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Yes, I would date myself, I think."Wait...a date? What is that? Have I ever done that?" "What?" "Date, you know!" "I do?" "Yeah, yeah. Remember? You've been out on a few dates? You know, you get the call, or you make the call, then a few days later you get in your car, drive somewhere to meet up with the Butch you are interested in for a movie, dinner. You know that kind of thing." "Oh, is that what those activities were a long time ago? Well, I never really went on many of those. Maybe a couple, once or twice, maybe... Yes, okay I admit it, I did a few times. Remember what usually happened? I'd go out on one or two of those date deals, then the third time, maybe actually the second time, the date was in the bed, or sofa, on the floor, you know.. forget dinner or a movie, we'd just skip to the sex:-) There would be a few of those kind of dates, then we'd move in together." "Hmm, actually, I think there is supposed to be something about dating that I skipped. Like maybe actually dating, you know not getting into the sex stuff so soon. I haven't done anything like that for a very long time." "Well, not with another person, dear. You've gone out with yourself, several times. How was that? "Very fun. But you know, I hadn't even taken myself on a date before I jumped into the sack with myself." "You hussy! I don't think its supposed to work that way when you date someone else, you know." "Well, it didn't, I did wait until the second or third date when I dated someone else." "Kayso, I've established that not only would I date myself, but I do date myself." "Yes, dear, you have. Do you date anyone else?" "Um, no." "Do you want to?" "Um...well...I don't know. Maybe...but, then maybe not. I don't think I really understand about dating." Well, there you have it. I think my Gemini brain is done having a conversation with itself on the topic of the question.
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Yes, I would. I'm intelligent, honest, polite and a good dancer.... ;?)...
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I can't remember if I posted in this thread already or not, but I am too lazy to look.
No, I would not date me. My core self, my values, yes, I would. But, I can be too self absorbed at times, I think. No one I have dated has actually called me that, but I think it is accurate. I can get in my own head and focused on my own stuff, I think. Also, I can become a bit emtionally distant and unaccessible, at times. Just because of the above, I think (not b/c I am "distancing", per se). I can be brought back, but personally, I like a more attentive partner! I HAVE gotten WAY better over time, though!
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I would date me for the super dinners i give - at least I'd get a good meal outa me
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You would say that!
Me on the other hand... I know I have said it before! No F*G* Way.
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I think I already am. Except she never takes me anywhere. She's always working.
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I am still only dating myself, these days. But..I have started having conversations with others about what dating is in regard to dating another person. I can't believe I am so ignorant in this area! But, within a year or so of coming out, the Feminist "movement" hit the San Francisco area and dating between lesbians seemed to get pushed out the window along with Butch & Femme.
In high school I didn't date because I wasn't interested in guys. I did hang out with my girlfriends, a lot. But they were as femme as I was and not latent lesbians, anyway. Plus, back then, even the "free love" attitude of the hippies in San Francisco did not include owning oneself as "gay" in the high schools of the city. I think I've actually been practicing dating on myself the past few years and I'm a pretty good date, now;-) Maybe, someday I'll get good enough at it that I will actually date someone else! What a concept:-)
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Date myself? Oh no. For starters, neither of us would be able to decide where to go, I'd probably take offence at myself then be offended that I was offended, I'd have an opinion which went against everything that I believed, and I'd wanna be on top and so would I, so neither of us would be happy.
I much prefer dating other people thanks.
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I think I would if I were less hairy and had boobs and no muscles.
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Why yes I would
I'm cute I'm funny I'm true blue I'm sweet I'm adorable And I'll do my best to beat you at any and all video games
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I'd totally date me. I'm a great conversationalist.
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I would not date me. Nothing personal. I am already spoken for.
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yes. fork yeah! i appreciate: space, motorbikes, animals, multidimensionality, insects, twisted humour, differences, being activist/advocating - for The Good Fight, baked goods, getting lost, and nature [as a language also]. the big turn on>> crazy dancing in the kitchen, talking about art, an ability to see all the way round something, and maintain a reservoir of abundant bounce-back if holding on tight for the long run. right buttons pushed, please.
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Good Question
Oh Hell No.
Although, I am totally cute and funny and an excellent cook and a good hearted woman who'd like be loving a good hearted man, er woman (however IDed?) . But, alas, I digress; the answer - more vehemently and with passion: Oh. Hell. No.
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Absolutely...not. I am quite a handful, it takes a certain kind of person to handle me. Im not that person I would most likely kill me lol
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I am moody, vain, sometimes petulant and can be a bit of a prima donna .... therefore, I probably would date myself but this would be a bad thing as the "relationship" would break-up with acrimony after a few dates.
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From a me place yes I probably would because I know me and get me....
From an 'other' place I would WANT to because I think I have a lot to offer...I love spoiling someone and being affectionate,Im funny, not too smart but can carry a conversation, I'm an excelllent cook, love critters, love chillin on the porch listening to the frogs (my special time is 7pm), I'm a home body and am very home oriented but I can be taken out in public without embarrassing you.... BUT I expect back what I give, attention, conversation, sex, understanding, same standard of living, similar levels of energy, I will make you the center of my world but it is a requirement that I be the center of yours....it can be all about you as long as you make me think its all about me To me all that is pretty simple but again thats from a 'me place' and I get me most of the time....hmmm I wonder if I am available Friday night...lol
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Nah...I'm just not my type.
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