The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 8

DamselFly · 04-26-2011, 09:23 PM

welcome, nikebutch! this is a good group of people here in this community. things are a little quiet right now. we go through cycles of talking!
i am DamselFly, a single queer stone femme, who lives on a small farm with my housemate (no romantic involvement-she's a gay friend but not into B/f, and i only date butches.) we have 2 horses, one whippet, one turkish alphonsian hound, and one mamacat. they keep us busy! i will post pics of the animals soon.
i am disabled with ms and vision problems. aside from that, i am very happy about turning 50 in may! i am a Taoist/Buddhist Roshi (Zen Priest) and currently studying Ch'an Buddhism. i am educated, used to be a college prof and librarian. i love to read and to study! i also enjoy nature, though i do not camp or kayak or anything active like that. only walking through the fields and the woods now for me.
that's a little about me. i'm sure others will introduce themselves in time. tell us a little about yourself!
namaste,
DamselFly

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Originally Posted by nikebutch110

2 all the sexy ppl!

cuddlyfemme · 04-30-2011, 06:43 AM

Just popping in to say good morning to all the Lofters! I haven't been here in awhile. Its good to be back with everyone!

morningstar55 · 04-30-2011, 07:37 AM

mawning lofters
i should of slept a lil longer after being woke up during the night, and was woke again by another car honin outside for someone in a house.. whats up wth that crap,im sure they have a cell phone and can call the person they r there for.. GGRRrrr .. ok count 1 , 2 , 3
Ok.. i am thinking.. will go to Homedepot and get a couple of poster size cuts of ply wood, and paint 2 signs and post them on each end of the street.....

QUIET ZONE MIDNIGHT TO 7AM!!!! NO HONKING OF CAR HORNS!!!

blueeyes226_l · 04-30-2011, 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme

Just popping in to say good morning to all the Lofters! I haven't been here in awhile. Its good to be back with everyone!

Hey,
Welcome back cuddlyfem! A lot of us haven't been on here. By the way welcome back everyone!

cuddlyfemme · 04-30-2011, 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l

Hey,
Welcome back cuddlyfem! A lot of us haven't been on here. By the way welcome back everyone!

thanks for the welcome back, its good to see this thread starting to get active again!

free-to-be · 04-30-2011, 08:15 AM

Hey - nice thread!

I'm 42 but already feel like there's little to discuss with girls in their 20's. If I wanted to raise someone I'd adopt! Trying to talk to someone who looks at their phone every 20 seconds makes me feel like I'm dealing with my ex's 3-yr-old.

I don't do the bar scene, either. After an ugly ending to a LTR in November I'm cautiously dipping my toe into the dating pool. I'm starting to think my goal is too ambitious, though. Is it still possible to find an employed, sane yet slightly adventurous woman to share our lives or did that go out of fashion while I was being a wife and mother?

Anyway - hello to everyone. After lurking about and reading old posts it looks like I can expect some lively discussions here from time to time. Doesn't look like many folks are in my part of the country, though.

morningstar55 · 04-30-2011, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by free-to-be

Hey - nice thread!

I'm 42 but already feel like there's little to discuss with girls in their 20's. If I wanted to raise someone I'd adopt! Trying to talk to someone who looks at their phone every 20 seconds makes me feel like I'm dealing with my ex's 3-yr-old.

I don't do the bar scene, either. After an ugly ending to a LTR in November I'm cautiously dipping my toe into the dating pool. I'm starting to think my goal is too ambitious, though. Is it still possible to find an employed, sane yet slightly adventurous woman to share our lives or did that go out of fashion while I was being a wife and mother?

Anyway - hello to everyone. After lurking about and reading old posts it looks like I can expect some lively discussions here from time to time. Doesn't look like many folks are in my part of the country, though.

lol 3 yrs olds i hear ya about the phone issues..... heh
i been single for a while now..... and well had a few interesting dates here and there..
and it is hard to find the right one..... lately sometimes i feel like im interviewing dates for a job.. and well i dont want that.. lol
like you .... i just want someone im compatable with , I know we cant like all of the same things.. but someone whom has a job, or retired is ok.. just someone who is independant, adventurous is good too, as im always on the go go go .. lol ...
i love my domestic side , and enjoy being the lady of the house. now if i could just find the right man of the house that would be awsome.

msW8ing · 05-02-2011, 12:33 AM

Stopping in to say hello to all Lofters. Hope ya all had a great weekend

morningstar55 · 05-02-2011, 05:51 AM

mawning loft thread dwellers and peekers

wel my truck wont be ready until tomorrow .. *sigh* ..
i have however applied for a few local jobs .. soo hopfully something will happen soon.

Sweet_Amor_Taino · 05-02-2011, 07:32 AM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

mawning loft thread dwellers and peekers

wel my truck wont be ready until tomorrow .. *sigh* ..
i have however applied for a few local jobs .. soo hopfully something will happen soon.

Good luck and have a nice day !

morningstar55 · 05-02-2011, 05:53 AM

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Originally Posted by MsW8ing

Stopping in to say hello to all Lofters. Hope ya all had a great weekend

good morning MsW8 ..

..... love your siggy

Sweet_Amor_Taino · 05-02-2011, 07:31 AM

I once read an add that said Lesbians give the U-Haul a lot of business that it was best to own one. Why becuase they are ready to move in within weeks of knowing each other. I am sure it does not apply to us all but we are nesters by nature and unfortunately run fast into what is not right for us.

After rushing in and not looking both ways before crossing over I have learned to take it slow. I beleive in getting to know each other slowly and enjoying the beauty of dating. Though it does not guarantee it will work but it offers us both the opportunity to romance,have fun and our true nature to emerge and show who we really are and if its meant to be.

Taino
I think I went off line but any how I hope it was useful.

msW8ing · 05-02-2011, 06:19 PM

Why thank you kindly. I appreciate the compilment and good morning back. Hope your having a better day.

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

good morning MsW8 ..

..... love your siggy

morningstar55 · 03-23-2012, 06:47 AM

morning all you loft dwellers and peekers

its gonna be a cheerio of a day

gaea · 03-23-2012, 07:26 AM

Happy Friday to A/all, have a glorious weekend

ruthie14 · 03-24-2012, 10:57 AM

Hope everyone is having a great weekend!! Rainy here, but making the most of it! Family birthday party tomorrow so getting things together for the meal. Meatballs and sweet sausage in gravy... potato salad..baked beans and birthday cake! Yummy

TimilDeeps · 03-24-2012, 11:03 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Hope everyone is having a great weekend!! Rainy here, but making the most of it! Family birthday party tomorrow so getting things together for the meal. Meatballs and sweet sausage in gravy... potato salad..baked beans and birthday cake! Yummy

ooooohhhhhh I am going to Ruthie's for cake . . . .

Heavenleahangel · 03-24-2012, 11:12 AM

Good Afternoon, Lofters! I hope everyone is enjoying their weekends. Our run of fabulous weather has come to an end and the more seasonal, cooler weather is back with rain. On the bright side, the good weather will return....soon I hope!

befreev · 07-09-2012, 08:21 PM

I haven't been on here in a long time. I just turned 42 and would love to meet one awesome professional butch. If you are in the Baltimore, Md area or know someone in this area that fits this bill, please give me a shout out. Everyone take care and hope everyone had a good 4th of July.

LadyRieinAL · 11-25-2012, 07:43 AM

04-30-2011, 07:37 AM	#3
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	mawning lofters i should of slept a lil longer after being woke up during the night, and was woke again by another car honin outside for someone in a house.. whats up wth that crap,im sure they have a cell phone and can call the person they r there for.. GGRRrrr .. ok count 1 , 2 , 3 Ok.. i am thinking.. will go to Homedepot and get a couple of poster size cuts of ply wood, and paint 2 signs and post them on each end of the street..... QUIET ZONE MIDNIGHT TO 7AM!!!! NO HONKING OF CAR HORNS!!! __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

05-02-2011, 12:33 AM	#8
msW8ing Member How Do You Identify?: multi-faceted gem, femme, submissive babygirl if the chemistry is there. Preferred Pronoun?: lady Relationship Status: working on myself Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lewiston, Idaho Posts: 920 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,700 Thanked 2,497 Times in 654 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Stopping in to say hello to all Lofters. Hope ya all had a great weekend __________________ *Don't judge me by my past..I don't live there anymore* A lady who knows the ropes..will never be bound. ~Mae West

05-02-2011, 05:51 AM	#9
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	mawning loft thread dwellers and peekers wel my truck wont be ready until tomorrow .. sigh .. i have however applied for a few local jobs .. soo hopfully something will happen soon. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

05-02-2011, 07:31 AM	#12
Sweet_Amor_Taino Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Gentleman Preferred Pronoun?: he/him Relationship Status: Exclusively dating, Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Austin Tx Posts: 538 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 388 Thanked 853 Times in 298 Posts Rep Power: 4397590	Single and I do not own a U-Haul.. LOL I once read an add that said Lesbians give the U-Haul a lot of business that it was best to own one. Why becuase they are ready to move in within weeks of knowing each other. I am sure it does not apply to us all but we are nesters by nature and unfortunately run fast into what is not right for us. After rushing in and not looking both ways before crossing over I have learned to take it slow. I beleive in getting to know each other slowly and enjoying the beauty of dating. Though it does not guarantee it will work but it offers us both the opportunity to romance,have fun and our true nature to emerge and show who we really are and if its meant to be. Taino I think I went off line but any how I hope it was useful. __________________ When we are aware that each moment of each day and each step we take,is truly mystical and full of wonder,we will live our lives with greater thought and care, we will also respect and appreciate This moment.

03-23-2012, 06:47 AM	#14
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	morning all you loft dwellers and peekers its gonna be a cheerio of a day __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

04-30-2011, 06:43 AM	#2
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496123	Just popping in to say good morning to all the Lofters! I haven't been here in awhile. Its good to be back with everyone!

04-30-2011, 08:15 AM	#6
free-to-be Junior Member How Do You Identify?: as myself Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: depends on the day..... Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: suburbia Posts: 19 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 28 Thanked 31 Times in 14 Posts Rep Power: 22374	Hey - nice thread! I'm 42 but already feel like there's little to discuss with girls in their 20's. If I wanted to raise someone I'd adopt! Trying to talk to someone who looks at their phone every 20 seconds makes me feel like I'm dealing with my ex's 3-yr-old. I don't do the bar scene, either. After an ugly ending to a LTR in November I'm cautiously dipping my toe into the dating pool. I'm starting to think my goal is too ambitious, though. Is it still possible to find an employed, sane yet slightly adventurous woman to share our lives or did that go out of fashion while I was being a wife and mother? Anyway - hello to everyone. After lurking about and reading old posts it looks like I can expect some lively discussions here from time to time. Doesn't look like many folks are in my part of the country, though.

03-23-2012, 07:26 AM	#15
gaea Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: west coast Posts: 3,910 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,630 Thanked 14,363 Times in 3,381 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Happy Friday to A/all, have a glorious weekend __________________ Gaea "Building a lifetime together one day at a time" Courage: the willingness to risk who you are for who you want to be and what you have for what you want You're not who your past says you are, you are who you choose to be today moving forward.

03-24-2012, 10:57 AM	#16
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	Hope everyone is having a great weekend!! Rainy here, but making the most of it! Family birthday party tomorrow so getting things together for the meal. Meatballs and sweet sausage in gravy... potato salad..baked beans and birthday cake! Yummy

03-24-2012, 11:12 AM	#18
Heavenleahangel Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Femme; Earth bound Angel and Babygirl; Preferred Pronoun?: She, Angel, as long as it's respectful Relationship Status: Waiting for the One who can complete me Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Albany, NY~but originally from Georgia Posts: 562 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,257 Thanked 2,068 Times in 468 Posts Rep Power: 18675554	Good Afternoon, Lofters! I hope everyone is enjoying their weekends. Our run of fabulous weather has come to an end and the more seasonal, cooler weather is back with rain. On the bright side, the good weather will return....soon I hope! __________________ Sweet Georgia Peach

07-09-2012, 08:21 PM	#19
befreev Junior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian, femme, women Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single and ready to mingle Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: baltimore area Posts: 1 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post Rep Power: 0	befreev I haven't been on here in a long time. I just turned 42 and would love to meet one awesome professional butch. If you are in the Baltimore, Md area or know someone in this area that fits this bill, please give me a shout out. Everyone take care and hope everyone had a good 4th of July.

11-25-2012, 07:43 AM	#20
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