10-18-2012, 07:49 PM | #141 |
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Only 3 ?
Hmmmm...
Honesty. Intelligence A sense of humor there are more but that's a start |
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What are your three non-negotiables (in a relationship)?
Lying
Cheating Doping
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Good Topic!
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Three? Jeeze.
Um okay No smoking, drugs, or drinking to excess (yes, I'm counting that as one thank you very much) Open honest communication, no matter how hard. Understand that I am a mother and while my child does take up a big place in my heart it doesn't mean you can't take up a big place too. |
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[QUOTE=easygoingfemme;678607]Three? Jeeze.
Um okay No smoking, drugs, or drinking to excess (yes, I'm counting that as one thank you very much) Open honest communication, no matter how hard. Understand that I am a mother and while my child does take up a big place in my heart it doesn't mean you can't take up a big place too.[/Q OTE] `~Talon's response : *1* ---Do not snore *2*---Do NOT fart in my bed *3*---Do not fart in my presence *4*---Plese work out regularly. *5*---Eat and dine resonsibility. Out or in. *6*---Love animals, nature, the endless sea....and watching sunsets. *7*---Be a loyal and genuine friend *8*---Treat others as you would hope to be treated. *9 * Take good care of yourself (phsyically, spiritually, open-mindedness, Romantic. PS. : Ambitious....know the right from the wrong. (C'mon...You know the differece I want to be the priority in your life, and you will be mine, of course `~ Love me as you would want to truely loved...THIS IS NOT NEGOTIABLE. ...And believe me..... I will kow you and be able to read what type of person you *really# are underneath it all. |
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In addition to the obvious things like honesty, loyalty, yummy affection, etc.....
~Sense of humor
~basically tidy ~No druggies Duchess
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Having an affair - don't do it Abusing Alcohol and drugs - don't do it Being disrespectful - don't do it |
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I have too many perhaps but here are three...
1. Territorial behavior...you are not a dog and I am definitely not a fire hydrant 2. Yelling....if someone can't speak to me in a calm adult like manner without accusations or self destructive behavior then I have no place for them in my life 3. Dishonesty in any form |
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AMEN to this!
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Must like physical activity IE. running biking hiking camping swimming kayaking golf tennis etc...
Must keep a clean house, can't stand a slob or clutter. Must be affectionate and high sex drive. I need to add one more A partner in projects. I have lived alone all my life and I really want someone who understands teamwork. And wants to do their part in home projects.
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Oh, and Jealousy. Maybe that goes with the territorial disclaimer but no jealous natured people need apply. |
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3 more....lol....sorry...
Don't ask or expect me to change to please you. Same goes for you....don't change to please me. If you aren't honest from day 1 about who you are & what you find important, then how will we know if we're compatible?
Football....if you are SO into football that it's all that matters for the 13 weeks of college games....we aren't a match....at all! <I really mean this....lol>....it's great if you love it & I support that....the "different drum thing" but, it isn't for me at all. Stone.....I'm not being disrespectful...it's just that it's not what I want or need in a partner. <hoping I don't get flamed for this>.... |
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1.) Wet. dear god. have a spine and and don't be afraid of confrontation
2.) I really would rather deal with many troublesome attributes and "difficult" people than someone who is so calm I find them to have no spark. I know many girls like the quiet strong types who are on an even keel. I'm glad there are people who like them. But it's not me. Laugh loud, live with bright colours and I'll put up with you being a pain in the ass. 3.) humour - as in sarcasm, irony, crusty and gritty warmth. |
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SO many people would rather have the easy, calm, nothing ruffles them types....LOL..I am SO not that...ask my ex...it drove her nuts !....Great list Honey! |
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Being a responsible adult, not rich but has their life in order. They vote, pay taxes, have insurance... you know, adult stuff. i need to respect you and i cannot do that if you have an excuse for why you cannot be a functioning adult.
Must not have an addiction. Everyone has a cross to bear, i just can't be that caring, supportive partner who understands but wants things to be better, only to have it backfire on me. Must be Dominant, take charge kinda person 24/7 and not just when it's convenient. i need that stability. Someone who commands respect, not demands it. Must love dogs, can't leave that out. |
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Responsibility - both personal and financial.
No children in the home. Sorry just not my thing and I know it. So why pretend otherwise. Love and be adventurous about food. These are only the first three that come to mind. I have many more, probably why I'm happy being single. LOL |
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Rather than thinking about what I won't tolerate I prefer to think about what I require in a partner. I don't want to enter into a relationship with rules in my head. I think relationships depend on flexibility and compromise. I just want someone who makes me happy.
Intelligence Makes me laugh Is tolerant/forgiving/understanding... because I am.
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heh. if someone can make an idiot of themselves to make me laugh, tease me, take the piss, argue with me in a fun way even thought they are frustrating as hell, I don't care if they can't do their paperwork. Can't change a light bulb. I don't mind slightly helpless in some ways - I need to feel useful too. But as long as they love to make me laugh, love to make me smile, like to show off for my attention, I'm a fabulous audience. And I don't mind a ranty temper (as long as it passes quick) as long as they love people and know how to suck up to me after. And I'd much rather have the high end sizzling chemistry that goes with all of that. I'm a passionate person and I like big colour Just so long as it's not the mindf*ck off-on shit and they know how to cuddle a lot. |
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