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Old 09-26-2012, 09:07 PM   #1461
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Yes, I truly am. The love I share with my husband, Barnes, has fallen into the most of comfortable of rhythms, executing spiritual, emotional and physicial steps with ease! I am grateful and humbled everyday at the "Dance" and yes, I am TRULY happy!

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Old 09-26-2012, 10:23 PM   #1462
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I find this to be a seriously complex question...At times yes (when I am dancing with my partner). Other times no - but its usually because of some kind of trigger from my seriously fucked up childhood.

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Old 09-27-2012, 05:59 AM   #1463
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This is easy NO not even one my seriously screwed up family members.

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Old 09-27-2012, 06:09 AM   #1464
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In my opinion it is fairly easy to see signs if someone is interested or not without having to superimpose myself to find out.

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have you ever dated someone and not been able to stand the smell of their cologne/perfume?
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False, born anosmic so never smelled anything.


True or false, you have a missing sense?
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Old 09-27-2012, 09:18 AM   #1469
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False, born anosmic so never smelled anything.


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No, but my heart does go out to those that do, and how brave they are for accepting the challenges and continuing to take on life. For that, I applaud them.

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Old 09-27-2012, 11:12 AM   #1470
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I don't know if it is a talent or a curse sometimes, but I can see and understand why people do the things they do. I may not agree with it, but I can understand it. This has caused me to stay in relationships longer then I should but also gives the ability to forgive people and move forward in my life.

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I don't know if it is a talent or a curse sometimes, but I can see and understand why people do the things they do. I may not agree with it, but I can understand it. This has caused me to stay in relationships longer then I should but also gives the ability to forgive people and move forward in my life.

If you won a million dollars what is one thing you would do for yourself, something totally self-centered that has nothing to do with helping others?
I would go buy some bags and shoes I have been drooling over!! Definitely!

What is something that you wanted to do today that you didn't and you regret and wish you did?
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Go see my mother. I feel like a terrible son.

What did you say to someone today that you now wish you hadn't?
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"yes"

familial and platonic relationships aside, do you distinguish between loving someone and being IN love with them? assuming that there IS a distinction, would you ever have a relationship with someone you honestly loved but were not in love with?
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familial and platonic relationships aside, do you distinguish between loving someone and being IN love with them? assuming that there IS a distinction, would you ever have a relationship with someone you honestly loved but were not in love with?
I've had more than one where we stopped the IN bit and kept the more familial love.

No I wouldn't enter into a romantic relationship with someone I'm not IN love with.


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I've had more than one where we stopped the IN bit and kept the more familial love.

No I wouldn't enter into a romantic relationship with someone I'm not IN love with.


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I have. While I know I should say I'm sorry about it, I'm not. I had legal connections that I knew would keep me out of trouble & I used that to the max. It is what it is. ( I was a lot younger then. Lol).

Revisiting Nomad's post;
Do you know/feel the difference between loving someone & being in love?
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I have. While I know I should say I'm sorry about it, I'm not. I had legal connections that I knew would keep me out of trouble & I used that to the max. It is what it is. ( I was a lot younger then. Lol).

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Do you know/feel the difference between loving someone & being in love?
Yes, for me.


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no.

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no.

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just one? uhm uhm uhm ok ok i got it. no. wait. uhm. ok. ok. i got it now. no. wait. maybe........no! ok! yeah! i'm gonna say.... no. hold on. hold on. - thinks - uhm. ok. it's definitely, well......i mean......yeah......it's definitely - hesitates - yeah. it's definitely...........

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being funny. because there are many forms of intelligence but not many forms of funny.

When you were a kid, what did you want to be as a grown up? Did you fulfill that dream?
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When you were a kid, what did you want to be as a grown up? Did you fulfill that dream?

a botanist and a ballerina. no to botanist. yes to ballerina of course. i give 3 shows weekly in my kitchen. feel free to throw roses at my feet.


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