What is on your mind - Page 692

JDeere · 03-29-2018, 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Gayandgray

Way too much right now! Thinking about my spouse’s daughter and how hard this is going to get. My stepson and I are trying to plan ahead because you never know. We have to see if the doctor will even say it’s ok for her to fly, because she is in such poor health, we have to board all three dogs.... Then we have the never ending drama with the grandkids and their addictions. They don’t have custody of their babies, of course, so when my spouse wants to see her great grandkids we have to arrange it with their other grandmothers who have custody. A friend suggested I try going to Al Anon meetings ( not sure how to spell) and I’m going to look more into this. The stress is just too much. The other day when we got the news about her granddaughter my spouse nearly lost it. I had to pick her up off the floor because she fell down crying and screaming. These kids don’t realize how bad their drug/alcohol addictions are tearing the families apart.

I understand the frustration and pain but an addict wont change until they are truly ready. My suggestion as ive been on both sides, cut off said children till they get help. Go to as many al anon meetings you can and seek therapy. Good luck.

CherryWine · 03-29-2018, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by homoe

OMG what an EXCELLENT opportunity to meet a new neighbor!

Obviously you are not an introvert. I'd probably stab a few fingers off using Gemme's method first before this thought ever crossed my mind...lol.

Gayandgray · 03-30-2018, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet as Cake

The thing that's been on my mind all day is the fact that - I spent the entire day yesterday with a friend ( that I haven't known long), and she was constantly looking at her phone !!!
( Facebook, messages, etc., I guess ?). I am getting really tired of everyone doing that these days !!! When I am with someone, I give them my undivided attention, look them in the eyes, hang on every word, and enjoy good conversation !!! ( the way it should be !!

). Sure, I love my phone, iPad, etc., but they are for private time !! I treasure actual "personal" interactions with people !

Does anyone out there feel the same way ??!!

I’m with you! Especially when it’s a friend I don’t get to see too often and they pay more attention to their phone than to me. I feel like why did I even bother to get together?

TL1 · 03-30-2018, 04:31 PM

Getting a blood sugar monitor. I’m not diabetic but have times where they say I am pre-diabetic then times they say I’m not. Feeling more health conscious these days and have a desire to improve and keep tabs on what is going on with my body. No major health issues happening and I’d like to keep it that way.

But from what I’ve read those monitors can be pretty off on the numbers so I’m still researching which one is best.

JDeere · 03-30-2018, 04:32 PM

Being drug to good friday church services. Im only going so i can get food afterwards.

Gayandgray · 03-30-2018, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

Being drug to good friday church services. Im only going so i can get food afterwards.

Maybe they will have a ham and scalloped potatoes??? I wouldn’t mind some of that.

Gemme · 03-30-2018, 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by CherryWine

Obviously you are not an introvert. I'd probably stab a few fingers off using Gemme's method first before this thought ever crossed my mind...lol.

Maybe an ice pick instead of a knife? Less chance of cutting. Higher chance of stabbing though.

JDeere · 03-30-2018, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Gayandgray

Maybe they will have a ham and scalloped potatoes??? I wouldn’t mind some of that.

Idk what will be for dinner. All i know is i really dont want to go to church

uglyboi · 03-31-2018, 09:28 PM

When I stop singing I have to immediately load the dishwasher then start break dancing.

SnackTime · 04-04-2018, 08:50 AM

All the things that need to be done in the next 8 days

girl_dee · 04-04-2018, 09:29 AM

getting through the next 7 work days.

JDeere · 04-04-2018, 07:57 PM

How to get back into working while my health is still questionable

Trying to get through this month with all the doctors appointments i have

girl_dee · 04-05-2018, 05:24 AM

My brother is on my mind. Today is his birthday. It's always a sad day for me. He is 56 today. i suppose i am sad because i know he is out there, not cerebrating his birth or existence, when it should be celebrated.

Another year of not knowing where or how he is, and another year of him not having his family who loves me anywhere near him.

i also wonder if my mom even thinks about him.

Kenna · 04-05-2018, 10:44 PM

Going solar powered....

clay · 04-06-2018, 01:24 AM

I am starting to empower myself. I am cutting toxicity out of my life. I have always been kind, turn the other cheek, and such. NO MORE! That is often mistaken as "do what you wish to me"

This is in my personal life, and nothing here on this planet!

Gemme · 04-06-2018, 05:15 AM

My work schedule for the day.

Bèsame* · 04-10-2018, 11:02 AM

Orema · 04-10-2018, 12:44 PM

Playing in the sun; I wanna go buy a swim suit and some sunglasses.

We just had a team meeting at the local Panera and we sat outside.

I'm back at work and want to go back out and play.

I know ... I need to sit here, do my work, and be grateful I have a job that I like.

Still ... playing in the sun and having fun is what's on my mind.

cathexis · 04-10-2018, 10:07 PM

Sex...sex...sex...great rough sex!

Partner has Lesbian Bed Death, but I don't....this is very miserable!

A third is needed in our relationship. We have agreed to go poly., but
in this small town in the middle of nowhere in a place where I haven't seen
anyone suitable for a third.

We will move to Albany in the next year.

JDeere · 04-12-2018, 02:00 AM

Hoping that my doc gives me a different anxiety medication

03-30-2018, 04:31 PM	#13824
TL1 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch of stone Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: East coast Posts: 2,892 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,111 Thanked 3,456 Times in 1,007 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	Getting a blood sugar monitor. I’m not diabetic but have times where they say I am pre-diabetic then times they say I’m not. Feeling more health conscious these days and have a desire to improve and keep tabs on what is going on with my body. No major health issues happening and I’d like to keep it that way. But from what I’ve read those monitors can be pretty off on the numbers so I’m still researching which one is best. __________________ "Our bodies were printed as blank pages to be filled with the ink of our hearts”

03-31-2018, 09:28 PM	#13829
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04-04-2018, 08:50 AM	#13830
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04-05-2018, 10:44 PM	#13834
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04-06-2018, 01:24 AM	#13835
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03-30-2018, 04:32 PM	#13825
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04-04-2018, 09:29 AM	#13831
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04-04-2018, 07:57 PM	#13832
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04-05-2018, 05:24 AM	#13833
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,833 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	My brother is on my mind. Today is his birthday. It's always a sad day for me. He is 56 today. i suppose i am sad because i know he is out there, not cerebrating his birth or existence, when it should be celebrated. Another year of not knowing where or how he is, and another year of him not having his family who loves me anywhere near him. i also wonder if my mom even thinks about him.

04-06-2018, 05:15 AM	#13836
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04-10-2018, 11:02 AM	#13837
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04-10-2018, 12:44 PM	#13838
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04-10-2018, 10:07 PM	#13839
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04-12-2018, 02:00 AM	#13840
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