It's ever so lonely.. - Page 3

luciddreamer · 02-28-2010, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

haha.... i use to come to canada... but havnt since last May... due to the speed limiter thing.....
i live in Buffalo NY..... i kinda miss doing the canada tours cuz it got me home more.
when i did come to canada..... it was mostly the Ontario regions

ahhh...welll.....lol you never know

) What speed limiter thing?..lol

luciddreamer · 02-28-2010, 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Strappie

I was going to ask too....

I'm glad I'm not living there.. I wouldn't want to be either.. lol

Oh Strappie me either !!!! lol

owen4u1904 · 03-01-2010, 12:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Jeep

A Yooper is someone from the Upper Peninsula. A Troll is someone who lives below the Mackinac Bridge.

Ha...well, I am a hoosier....really? A hoosier, I never got that one. I would rather have a "normal" nickname for our state.

luciddreamer · 03-01-2010, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by rbentley1904

Ha...well, I am a hoosier....really? A hoosier, I never got that one. I would rather have a "normal" nickname for our state.

hoser: A person who is trying to deceive others.
Example: That hoser can't be trusted. From the Wisconsin-Minnesota area.

or.....lol

hossie or hossy: Similar to sassy--overbearing, arrogant,
self confident, independent, won't take any crap from anyone, etc.
Example: She was hossy.

I dunno....lol

torchiegirl · 03-16-2010, 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Jeep

A Yooper is someone from the Upper Peninsula. A Troll is someone who lives below the Mackinac Bridge.

*blinks

Troll!

Mindy · 04-20-2010, 11:19 PM

Here I am, back in the state I said I'd never come back to.

BoiJen · 05-05-2010, 10:20 PM

just moved from north of Detroit to the West of it, but i'm still here.

Lady_Wu · 05-06-2010, 12:03 AM

I've found that the loneliest I've ever been was when I was lonely WITH someone. I'd much rather live alone than live with someone and feel totally alone. I totally agree w/Strappie's post.
I'm now a shut-in w/no friends. I don't drive, which complicates things immensely. I have MS and a number of other diseases. My old friends disappeared when I got sick. I have no way nor place to make new ones. This place is dead. The computer is my only portal out of here, so the people I meet here are important to me.
Sigh. I used to sing and laugh and volunteer. Now I'm mostly silent. I'm a caretaker to someone I thought would take care of me-that we would take care of each other. Now I feel more like a nurse than a partner. The situation is such that he's only going to get sicker. I have no friends and no support system. I feel very alone.
Thanks for listening.

morningstar55 · 06-12-2010, 08:16 AM

Gooooooooood morning
Michiganers .. lol
hey im hangin here by Monroe, MI . till tomorrow around noonish.. i think. heh..
anything exciting to do around these parts on a saturday??

waxnrope · 06-12-2010, 08:48 AM

I just read Lady Wu's post ... this is my first time viewing this thread ... then I read the following post. WTF? Such a disconnect for me. It is confusing. Do we not read/see what we post before posting? Or is it a way of dealing with the pain of another - to render them invisible? This is so sad to me ... just saying.

Soon · 06-15-2010, 07:01 PM

U.S. Social Forum, June 22-26, Detroit, MI

What is the US Social Forum?

The US Social Forum (USSF) is a movement building process. It is not a  conference but it is a space to come up with the peoples’ solutions to the  economic and ecological crisis. The USSF is the next most important step in our  struggle to build a powerful multi-racial, multi-sectoral, inter-generational,  diverse, inclusive, internationalist movement that transforms this country and  changes history.

We must declare what we want our world to look like and we  must start planning the path to get there. The USSF provides spaces to learn  from each other’s experiences and struggles, share our analysis of the problems  our communities face, build relationships, and align with our international  brothers and sisters to strategize how to reclaim our world.

Lady_Wu · 06-26-2010, 06:03 PM

How lonely are you when the only conversation you get is from the librarian at the WV Library of Congress? I call her up to talk about books just to hear a friendly voice and have some articulate conversation. Hades, but this life is killing me. The highlight of my month is going to the grocery store. People here are friendly only b/c I'm handicapped. Otherwise I'd be as invisible there as I am at home. I feel like I'm beginning to lose my existence as an independent entity and exist only as a caretaker. I'm disappearing as a person and a femme...
no use even signing my name. no-one truly cares who I am anymore.

Andrew, Jr. · 06-27-2010, 08:02 AM

Lady Wu,

You are not disappearing! I hear you. You are not alone. I get the same.

Sometimes people don't know what to say when they see the disability. It is fear I think. I know online I am more vocal than in person. I struggle all the time with the ability to communicate. Sometimes I say something and what I am saying is not what I am trying to really communicate. It is so very frustrating. Then I get the one jerk who will post something belittling about me, but it is always underhanded or hidden in their post. Everyone knows the game. It is on all online sites.

Like you, I too don't go out much. My health is really struggling. A heart attack is what slowed me down a great deal. I just never thought in my wildest dreams I would be unhealthy at such an young middle age. I can understand how people have to make the decision to eat or buy a pharmacy drug.

Just remember you are not alone. I have a disability thread somewhere here. Please join us there. You are most welcome too. And please remember, nobody knows when they will become sick. It can happen at any time. It was that way for me. I was full of life, and having a ball. Then the next thing I knew I was sick. It was just that fast. One day enjoying life as an abled bodied guy, the next in the corinary care unit. Life changes.

Peace to you,
Drew

betenoire · 07-13-2010, 11:24 PM

I was wondering if anybody could tell me where a queer can go to get a drink and maybe do a little dancing on a Saturday night in the Detroit area?

Alt/Rock or Retro music preferably.

skeeter_01 · 07-31-2010, 10:17 AM

i'm in the ann arbor area...ypsilanti actually...recently single and loving every minute of it! just me and my dog in my little butch-ler pad...working alot of OT because i CAN!...(my ex HATED it when i worked OT)..life is GOOD!!

wondering if anyone is close enough that they'd like to get together for coffee or whatever...give me a shout if you'd like to!

skeet

musicman · 07-31-2010, 11:01 AM

I was with someone for 14 years with the last 4 officially married. Been single for the last 2 years almost going on three in October. Quite frankly I don't like being single, don't want to really get use to it.

I miss the company of a woman, I miss the scent of a woman, I miss the feel of a woman, I miss touching a woman. I miss laying in bed and just talking to her and I miss long drives and not having to say a word.

Some people are fine with being single and that is great. Some are not and that's ok as well.

Hoping she is around the next corner or on the next profile page.

Warmest Regards

Musicman

The_Lady_Snow · 09-13-2010, 07:51 AM

BFP Gathering in Minneapolis Michigan Folks!!!

Minneapolis Gathering Oct 22 to 24 Butch-femme gathering in Minneapolis October 22 to 24.

All are invited.

We are in the planning stages. So far:

Friday we will have a meet and greet downtown--details to follow.

Saturday brunch then whatever you want to do: swimming, Mall of America, site seeing.

Saturday evening, Party at hot-not's house including horseshoes, karaoke, dancing, Chef Jenn is cooking.

Sunday Brunch

Still working out hotel details.

Please PM me if interested.

hot-not, April

betenoire · 09-27-2010, 08:06 PM

Hi Michigan!

I'm looking to rehome four kittens and their mother. If any of you are interested in a new pet, let me know. Me and Nick (oneye) will deliver and bring you coffee and gratitude.

link to their kijiji advert

morningstar55 · 11-04-2010, 07:49 PM

evening Michiganers.... lol

will be landing in . Flint Mi...... at some point tomorrow late afternoon.

LadyRain · 11-08-2010, 05:49 PM

I am moving to Kalamazoo next summer. Can anyone tell me if there is any kind of queer community there/ I am coming from Mass so I know I may be in for a culture shock!!

04-20-2010, 11:19 PM	#46
Mindy Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Michigan Posts: 194 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 49 Thanked 174 Times in 57 Posts Rep Power: 13973	Here I am, back in the state I said I'd never come back to. __________________ You must submit to supreme suffering in order to discover the completion of joy. ~John Calvin~

05-05-2010, 10:20 PM	#47
BoiJen Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Boi Relationship Status: happy to find inner peace Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Motor City Posts: 65 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13 Thanked 120 Times in 46 Posts Rep Power: 214765	just moved from north of Detroit to the West of it, but i'm still here. __________________ *BoiJen* The past is our definition. We may strive with good reason to escape what is bad in it, but we will escape it only by adding something better to it. -Wendell Barry

05-06-2010, 12:03 AM	#48
Lady_Wu Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Queer Stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: M'Lady Relationship Status: given up looking sigh Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: somewhere buried under a pile of books Posts: 197 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 285 Thanked 300 Times in 105 Posts Rep Power: 155955	So glad for this thread... I've found that the loneliest I've ever been was when I was lonely WITH someone. I'd much rather live alone than live with someone and feel totally alone. I totally agree w/Strappie's post. I'm now a shut-in w/no friends. I don't drive, which complicates things immensely. I have MS and a number of other diseases. My old friends disappeared when I got sick. I have no way nor place to make new ones. This place is dead. The computer is my only portal out of here, so the people I meet here are important to me. Sigh. I used to sing and laugh and volunteer. Now I'm mostly silent. I'm a caretaker to someone I thought would take care of me-that we would take care of each other. Now I feel more like a nurse than a partner. The situation is such that he's only going to get sicker. I have no friends and no support system. I feel very alone. Thanks for listening. __________________ I'm the Yin in the Yang and the Yang in the Yin.

06-12-2010, 08:16 AM	#49
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Gooooooooood morning Michiganers .. lol hey im hangin here by Monroe, MI . till tomorrow around noonish.. i think. heh.. anything exciting to do around these parts on a saturday?? __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

06-26-2010, 06:03 PM	#52
Lady_Wu Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Queer Stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: M'Lady Relationship Status: given up looking sigh Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: somewhere buried under a pile of books Posts: 197 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 285 Thanked 300 Times in 105 Posts Rep Power: 155955	Feel pathetic How lonely are you when the only conversation you get is from the librarian at the WV Library of Congress? I call her up to talk about books just to hear a friendly voice and have some articulate conversation. Hades, but this life is killing me. The highlight of my month is going to the grocery store. People here are friendly only b/c I'm handicapped. Otherwise I'd be as invisible there as I am at home. I feel like I'm beginning to lose my existence as an independent entity and exist only as a caretaker. I'm disappearing as a person and a femme... no use even signing my name. no-one truly cares who I am anymore. __________________ I'm the Yin in the Yang and the Yang in the Yin.

06-12-2010, 08:48 AM	#50
waxnrope Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 5/27/2011 Preferred Pronoun?: hy ho, hy ho; he, she, it, whatever Relationship Status: Going slow ... Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: in her orifices ... la frontera Posts: 1,433 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,414 Thanked 2,958 Times in 953 Posts Rep Power: 0	I just read Lady Wu's post ... this is my first time viewing this thread ... then I read the following post. WTF? Such a disconnect for me. It is confusing. Do we not read/see what we post before posting? Or is it a way of dealing with the pain of another - to render them invisible? This is so sad to me ... just saying.

06-15-2010, 07:01 PM	#51
Soon Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: attached Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: . Posts: 6,896 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,046 Thanked 13,118 Times in 3,391 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	U.S. Social Forum, June 22-26, Detroit, MI What is the US Social Forum? The US Social Forum (USSF) is a movement building process. It is not a  conference but it is a space to come up with the peoples’ solutions to the  economic and ecological crisis. The USSF is the next most important step in our  struggle to build a powerful multi-racial, multi-sectoral, inter-generational,  diverse, inclusive, internationalist movement that transforms this country and  changes history. We must declare what we want our world to look like and we  must start planning the path to get there. The USSF provides spaces to learn  from each other’s experiences and struggles, share our analysis of the problems  our communities face, build relationships, and align with our international  brothers and sisters to strategize how to reclaim our world.

06-27-2010, 08:02 AM	#53
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Lady Wu, You are not disappearing! I hear you. You are not alone. I get the same. Sometimes people don't know what to say when they see the disability. It is fear I think. I know online I am more vocal than in person. I struggle all the time with the ability to communicate. Sometimes I say something and what I am saying is not what I am trying to really communicate. It is so very frustrating. Then I get the one jerk who will post something belittling about me, but it is always underhanded or hidden in their post. Everyone knows the game. It is on all online sites. Like you, I too don't go out much. My health is really struggling. A heart attack is what slowed me down a great deal. I just never thought in my wildest dreams I would be unhealthy at such an young middle age. I can understand how people have to make the decision to eat or buy a pharmacy drug. Just remember you are not alone. I have a disability thread somewhere here. Please join us there. You are most welcome too. And please remember, nobody knows when they will become sick. It can happen at any time. It was that way for me. I was full of life, and having a ball. Then the next thing I knew I was sick. It was just that fast. One day enjoying life as an abled bodied guy, the next in the corinary care unit. Life changes. Peace to you, Drew

07-13-2010, 11:24 PM	#54
betenoire Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Satan in a Sunday Hat Preferred Pronoun?: Maow Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: The Chemical Valley Posts: 4,086 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,312 Thanked 8,742 Times in 2,566 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I was wondering if anybody could tell me where a queer can go to get a drink and maybe do a little dancing on a Saturday night in the Detroit area? Alt/Rock or Retro music preferably. __________________ bête noire \bet-NWAHR\, noun: One that is particularly disliked or that is to be avoided.

07-31-2010, 10:17 AM	#55
skeeter_01 Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: Hey you! Relationship Status: Sleeping single in a double bed.. Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: ann arbor, michigan Posts: 195 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 288 Thanked 477 Times in 130 Posts Rep Power: 3007275	i'm in the ann arbor area...ypsilanti actually...recently single and loving every minute of it! just me and my dog in my little butch-ler pad...working alot of OT because i CAN!...(my ex HATED it when i worked OT)..life is GOOD!! wondering if anyone is close enough that they'd like to get together for coffee or whatever...give me a shout if you'd like to! skeet

07-31-2010, 11:01 AM	#56
musicman Member How Do You Identify?: NA Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: NA Posts: 209 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 195 Thanked 429 Times in 125 Posts Rep Power: 3610463	Lonely in Ontario Canada I was with someone for 14 years with the last 4 officially married. Been single for the last 2 years almost going on three in October. Quite frankly I don't like being single, don't want to really get use to it. I miss the company of a woman, I miss the scent of a woman, I miss the feel of a woman, I miss touching a woman. I miss laying in bed and just talking to her and I miss long drives and not having to say a word. Some people are fine with being single and that is great. Some are not and that's ok as well. Hoping she is around the next corner or on the next profile page. Warmest Regards Musicman

09-13-2010, 07:51 AM	#57
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,119 Times in 15,678 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Minneapolis BFP Gathering!!! BFP Gathering in Minneapolis Michigan Folks!!! Minneapolis Gathering Oct 22 to 24 Butch-femme gathering in Minneapolis October 22 to 24. All are invited. We are in the planning stages. So far: Friday we will have a meet and greet downtown--details to follow. Saturday brunch then whatever you want to do: swimming, Mall of America, site seeing. Saturday evening, Party at hot-not's house including horseshoes, karaoke, dancing, Chef Jenn is cooking. Sunday Brunch Still working out hotel details. Please PM me if interested. hot-not, April __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden

09-27-2010, 08:06 PM	#58
betenoire Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Satan in a Sunday Hat Preferred Pronoun?: Maow Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: The Chemical Valley Posts: 4,086 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,312 Thanked 8,742 Times in 2,566 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Hi Michigan! I'm looking to rehome four kittens and their mother. If any of you are interested in a new pet, let me know. Me and Nick (oneye) will deliver and bring you coffee and gratitude. link to their kijiji advert __________________ bête noire \bet-NWAHR\, noun: One that is particularly disliked or that is to be avoided.

11-04-2010, 07:49 PM	#59
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	evening Michiganers.... lol will be landing in . Flint Mi...... at some point tomorrow late afternoon. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

11-08-2010, 05:49 PM	#60
LadyRain Member How Do You Identify?: StoneFemme Preferred Pronoun?: Hey You.!! Relationship Status: very stuck... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: new england Posts: 180 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 45 Thanked 312 Times in 128 Posts Rep Power: 3554042	going west........... I am moving to Kalamazoo next summer. Can anyone tell me if there is any kind of queer community there/ I am coming from Mass so I know I may be in for a culture shock!! __________________ TBI Survivor