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Old 11-12-2011, 11:05 PM   #1
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May I be free from fear. May I be free from suffering.
May I be happy. May I be filled with loving kindness.
May she be free from fear. May she be free from suffering.
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Goodness Gracious, it was a beautiful day today, Thank You.

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May the people of OWS be free from fear.
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Tonight I light a candle for my friend Stephanie. That everything works out in her favor on Monday. And she can find peace and a sense of calm until then. And know her friends are behind her 1000 percent.
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Hail, holy Queen, Mother of Mercy! our life, our sweetness, and our hope! To thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve; to thee do we send up our sighs, mourning and weeping in this vail of tears. Turn, then, most gracious Advocate, thine eyes of mercy toward us; and after this our exile show unto us the blessed fruit of thy womb, Jesus; O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary.

Betty ~ I will surely miss you. I look back on our visits and the laughs we shared.
You were such a beautiful and classy woman, inside and out.
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Blessings to All for a Peaceful and Thankful week. Family gatherings can get us rubbing up against each other, rub lovingly...Blessed Be
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I have been asked by someone who doesn't visit this site much anymore to post in this thread regarding the passing of a member of this site.

Fiercegrrl, aka Nicole, passed away this Sunday after a brave fight with cancer. She left us much too young, not even 30 yet.

I didn't know her well. I did start reading her shortly after she started posting with candor -- and dignity -- about her fight. We conversed via a few rep comments. But I always read her. I know others in this community knew her better than I, started an online site to sell items she made (she was an artist) to support her living expenses and medical needs.

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it looks like my mousie is going to recover from her infection. we still have another week of antibiotics, but she's bright and alert and eating and breathing normally now. thank you all for your warm wishes! mousie thanks you too.

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This is the time of the semester when I see things come together for some of my students and when I see them fall apart for others. Life can feel so deeply rooted and enduring in a moment and so fragile and ephemeral in another.

I have been particularly concerned about three of my students. One of them is living in a camper with her husband and kids. She's lost her home and is trying to go back to school to get the kind of job that will help them buy another home. She is suffering with multiple physical ailments that she bravely struggles through.

Another student has been facing eviction. I have connected her with my church to get her the money and resources she needs to be able to stay in the rental she and her two small children are in. When I called her today to find out where things were, I discovered her phone service had been cut off.

Another student showed up for class all semester and turned in consistently excellent assignments. A few weeks ago her very young daughter was diagnosed with pneumonia and hospitalized. My student stopped coming to class after she emailed me this.

So I'm lighting a candle for each of them and for all my students, so many of whom are given incredibly painful lessons and nevertheless endure them with humility, grace and strength. I respect and admire them deeply.
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Let the collective, powerful, LIGHT of this community thread, shine down safety, warmth, and LIGHT upon all of the helpless and homeless feathered and furry orphaned children who are trying to brace themselves, againest another long, cold, winter
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Lights from the candles in the parks, the cars, the hidden places in our land.

Thanks for the reminder SoNotHer. xo

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Today I light a candle for my Dad. =( I light a candle and pray that if this is the end , let it come quickly, with little pain. He has suffered enough.
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