The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 9

Ms. Meander · 11-25-2012, 08:12 AM

Hey! I qualify for this club now! Thought I'd check in and say hi.

Hi.

WolfyOne · 11-25-2012, 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Ms. Meander

Hey! I qualify for this club now! Thought I'd check in and say hi.

Hi.

Welcome my cute and adorable friend.

Hey y'all we need to have a celebration for Ms M and know, she likes to dance, so single file that line

sweetee · 11-28-2012, 05:40 PM

Im 44 here next month will be ...wish i was 22 and knew what i know now ...lol

morningstar55 · 11-29-2012, 06:44 AM

....morning loft dwellers and peekers........

listening to a lil opera this morning.. lol , can't believe i am listening to this ... it was on a web site.. and well i hadn't closed it yet.. its not to bad.

its a Mc donalds kinda morning and my coffee REALLY is super yummy heh
when i type in peekers .... it automatically puts in peelers before i even notice it , and after i post it sometimes its to late.. geeshh

hello sweet..... happy pre birthday lol

Darth Denkay · 03-22-2013, 07:54 PM

I turned 40 in January - guess I'm in this crowd now huh...

Sweet Bliss · 03-22-2013, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Darth Denkay

I turned 40 in January - guess I'm in this crowd now huh...

yes. try to restrain yourself.... we wouldn't want you to pull a ham string or another important "muscle"... hee hee hee...

Welcome to the LOFT!!

Drop by for coffee any time... we're glad you joined US!!

morningstar55 · 03-23-2013, 07:57 AM

Goooood morning Loft dwellers and peekers

Sweet Bliss awesome pics

welcome to the loft Darth

its a crispy cold day here near Springfield Missouri , im soo soo sick of cold all the time

*sigh* ..
BUT i am thankful to be able to enjoy a new day ... may hit the Bass Pro and a wal mart on my way to Tulsa Okie Homa today ...

hope you all have a great saturday.

lusciouskiwi · 03-24-2013, 08:57 PM

Hi everyone, hope you've had a fab weekend.

Who's already 50 and what did you do for your birthday? I've got a couple of years to go yet.

Latino.Hrt · 03-24-2013, 09:03 PM

Greetin's Every1.....hope we all had an Awesome weekend...

callmejay · 09-04-2013, 06:38 PM

I'm 51 new to this sight and don't know how to get started any help??? I'm single and looking for someone to have a cup of coffee with. Live in NJ. Anybody out there???

Nic · 09-04-2013, 06:51 PM

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Originally Posted by callmejay

I'm 51 new to this sight and don't know how to get started any help??? I'm single and looking for someone to have a cup of coffee with. Live in NJ. Anybody out there???

Hi Jay,

I'm pretty new myself. I think I saw a forum for people from each of the individual states (as well as other places). Not sure where but if you keep asking someone will point you in the right direction. In the meantime, just keep posting. I found people were pretty quick to say hello and point me in the right direction. I found a couple who are pretty good at making me laugh from time to time too.

Nic

allyson · 09-14-2013, 11:57 PM

I'm new here and trying to figure out how things work! I'm 50+, a "femme", teacher. Hello everyone!

PoeticSilence · 09-15-2013, 03:01 AM

Downhill slide to 52 in November. We don't generally celebrate birthdays but that's my number so I can squeeze in here. SweetBliss that's a great reno project you are doing. The wife and I have half-seriously talked about selling it all and then taking off in a rv. That's usually on the days we AREN'T talking about getting a little acreage and raising chickens. Or living on a houseboat. We can't seem to decide on what we want to do.

I became disabled three months ago, so a lot of those ideas are pretty moot. But a reno bus sounds sweet, you can easily fix wheelchair ramps through the back door. (laughing) I'd just need someone stronger than my wife to push me up them.

I live in Nebraska, in Omaha. Lived here most of my life and I love it here. My arthritis says it's time to get out of dodge though, so we'll see. If you feel a little nostalgic, maybe do some shopping here: http://www.goodolddaysstore.com/

Sweet Bliss · 09-27-2013, 06:14 AM

Well actually PS, what you would want instead is one of those lifts at the back door. That way you can get in and out by yourself if you want. Much safer for your wife I would think. And if in emergency situation much better for you and her.

There is a large group of all women out of Arizona that travel together. No one travels alone, they do it for recreation and some make their living on the road. The women I talked to said they gave up their six figure jobs to live on the road full time. Said it saved their relationship.

Well, my redo has hit a big snag. All that insulation is not helping with the heat factor. Not sure if it is because a portion is unfinished or I've done it wrong. Either way it is not going to be livable year round at this point. Will buy a couple more units, finish ceiling and hope for the best. Not a happy camper right now.

Finished another set of curtains made from my grandmother's fancy pillow cases. In keeping with my feminine vintage decor. Gonna hit restore this weekend, look for scrap lumber. Still working on how to create unique storage and three cat lofts. MiMi loves to hide all over the place. In drawers under the bed, in-between my quilts. She has scared the crap outta me more than once.

Coffee is ready, join me?

Happy_Go_Lucky · 11-12-2013, 06:47 AM

Re: The traveling band of women in Arizona. I only have one word. YEEHAW!

morningstar55 · 12-20-2015, 07:31 AM

good morning BFP dwellers .....
ltns
FB sure knows how to occupy your time lol lol
Im still alive and staying warm here in buffalo land.
tending to a local art gallery / pride shop 4 days a week.
im enclosing a couple links for everyone .....
1st .. "Stone Butch Blues"
free copy full story ... an awesome read for anyone.

http://www.lesliefeinberg.net

also the link to where i work 4 days a week
http://mybuffalopride.com

I host a breakfast club for the morning crowd
we go to local owned places only
a lot of events are always geared for afternoon/ evenings .....
Im a morning person and i know there are others out there.
Im allowed to get things delivered there. lol
I'm open 1 to 8
Thursday thru Fri.
1 to 7pm
Sat, n Sundays

anyways
who has been baking cookies??? I'm up to 4 batch's lol

GeorgiaMa'am · 12-20-2015, 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

who has been baking cookies??? I'm up to 4 batch's lol

I've only made one batch so far, but I've got the sugar cookie dough made, in the refrigerator and ready to go for the next batch. Someone gave me a fresh bag of pecans yesterday, so I'm definitely going to make some pecan shortbread too.

You're way ahead of me!

trixie · 12-20-2015, 04:09 PM

*peeking in*

I have cookies I need to bake as well. I think I'm too lazy to do it until after Christmas when I'm off for a week.

I need to set up a space to do my yoga before I worry about the baking & eating cookies though. I still have a cute dress I want to fit into by spring!

Wrang1er · 12-20-2015, 06:44 PM

I'd be happy to volunteer to be a cookie taste tester if any of you need it.

TruTexan · 12-20-2015, 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Wrang1er

I'd be happy to volunteer to be a cookie taste tester if any of you need it.

Right! I hear UPS is delivering fast these days!

11-25-2012, 08:12 AM	#1
Ms. Meander Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Femme Relationship Status: Ethical Nonmonogamist Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: The Mountains Posts: 1,520 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,706 Thanked 5,211 Times in 1,147 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Hey! I qualify for this club now! Thought I'd check in and say hi. Hi. __________________ My wish for you is that you continue. Continue to be who and how you are, to astonish a mean world with your acts of kindness. Continue to allow humor to lighten the burden of your tender heart. - Maya Angelou

11-28-2012, 05:40 PM	#3
sweetee Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: hey sweet thang Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: nowhere Posts: 16 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 33 Thanked 46 Times in 11 Posts Rep Power: 1586905	Im 44 here next month will be ...wish i was 22 and knew what i know now ...lol __________________ sweettee

11-29-2012, 06:44 AM	#4
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	....morning loft dwellers and peekers........ listening to a lil opera this morning.. lol , can't believe i am listening to this ... it was on a web site.. and well i hadn't closed it yet.. its not to bad. its a Mc donalds kinda morning and my coffee REALLY is super yummy heh when i type in peekers .... it automatically puts in peelers before i even notice it , and after i post it sometimes its to late.. geeshh hello sweet..... happy pre birthday lol __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

03-22-2013, 07:54 PM	#5
Darth Denkay Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: I'm good with whatever Relationship Status: in love and loved Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Tennessee (Memphis, from Chattanooga) Posts: 315 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 456 Thanked 463 Times in 150 Posts Rep Power: 891935	I turned 40 in January - guess I'm in this crowd now huh... __________________ Darth

03-23-2013, 07:57 AM	#7
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Goooood morning Loft dwellers and peekers Sweet Bliss awesome pics welcome to the loft Darth its a crispy cold day here near Springfield Missouri , im soo soo sick of cold all the time sigh .. BUT i am thankful to be able to enjoy a new day ... may hit the Bass Pro and a wal mart on my way to Tulsa Okie Homa today ... hope you all have a great saturday. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

03-24-2013, 08:57 PM	#8
lusciouskiwi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme lesbian feminist Preferred Pronoun?: Anything except for "aunty" Relationship Status: Happy with my butch. Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Aotearoa New Zealand Posts: 2,681 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 25,494 Thanked 9,095 Times in 1,899 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Hi everyone, hope you've had a fab weekend. Who's already 50 and what did you do for your birthday? I've got a couple of years to go yet. __________________ happiness is a form of courage. George Holbrook Jackson Risk! Risk anything! Care no more for the opinions of others, for those voices. Do the hardest thing on earth for you. Act for yourself. Face the truth. Katherine Mansfield Motivate yourself or be miserable. Whatever has to be done, it's always your choice. Wayne Dyer

03-24-2013, 09:03 PM	#9
Latino.Hrt Member How Do You Identify?: Latino Butch Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: 806 Posts: 106 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1 Thanked 107 Times in 43 Posts Rep Power: 1728711	___steps in quietly.... Greetin's Every1.....hope we all had an Awesome weekend... __________________ 'LIVING LIFE IN COLOUR'

09-04-2013, 06:38 PM	#10
callmejay Junior Member How Do You Identify?: lost Relationship Status: single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: new jersey Posts: 1 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Rep Power: 0	help I'm 51 new to this sight and don't know how to get started any help??? I'm single and looking for someone to have a cup of coffee with. Live in NJ. Anybody out there???

09-14-2013, 11:57 PM	#12
allyson Junior Member How Do You Identify?: curious Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: Missouri Posts: 1 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post Rep Power: 0	I'm new here and trying to figure out how things work! I'm 50+, a "femme", teacher. Hello everyone!

09-15-2013, 03:01 AM	#13
PoeticSilence Member How Do You Identify?: dodges labels Relationship Status: Estranged Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: Midwest Posts: 454 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3 Thanked 919 Times in 277 Posts Rep Power: 10661585	Downhill slide to 52 in November. We don't generally celebrate birthdays but that's my number so I can squeeze in here. SweetBliss that's a great reno project you are doing. The wife and I have half-seriously talked about selling it all and then taking off in a rv. That's usually on the days we AREN'T talking about getting a little acreage and raising chickens. Or living on a houseboat. We can't seem to decide on what we want to do. I became disabled three months ago, so a lot of those ideas are pretty moot. But a reno bus sounds sweet, you can easily fix wheelchair ramps through the back door. (laughing) I'd just need someone stronger than my wife to push me up them. I live in Nebraska, in Omaha. Lived here most of my life and I love it here. My arthritis says it's time to get out of dodge though, so we'll see. If you feel a little nostalgic, maybe do some shopping here: http://www.goodolddaysstore.com/ __________________ Love is all you need.

09-27-2013, 06:14 AM	#14
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Good morning lofters Well actually PS, what you would want instead is one of those lifts at the back door. That way you can get in and out by yourself if you want. Much safer for your wife I would think. And if in emergency situation much better for you and her. There is a large group of all women out of Arizona that travel together. No one travels alone, they do it for recreation and some make their living on the road. The women I talked to said they gave up their six figure jobs to live on the road full time. Said it saved their relationship. Well, my redo has hit a big snag. All that insulation is not helping with the heat factor. Not sure if it is because a portion is unfinished or I've done it wrong. Either way it is not going to be livable year round at this point. Will buy a couple more units, finish ceiling and hope for the best. Not a happy camper right now. Finished another set of curtains made from my grandmother's fancy pillow cases. In keeping with my feminine vintage decor. Gonna hit restore this weekend, look for scrap lumber. Still working on how to create unique storage and three cat lofts. MiMi loves to hide all over the place. In drawers under the bed, in-between my quilts. She has scared the crap outta me more than once. Coffee is ready, join me?

11-12-2013, 06:47 AM	#15
Happy_Go_Lucky Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Butch who desires femme company. Preferred Pronoun?: Handsome devil you. Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: Anywhere I want to be Posts: 677 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,203 Thanked 3,365 Times in 627 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Re: The traveling band of women in Arizona. I only have one word. YEEHAW!

12-20-2015, 07:31 AM	#16
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	good morning BFP dwellers ..... ltns FB sure knows how to occupy your time lol lol Im still alive and staying warm here in buffalo land. tending to a local art gallery / pride shop 4 days a week. im enclosing a couple links for everyone ..... 1st .. "Stone Butch Blues" free copy full story ... an awesome read for anyone. http://www.lesliefeinberg.net also the link to where i work 4 days a week http://mybuffalopride.com I host a breakfast club for the morning crowd we go to local owned places only a lot of events are always geared for afternoon/ evenings ..... Im a morning person and i know there are others out there. Im allowed to get things delivered there. lol I'm open 1 to 8 Thursday thru Fri. 1 to 7pm Sat, n Sundays anyways who has been baking cookies??? I'm up to 4 batch's lol __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

12-20-2015, 04:09 PM	#18
trixie Member How Do You Identify?: independent spinster lady Preferred Pronoun?: she-ra, princess of power Relationship Status: one is the magic number Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: right here, right now Posts: 110 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12 Thanked 188 Times in 63 Posts Rep Power: 2482429	peeking in I have cookies I need to bake as well. I think I'm too lazy to do it until after Christmas when I'm off for a week. I need to set up a space to do my yoga before I worry about the baking & eating cookies though. I still have a cute dress I want to fit into by spring!

12-20-2015, 06:44 PM	#19
Wrang1er Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Me, myself and I Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Here Posts: 1,526 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 7,043 Times in 1,354 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I'd be happy to volunteer to be a cookie taste tester if any of you need it.