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 Plus, I have a pretty low pain tolerance so don't think I could deal with the discomfort. 
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			I'm a tattoo virgin! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I don't have any either. Somehow, I never liked the idea of a mark forever. But I do enjoy tracing my tongue over them on others...... 
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			Yes I have 17 tats....
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I have 4. I got them when I was young and if I could do it over, I would never have done it. I also had a lot of piercings when I was young, and even had my tongue stretched to fit a thick tongue ring. But I let all my piercings close up years ago.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I don't have any myself... yet.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I have commitment issues. I change my mind of what I actually want, now I finally have a few choices narrowed, but now I change my mind about which one first or where or size! I really can be decisive. I know I can. 
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			I have two.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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			I DVR'd a cool show I found on VICELAND. I always find offbeat and interesting shows on that channel. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			The one I am watching now is called Needles and Pins. Tattoo artist Grace Neutral, travels the world, going to different tattoo shops, talking to owners and clients. She is in Las Vegas in this episode and I learned that Vegas has gone from 20 to 200 tattoo shops in 10 years. There is even a 24-hour one called Precious Slut. Great show, some beautiful tattoos. Grace is heavily tatted herself, with some interesting and artistic ones. She is from the U.K. Worth a watch. 
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 I'm adding it to my list of TV shows to watch. Anya? Is Viceland a station you find on Netflix? Thanks for the tip!!  
		
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 ![]() VICELAND by Vice Media, Inc. https://www.viceland.com/en_us 
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			nothing yet, but have a few ideas
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Yes and i got some compliments on my new one today!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Related topic:  Ink Master is coming back and they are changing things up.  Now, it's a team from a shop and it's a $200,000 jackpot now.  Looks super interesting and fun!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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			I originally had a 1940s pinup girl sitting under my bra strap (right shoulder blade), but I had it altered several years ago, and I want to alter it, yet again. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I like this one, but I'd probably add two, or maybe three, little details to make it just right ...  
		
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			I think I posted in this thread years ago but I have new additions! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I have several tattoos and all of them are easily covered by everyday clothing. I work in a white collar environment and don't see that changing any time soon so it's important to me that I can wear regular dresses and skirts and tops without too much fuss. I DID get two large feathers (one on each upper arm) 2 years ago and those were a big deal for me because they are the first tattoos I've gotten that I can look down and see. Still, I can wear tops with a half sleeve and they are covered. My work is actually quite liberal when it comes to tattoos, piercings, hair color, etc. but only for the programmers or engineers who never see clients. I regularly meet with clients and attorneys so I definitely have to cover up my arms on those days. If you count the cover ups I have, I have a total of 8 tattoos: 1 on each upper arm 1 tiny tat on my right shoulder 1 large back piece that covers 2 old tattoos 1 lower back piece (not quite a tramp stamp because it's a little higher) and 1 in a private place that only my lover needs to know about All of my ink means something to me. Even the pieces I got when I was very young. Luckily, I was smart enough not to get anything I regret like a Wylie Coyote holding a liquor bottle or a Confederate flag or something that would make me want to gouge my eyes out. By far, my feathers on my arms are my most spiritual pieces. I got them at a time in my life when I had lost an enormous amount of weight, my beloved Gracie had died, and there were some serious shifts in significant relationships going on. I was re-evaluating everything. Putting a tourniquet on my bleeding wounds and slicing off the barnacles of old tumors dragging me down. I guess it's not a huge deal to some but i knew that ink on my arms would change me in significant ways. It was like my way of saying to myself "I give you permission to be visible. All of your struggles. All of your hope. And yes, even all of your desires." I have one more tattoo in mind but the time is not right. It will cover up the very first tattoo I ever got, both as a symbol of a new chapter in my life and as my final piece of ink and final resting place with myself. That one will also forever bind me to the most significant person in my life so I guess you could say I want it to be absolutely perfect. Loving all the ink talk! 
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			No... and I'm having some difficulty finding an experienced artist to do my first.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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