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: the midwest Posts: 1,784 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 317 Thanked 1,298 Times in 365 Posts Rep Power: 9955620	The older I get the more I realize how important it is to be comfortable in ones own skin... if you don't like yourself, it makes it tough for anyone else to like you.

07-21-2016, 08:26 PM	#816
Bubala Member How Do You Identify?: Lady Sunflower Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: San Fran Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 463 Thanked 1,671 Times in 615 Posts Rep Power: 9338276	If one wants to be happy one should never get too attached to their work. Never take shit personally, never drag your work home with you, never check your work phone or emails from home or g-d forbid from vacation! Come 5 o'clock log off, run out and unplug. That's the path to happiness! __________________ When life turns its back on you....grab its ass

08-08-2016, 02:45 PM	#817
Gayandgray Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Together a really long time Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: In my mind? On a tropical island Posts: 4,860 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,584 Thanked 12,877 Times in 3,079 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	The older I get the more I realize, that you have to get rid of toxic people in your life. Friends that are toxic definately need to GO, and even though family is a bit harder to get away from, you still need to limit the amount of time you give them. Negativity is so bad for you, and needy, negative, toxic people will only drag you down. __________________

08-08-2016, 06:13 PM	#818
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08-08-2016, 07:47 PM	#819
Smiling Senior Member How Do You Identify?: with a distinct flair Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: somewhere else Posts: 1,852 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,623 Thanked 4,388 Times in 1,009 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	The older I get, the more I realize... To take delicious advantage of the restorative magic that is nap time! Simple pleasures are the best treasures. It's worth the time and effort to be good to myself. Listening more, and talking less is something more people ought to try. Slowing down/aging has its advantages, too. __________________ Beauty is truth's smile when she beholds her own face in a perfect mirror. -Rabindranath Tagore

08-09-2016, 04:54 AM	#820
femmeandstrong Member How Do You Identify?: just me...imperfect but warm-hearted me Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: I am alright and still smiling - keeping my eyes on what lasts and matters Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: New England Posts: 325 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 352 Thanked 1,040 Times in 279 Posts Rep Power: 8187133	that few things are needed... that fewer yet matter... but those that do... I want to hold dear... and cherish and treasure and never let go... and nurture and feed them ... and enjoy watching them grow... that it is love and kindness alone that will stand the test of endurance... the thing that will last without having an end.. (from the ramblings of a reluctant adventurer from a very small treehouse )