Single FTM's & Femme's - Page 60

JDeere · 01-12-2015, 08:18 PM

Welcome to the thread, glad to see someone post in here!

Hominid · 03-18-2015, 05:08 PM

Hello all -

Newly single, ready to date if not marry! I'm a really nice guy. I tend toward the kinky and dominant, but every relationship I've had births itself. My last relationship was power exchange, daddy/girl. We found that together. My first daddy experience, although I've been drawn to it quietly in a few other relationships. I think I'm decent looking, I fear sometimes I'm too far transitioned and too male identified to be comfortable here - but alas, I love queer women, and I AM trans, even if nobody can tell and few I'm around know (or they know, or suspect, but never say anything ... the world is small and the rumor mill enormous).
I'm well employed, fairly financially stable although I've had some bumps in the road the last six months: house fire, two dead dogs, a legal issue now resolved but quite humiliating. I have a great piece of property on which I'm building a nice house - surrounded by waterfalls and a river. I like birds, reading, stupid TV, eating out and road trips. I'm an open book with intimates, somewhat remote from others; collect old first editions books, have two dumb dogs, and although I might seem pessimistic, I'm absolutely hopelessly romantic and if I commit to something I mean it. I believe in honor, and questioning it is a deep insult.
I'd love to date - or talk, or whatever. I met my last love here, and she was (is, I am choosing to believe) beautiful and wonderful and we were incredibly compatible - life got in the way and we were limited in our individual paths of grief and anger to get through it. Better to find our sooner rather than later that your partner doesn't have the same orientation towards committment, I suppose. But if anyone wants to chat and see where it goes - feel free to contact me. I don't jump into bed, I am incredibly shy, but if I catch you, you've got me till the bitter end!

curlyredhead · 10-12-2015, 10:34 AM

Just thought I would give this thread a bump. I am single in my 30's. Live in Plano, TX. Completely post op. If you want to know more feel free to ask, I don't bite, well maybe sometimes .

JustLovelyJenn · 10-13-2015, 05:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by curlyredhead

Just thought I would give this thread a bump. I am single in my 30's. Live in Plano, TX. Completely post op. If you want to know more feel free to ask, I don't bite, well maybe sometimes .

You do so bite!! but one has to ask nicely...

AmazonDC · 12-27-2015, 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Heavenleahangel

***BUMP***

Where are all the singles at? Femme here looking for "the good guy" that seems so elusive! Where are you all at?

You just haven't been looking in the right places

butchplease · 01-19-2016, 05:41 AM

Swedish Femme looking for someone who is sweet on the street and a little bit kinky in the sheets. I would love to start of by getting to know you and see where that leeds.
I am a 25 year old artist and graphic designer with a lot of humour and sass.

pumpndude · 11-19-2016, 04:42 PM

Hi to all, what happened to all that posted?
did this site die out?

Lets keep this thread going.....I'm single and want to find that special femme, but for now I will have patience....I want to be with the right femme...

hope people will find this thread too....

StudMafia · 06-08-2017, 04:56 AM

Hello names Chris. But my friends call me Panda. Im 35years old and recently single. Im from Los Angeles California. And im looking for a fem to get to know from my area. Add me or hit up my snapchat at Stud_Mafia

girlin2une · 06-17-2017, 09:17 AM

*Bumping*

I am fairly newly single. I've had my fair share of ups and downs, successes and failures and have learned many life lessons. No matter what someone says to you, there is always someone out there that you are compatible with.
Myself, I have 2 children who are my priority. Unless someone is willing to get to know them, I don't have any use for that person. These are great kids. Of course, like ALL siblings, they don't always see eye to eye, but they love each other with a passion.
I'm a quirky, loving, compassionate femme who tends toward the kinky side. I have so much to offer and would love to meet people who are like minded. Not just here to meet a partner... I would love to get to know more people.

sabedawi · 08-04-2017, 04:20 PM

Hello all... I just joined up, and this seems like a great thread to start. I need to vent.

OMG. I'm so done with being single!!! I feel like I'll never find what I'm looking for! I'm mega queer... masculine/butch/trans, seeking a femme or femme-ish woman.

It seems it's an impossible place to be....I'm off the grid for many lesbians because I don't entirely identify as 'woman'... at the same time, straight women aren't interested, because I don't have the appendage.

To top it off, I'm not great looking and have an obnoxious and cocky personality

Should I give up??

DapperButch · 08-04-2017, 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by sabedawi

Hello all... I just joined up, and this seems like a great thread to start. I need to vent.

OMG. I'm so done with being single!!! I feel like I'll never find what I'm looking for! I'm mega queer... masculine/butch/trans, seeking a femme or femme-ish woman.

It seems it's an impossible place to be....I'm off the grid for many lesbians because I don't entirely identify as 'woman'... at the same time, straight women aren't interested, because I don't have the appendage.

To top it off, I'm not great looking and have an obnoxious and cocky personality

Should I give up??

Nahhhh, don't give up! Welcome to the site! We have queers of all stripes here!

imperfect_cupcake · 08-04-2017, 07:33 PM

Indeed. There are those out there like me who consider themselves ... well I have my own name for my sexuality and that's Queer Dyke. Meaning I am attracted to FtMs who see themselves as part of a queer masculine gender continuum, rather than those who are "I'm just regular straight bloke" masculine gender, I'm also attracted to genderqueer butches, garden variety butch, "soft" butch, and femme daddy/macho femme types.

There are people out there, it's sometimes very hard to find them.

Just leave your rod in the pond and wonder off to go create something lovely for yourself. Nibbles happen.

Teddybear · 10-09-2017, 08:37 PM

This thread always seems to just linger.

Femmes where are you?? FtMs where are you?

Holding a 2x4 waiting I know someone will need it

DapperButch · 10-10-2017, 06:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Teddybear

This thread always seems to just linger.

Femmes where are you?? FtMs where are you?

Holding a 2x4 waiting I know someone will need it

"Present"!

indigo · 12-07-2017, 04:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DapperButch

"Present"!

Here, too !!

Hominid · 03-19-2018, 09:55 PM

Never have been around a lot - single for a while but poking around the site again. I’m glad to see it’s still active!

Leigh · 05-26-2018, 11:50 AM

Well it's been awhile since I've been here, after a recent break up, I figured that it was time I came home. This site has been so significant for me that I wanted to come back and reacquaint myself with everyone. So, here I am........

I am a proud queer femme. I seek my equal,my soulmate. I am a hopeless romantic, have a quirky sense of humour, love to laugh and have fun. I wanna find my best friend first, and let things develop naturally. Until then, I hope to just have some fun and meet some new people :-)

DapperButch · 05-26-2018, 01:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Leigh

Well it's been awhile since I've been here, after a recent break up, I figured that it was time I came home. This site has been so significant for me that I wanted to come back and reacquaint myself with everyone. So, here I am........

I am a proud queer femme. I seek my equal,my soulmate. I am a hopeless romantic, have a quirky sense of humour, love to laugh and have fun. I wanna find my best friend first, and let things develop naturally. Until then, I hope to just have some fun and meet some new people :-)

Leigh, I am sorry about your breakup. I hope you are doing ok.

Evolving · 07-08-2018, 09:46 AM

Hello all!
I am ftm recently single. Was with the same woman for 14 years and now i have finally taken the leap of transitioning into who i am. I am a heteroflexible man who first and foremost are looking for women.
I am not looking for a new relationship, but I would love to chat with someone, flirting is great too

Dean Thoreau · 07-11-2018, 04:34 AM

Well here I am checking in, trying to understand the new dating norms my transition requires.
I’m a man; an ftm, straight, gay... who knows I am me and I am attracted to femme women,
At my age is it possible for a chance of Love and a LTR who knows.
I hope so, it would be nice to settle in with a nice beautiful lady, that is close to my age.
Walk the downhill slope together with some side trips to see and do whatever we want. Enjoy this retirement and the independence it brings.

03-18-2015, 05:08 PM	#1182
Hominid Member How Do You Identify?: Male with interesting historical perspective Relationship Status: Taking Applications Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: In perpetual Wonder. And Western Mass. Posts: 254 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 417 Thanked 753 Times in 187 Posts Rep Power: 11507408	Re-intro Hello all - Newly single, ready to date if not marry! I'm a really nice guy. I tend toward the kinky and dominant, but every relationship I've had births itself. My last relationship was power exchange, daddy/girl. We found that together. My first daddy experience, although I've been drawn to it quietly in a few other relationships. I think I'm decent looking, I fear sometimes I'm too far transitioned and too male identified to be comfortable here - but alas, I love queer women, and I AM trans, even if nobody can tell and few I'm around know (or they know, or suspect, but never say anything ... the world is small and the rumor mill enormous). I'm well employed, fairly financially stable although I've had some bumps in the road the last six months: house fire, two dead dogs, a legal issue now resolved but quite humiliating. I have a great piece of property on which I'm building a nice house - surrounded by waterfalls and a river. I like birds, reading, stupid TV, eating out and road trips. I'm an open book with intimates, somewhat remote from others; collect old first editions books, have two dumb dogs, and although I might seem pessimistic, I'm absolutely hopelessly romantic and if I commit to something I mean it. I believe in honor, and questioning it is a deep insult. I'd love to date - or talk, or whatever. I met my last love here, and she was (is, I am choosing to believe) beautiful and wonderful and we were incredibly compatible - life got in the way and we were limited in our individual paths of grief and anger to get through it. Better to find our sooner rather than later that your partner doesn't have the same orientation towards committment, I suppose. But if anyone wants to chat and see where it goes - feel free to contact me. I don't jump into bed, I am incredibly shy, but if I catch you, you've got me till the bitter end! __________________ Comfort the Disturbed Disturb the Comfortable

10-12-2015, 10:34 AM	#1183
curlyredhead Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Female to Male "Straight" Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Plano, TX Posts: 385 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 644 Thanked 893 Times in 265 Posts Rep Power: 5285384	Bumping the Thread Just thought I would give this thread a bump. I am single in my 30's. Live in Plano, TX. Completely post op. If you want to know more feel free to ask, I don't bite, well maybe sometimes .

01-19-2016, 05:41 AM	#1186
butchplease Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: Sweden Posts: 3 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1 Thanked 9 Times in 2 Posts Rep Power: 0	Femme for FTM Swedish Femme looking for someone who is sweet on the street and a little bit kinky in the sheets. I would love to start of by getting to know you and see where that leeds. I am a 25 year old artist and graphic designer with a lot of humour and sass.

11-19-2016, 04:42 PM	#1187
pumpndude Member How Do You Identify?: Good Guy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: Sonora, CA Posts: 108 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3 Thanked 211 Times in 70 Posts Rep Power: 1503251	Hey There Hi to all, what happened to all that posted? did this site die out? Lets keep this thread going.....I'm single and want to find that special femme, but for now I will have patience....I want to be with the right femme... hope people will find this thread too.... __________________ Everything Ending Is Also A Beginning We Just Don't Know It At The Time

06-08-2017, 04:56 AM	#1188
StudMafia Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Daddy/FTM/StoneButch Preferred Pronoun?: He/Him Relationship Status: Single Join Date: May 2017 Location: Los Angeles Cali Posts: 14 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11 Thanked 24 Times in 6 Posts Rep Power: 9	Hello names Chris. But my friends call me Panda. Im 35years old and recently single. Im from Los Angeles California. And im looking for a fem to get to know from my area. Add me or hit up my snapchat at Stud_Mafia __________________ Single in Los Angeles Chris F. Panda

01-12-2015, 08:18 PM	#1181
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Welcome to the thread, glad to see someone post in here!

06-17-2017, 09:17 AM	#1189
girlin2une Senior Member How Do You Identify?: submissive queer stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Canada Posts: 3,827 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,752 Thanked 3,845 Times in 856 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Bumping I am fairly newly single. I've had my fair share of ups and downs, successes and failures and have learned many life lessons. No matter what someone says to you, there is always someone out there that you are compatible with. Myself, I have 2 children who are my priority. Unless someone is willing to get to know them, I don't have any use for that person. These are great kids. Of course, like ALL siblings, they don't always see eye to eye, but they love each other with a passion. I'm a quirky, loving, compassionate femme who tends toward the kinky side. I have so much to offer and would love to meet people who are like minded. Not just here to meet a partner... I would love to get to know more people. __________________ How do you define courage? Is it the absence of fear? You might think, under the weight of your fears, "I am not courageous." But maybe you have the wrong perspective. Courage can be measured in many ways, and is not the absence or denial of fear, but the willingness to act vulnerably. When you're faced with the unknown and then you stand on the edge of risk, courage brings you to the point where you are able to take flight, though you might be unsure of your wings.

08-04-2017, 04:20 PM	#1190
sabedawi Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Alien Relationship Status: Forever alone Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: Leicestershire Posts: 1 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post Rep Power: 0	lonely butch... too queer for love :( Hello all... I just joined up, and this seems like a great thread to start. I need to vent. OMG. I'm so done with being single!!! I feel like I'll never find what I'm looking for! I'm mega queer... masculine/butch/trans, seeking a femme or femme-ish woman. It seems it's an impossible place to be....I'm off the grid for many lesbians because I don't entirely identify as 'woman'... at the same time, straight women aren't interested, because I don't have the appendage. To top it off, I'm not great looking and have an obnoxious and cocky personality Should I give up??

08-04-2017, 07:33 PM	#1192
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Indeed. There are those out there like me who consider themselves ... well I have my own name for my sexuality and that's Queer Dyke. Meaning I am attracted to FtMs who see themselves as part of a queer masculine gender continuum, rather than those who are "I'm just regular straight bloke" masculine gender, I'm also attracted to genderqueer butches, garden variety butch, "soft" butch, and femme daddy/macho femme types. There are people out there, it's sometimes very hard to find them. Just leave your rod in the pond and wonder off to go create something lovely for yourself. Nibbles happen.

10-09-2017, 08:37 PM	#1193
Teddybear Senior Member How Do You Identify?: by my name Preferred Pronoun?: He, him Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Here there everywhere. Posts: 2,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,620 Thanked 6,233 Times in 1,687 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	This thread always seems to just linger. Femmes where are you?? FtMs where are you? Holding a 2x4 waiting I know someone will need it __________________ I am ME take me as I am or leave me be..

03-19-2018, 09:55 PM	#1196
Hominid Member How Do You Identify?: Male with interesting historical perspective Relationship Status: Taking Applications Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: In perpetual Wonder. And Western Mass. Posts: 254 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 417 Thanked 753 Times in 187 Posts Rep Power: 11507408	Never have been around a lot - single for a while but poking around the site again. I’m glad to see it’s still active! __________________ Comfort the Disturbed Disturb the Comfortable

05-26-2018, 11:50 AM	#1197
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	Well it's been awhile since I've been here, after a recent break up, I figured that it was time I came home. This site has been so significant for me that I wanted to come back and reacquaint myself with everyone. So, here I am........ I am a proud queer femme. I seek my equal,my soulmate. I am a hopeless romantic, have a quirky sense of humour, love to laugh and have fun. I wanna find my best friend first, and let things develop naturally. Until then, I hope to just have some fun and meet some new people :-) __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

07-08-2018, 09:46 AM	#1199
Evolving Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Ftm Preferred Pronoun?: He/Him Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2018 Location: Sweden Posts: 3 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 12 Times in 3 Posts Rep Power: 0	Hello all! I am ftm recently single. Was with the same woman for 14 years and now i have finally taken the leap of transitioning into who i am. I am a heteroflexible man who first and foremost are looking for women. I am not looking for a new relationship, but I would love to chat with someone, flirting is great too

07-11-2018, 04:34 AM	#1200
Dean Thoreau Member How Do You Identify?: Ftm - Male- exfemale Preferred Pronoun?: He’s Him Relationship Status: Has a gf Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Philadelphia pa Posts: 889 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 251 Thanked 762 Times in 219 Posts Rep Power: 4529750	Well here I am checking in, trying to understand the new dating norms my transition requires. I’m a man; an ftm, straight, gay... who knows I am me and I am attracted to femme women, At my age is it possible for a chance of Love and a LTR who knows. I hope so, it would be nice to settle in with a nice beautiful lady, that is close to my age. Walk the downhill slope together with some side trips to see and do whatever we want. Enjoy this retirement and the independence it brings. __________________ Dean Thoreau