Would you date yourself? - Page 6

Diva · 05-03-2011, 03:41 PM

Oh hellz yeah.....I would date me, I would eat my cooking, I would take me to heaven and back and show me how a Rubenesque redheaded wickedlyinnocentwildwoman should be treated and make me thank me later. Then I would kiss me deeply and ask me to marry me. I might do that in Belize, but shhhhhh....don't tell me that part.

redrose · 05-05-2011, 09:50 AM

date myself? why not? but enter into a relationship, i have to think a million times...

- physically speaking, you can't put me on display
- change moods easily
- nagger
- freakin jealous type, (as in paranoid)
- you'll be walking on eggshell
- not easy to handle
- you can never ever go out of the relationship

oh what was the question again,,,
would you date yourself?
YES, why not

1QuirkyKiwi · 12-03-2011, 08:41 AM

....Bump!

I date myself sometimes - I enjoy being with people, but, I don’t need constant social interaction and I also enjoy my alone time, allowing me to process my thoughts, feelings, to do my hobbies, to feel the Ocean bubbles gently kissing my feet or whatever I feel like doing.

Would I date me as a person? …….Ummm……..yes and no! LOL! I’ve been told I can be a handful (minds out of the gutters! LOL!). I’m an offbeat person with a somewhat demented sense of humour - having been told I often have people laughing in stitches and sometimes gob-smacked (although you may wonder just how my mind works! LOL!) I appreciate not everyone will understand me as a person and some have tried to tame me! I’m free-spirited, determined, most definitely unique and a little rebellious (within the law, lol!) at times. I refuse to conform to any ‘label’ that could possibly be given to me.

I have an abundance of thoughtfulness, love, affection, resourcefulness, sensuality, intuition, instinct, loyalty, devotion and kindness. These traits I’d DEFINITELY date me for and the sense of humour! As for being a handful, I’m not sure I could cope with that to be honest! LOL! I would have to have a loving and tolorent, yet, disciplined nature – one that is firm, but, not aggressive. Also, I’d need an amazing amount of energy to keep up with me! LOL!

Gemme · 12-03-2011, 04:53 PM

I've decided I would if it were an open relationship.

Slowpurr · 12-30-2011, 08:21 AM

Yes, because I am a caring, decent individual who tries deeply to be as honest as possible.

...and No because I can be rigid and selfish in my needs.

Morgan · 12-30-2011, 12:14 PM

Hell No....too butch, would be like dating my best buddy. Not that I don't have all the good qualities I am looking for in someone though, lol.

12-30-2011, 12:17 PM

Nope...I don't date numpties!

apretty · 12-30-2011, 12:21 PM

yes and often!

Queerasfck · 12-30-2011, 12:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by apretty

yes and often!

She would also tell herself never to call again, tell herself to **** off, and then hang up.
But it would all work out in the end.

apretty · 12-30-2011, 12:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by John Shaft

She would also tell herself never to call again, tell herself to **** off, and then hang up.
But it would all work out in the end.

i would NOT! MYSELF would have to common sense to stop calling. xoxo

MissItalianDiva · 12-30-2011, 12:37 PM

LOL....hell no! I think I am pretty wonderful and a great catch but I don't have the ability or patience to deal with me sometimes

ButchEire · 12-30-2011, 12:37 PM

Nope,

I'm just not attracted to blue eyes. True story.

apretty · 12-30-2011, 12:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ButchEire

Nope,

I'm just not attracted to blue eyes. True story.

me too! thankfully E's are green but I usually prefer brown--brown soulful terrier eyes.

tazz · 12-30-2011, 12:45 PM

yes i would. i'm a fantastic catch!

Honey · 01-01-2012, 04:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by apretty

me too! thankfully E's are green but I usually prefer brown--brown soulful terrier eyes.

YES !! Not only would I date me I'd fuck me too !!

starryeyes · 01-01-2012, 05:21 PM

Haha.... Yes!! Of course! I am fabulous! Lol :-D

*Anya* · 01-01-2012, 05:22 PM

No, I would not, not because I am not terrific (lol) but because:

1. I am not butch

2. I am attracted to traits in a butch that I may not have and that complement my own traits

3. I believe opposites do attract as long as the same core values match

StrongButch · 02-24-2012, 06:10 PM

Yes Yes Yes

chai~ · 02-24-2012, 06:23 PM

I would date me for some of my characteristics.
I'm not sexually attracted to femmes, but I do make a great femme bff!
I prefer masculine energy sexually.

As others have said about themselves, I can also be a handful, sometimes moody, forgetful, distracted, aloof, disinterested, crabby, emotional, and messy.

I would make a better best friend to myself!

.

Metro · 02-24-2012, 10:44 PM

yes and no. most often i find myself gravitating toward those with a similar low-key personality. i am the strong silent type but by no means shy. creativity and shared values also set a good foundation for the types of relationships in which i thrive, see myself and feel most comfortable. and, while i salute other butches, i am physically attracted only to those of the femme persuasion.

05-05-2011, 09:50 AM	#102
redrose Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: at peace Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Philippines Posts: 291 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 62 Thanked 251 Times in 122 Posts Rep Power: 276023	date myself? why not? but enter into a relationship, i have to think a million times... - physically speaking, you can't put me on display - change moods easily - nagger - freakin jealous type, (as in paranoid) - you'll be walking on eggshell - not easy to handle - you can never ever go out of the relationship oh what was the question again,,, would you date yourself? YES, why not __________________ ... death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal ... http://youtu.be/N0SgLJEtaok

12-03-2011, 08:41 AM	#103
1QuirkyKiwi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: BBW. Unique femininity that does not encompass the western paradigm. Preferred Pronoun?: Anything Respectful! Relationship Status: Single, Happy, not Desparate or Looking, but Open to Possibilities... Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Europe and Aotearoa on a 5:2 ratio. Posts: 2,308 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,003 Thanked 6,035 Times in 1,617 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	....Bump! I date myself sometimes - I enjoy being with people, but, I don’t need constant social interaction and I also enjoy my alone time, allowing me to process my thoughts, feelings, to do my hobbies, to feel the Ocean bubbles gently kissing my feet or whatever I feel like doing. Would I date me as a person? …….Ummm……..yes and no! LOL! I’ve been told I can be a handful (minds out of the gutters! LOL!). I’m an offbeat person with a somewhat demented sense of humour - having been told I often have people laughing in stitches and sometimes gob-smacked (although you may wonder just how my mind works! LOL!) I appreciate not everyone will understand me as a person and some have tried to tame me! I’m free-spirited, determined, most definitely unique and a little rebellious (within the law, lol!) at times. I refuse to conform to any ‘label’ that could possibly be given to me. I have an abundance of thoughtfulness, love, affection, resourcefulness, sensuality, intuition, instinct, loyalty, devotion and kindness. These traits I’d DEFINITELY date me for and the sense of humour! As for being a handful, I’m not sure I could cope with that to be honest! LOL! I would have to have a loving and tolorent, yet, disciplined nature – one that is firm, but, not aggressive. Also, I’d need an amazing amount of energy to keep up with me! LOL! __________________ What will make the difference to me is your strength of character and what's in your heart...

12-03-2011, 04:53 PM	#104
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,600 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,281 Thanked 108,806 Times in 25,674 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	I've decided I would if it were an open relationship. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

12-30-2011, 12:14 PM	#106
Morgan Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, hy, hym, does not matter Relationship Status: I am enjoying life.... Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Arizona Posts: 643 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,753 Thanked 1,604 Times in 411 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Hell No....too butch, would be like dating my best buddy. Not that I don't have all the good qualities I am looking for in someone though, lol. __________________ “If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want, and all that is left is compromise.” Robert Fritz

12-30-2011, 12:45 PM	#114
tazz Member How Do You Identify?: Athlete/tomboi Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, cutie Relationship Status: Estoy recibiendo cómodo con él Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: you never know where i might end up ;) Posts: 1,365 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,807 Thanked 1,759 Times in 642 Posts Rep Power: 20456638	yes i would. i'm a fantastic catch! __________________ "She walks a different path than some of us, but those on her wavelength enjoy the journey with her." --DLOS

05-03-2011, 03:41 PM	#101
Diva Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Diva Preferred Pronoun?: Diva Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Chez Diva Posts: 11,879 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,263 Thanked 17,178 Times in 5,238 Posts Rep Power: 0	Oh hellz yeah.....I would date me, I would eat my cooking, I would take me to heaven and back and show me how a Rubenesque redheaded wickedlyinnocentwildwoman should be treated and make me thank me later. Then I would kiss me deeply and ask me to marry me. I might do that in Belize, but shhhhhh....don't tell me that part.

12-30-2011, 08:21 AM	#105
Slowpurr Member How Do You Identify?: Stone femme Relationship Status: ** Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Posts: 286 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 833 Thanked 632 Times in 211 Posts Rep Power**: 21474849	Yes, because I am a caring, decent individual who tries deeply to be as honest as possible. ...and No because I can be rigid and selfish in my needs.

12-30-2011, 12:17 PM	#107
Daktari Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	Nope...I don't date numpties!

12-30-2011, 12:21 PM	#108
apretty Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: sea shell Relationship Status: married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: san diego Posts: 1,687 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,927 Thanked 4,378 Times in 1,015 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	yes and often!

12-30-2011, 12:37 PM	#111
MissItalianDiva Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Miss Twiggy Preferred Pronoun?: Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious and that shit doesn't sound atrocious! Relationship Status: divorce happens..all that glitters ain't gold Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: SLC Utah Posts: 2,284 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,768 Thanked 7,161 Times in 1,793 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	LOL....hell no! I think I am pretty wonderful and a great catch but I don't have the ability or patience to deal with me sometimes

12-30-2011, 12:37 PM	#112
ButchEire Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanent ban 3/17/2013 - TROLL Relationship Status: Partner to my best friend Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: For now, Buffalo Posts: 701 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,618 Thanked 1,874 Times in 485 Posts Rep Power: 0	Nope, I'm just not attracted to blue eyes. True story.

01-01-2012, 05:21 PM	#116
starryeyes Senior Member How Do You Identify?: a round peg in a square hole Preferred Pronoun?: Guess... Relationship Status: Seat taken Join Date: May 2011 Location: Rocky Mountain High Posts: 2,491 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,199 Thanked 10,056 Times in 2,077 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Haha.... Yes!! Of course! I am fabulous! Lol :-D

01-01-2012, 05:22 PM	#117
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,789 Times in 7,290 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	No, I would not, not because I am not terrific (lol) but because: 1. I am not butch 2. I am attracted to traits in a butch that I may not have and that complement my own traits 3. I believe opposites do attract as long as the same core values match __________________ ~Anya~ Democracy Dies in Darkness ~Washington Post "...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable." UN Human Rights commissioner Last edited by Anya; 01-01-2012 at 05:24 PM. Reason: The usual- a typo:(

02-24-2012, 06:10 PM	#118
StrongButch Member How Do You Identify?: I see the world thru a lens Preferred Pronoun?: Yes Boss Relationship Status: Chillin out with awesome women Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: San Francisco Posts: 1,376 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,018 Thanked 4,184 Times in 1,179 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Would you date yourself Yes Yes Yes

02-24-2012, 06:23 PM	#119
chai~ Member How Do You Identify?: Self possessed Aquarian Preferred Pronoun?: Don't call me baby~ Relationship Status: Deliciously single and loving it. Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: lotus land Posts: 1,173 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,937 Thanked 3,383 Times in 864 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I would date me for some of my characteristics. I'm not sexually attracted to femmes, but I do make a great femme bff! I prefer masculine energy sexually. As others have said about themselves, I can also be a handful, sometimes moody, forgetful, distracted, aloof, disinterested, crabby, emotional, and messy. I would make a better best friend to myself! .

02-24-2012, 10:44 PM	#120
Metro Senior Member How Do You Identify?: • Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: • Posts: 1,606 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,476 Thanked 2,915 Times in 733 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	yes and no. most often i find myself gravitating toward those with a similar low-key personality. i am the strong silent type but by no means shy. creativity and shared values also set a good foundation for the types of relationships in which i thrive, see myself and feel most comfortable. and, while i salute other butches, i am physically attracted only to those of the femme persuasion.