How to tell if she's into you...

proximitywithoutintimacy · 02-28-2011, 10:54 AM

... this is meant to be a thread for all of us, not just for me to ask advice

Seriously, though, am I the only one who has trouble reading a girl? What, in your opinion, are the signs that she's interested?

Or is this "signs" theory just a bunch of crap?

MrSunshine · 02-28-2011, 11:02 AM

no, there are signs. just look out for the one that says "crap ahead"

The_Lady_Snow · 02-28-2011, 11:12 AM

If she's all up in your space asking you to buy her breakfast...

She might be into you

Julie · 02-28-2011, 11:16 AM

Or WORSE...
Asking you to make her Breakfast.
Gasp!

The_Lady_Snow · 02-28-2011, 11:44 AM

If she's asking you to dance.....

She might be into you

UofMfan · 02-28-2011, 11:48 AM

If she stalks you, she is really into you.

Luckydwg07 · 03-01-2011, 09:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

If she's all up in your space asking you to buy her breakfast...

She might be into you

I confused hunger one time

Guy · 03-01-2011, 09:46 PM

When after your done talking and you tell her to have a nice day and she say's don't tell me what to do!

oh, how to tell if she's INto you? read that wrong

Bootboi · 03-01-2011, 09:50 PM

If she lets you "in" even though you can be the biggest jerk on the planet earth some days.

AtLast · 03-02-2011, 01:54 AM

I must read this thread.... always gussing...

The_Lady_Snow · 03-01-2011, 09:43 PM

Being into you does not equate 4ever!

The_Lady_Snow · 03-02-2011, 09:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by June

Downer.

Try again.

If she shouts from her long hot shower "join me"

She just might be into you

Chinajewelry · 12-28-2013, 11:56 PM

Maybe licking/biting lips, or blinking fast. I do these sometimes. But I'm a femme so it doesn't apply to all

Bad_boi · 12-29-2013, 04:49 AM

If she touches you thats a sign. Like if she plays with your hair or fixes your collar.

Paradox · 01-05-2014, 01:45 AM

Nice thread!!

If this was a test I would fail miserably. I am friendly -(some mistake or assume flirtation) with the most people I meet. I'm generally pretty good a sensing and reading people - except in cases like this.

I rarely I mean rarely notice. My friends would be the ones who would ask me after 'How did so and so work out?', or 'What happened with ABC? She's likes you.' I would ask 'What makes you think she likes me?' - of course I get the 'Are you serious ? look -

For me to know if she likes me comes one of three ways;
1) My friends tell me
2) The person who is interested comes at me with a 2x4
3) We eventually figure it out.--- Needless to say this option is in the lowest rating.

Maybe if there was some kind of sensory - mood accessory or emotion bracelet that we can wear to help determine if we like each other.

Of course to be worn discretionarily - wouldn't want to give away signals 24/7

cara · 01-05-2014, 01:50 AM

She gets out of bed in the middle of the night to drive through the city to come snuggle with you.

Nadeest · 01-05-2014, 04:25 PM

I'm awfully dense, at this sort of thing, seems like. I do talk to my friends, though, and ask them for advice.

homoe · 12-23-2018, 11:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bad_boi

If she touches you thats a sign. Like if she plays with your hair or fixes your collar.

Oh for sure............

homoe · 11-15-2019, 11:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by proximitywithoutintimacy

... this is meant to be a thread for all of us, not just for me to ask advice

Seriously, though, am I the only one who has trouble reading a girl? What, in your opinion, are the signs that she's interested?

Or is this "signs" theory just a bunch of crap?

I definitely think there are signs........

homoe · 11-15-2019, 11:19 AM

~~
I dare say even most 2 x 4 butches can pick up most signs....

02-28-2011, 10:54 AM	#1
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02-28-2011, 11:12 AM	#3
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02-28-2011, 11:44 AM	#5
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03-01-2011, 09:43 PM	#11
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02-28-2011, 11:02 AM	#2
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Paradox Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Constant Outsider - Humanist Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Toronto - Canada Posts: 59 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 57 Thanked 191 Times in 49 Posts Rep Power: 1217576	Nice thread!! If this was a test I would fail miserably. I am friendly -(some mistake or assume flirtation) with the most people I meet. I'm generally pretty good a sensing and reading people - except in cases like this. I rarely I mean rarely notice. My friends would be the ones who would ask me after 'How did so and so work out?', or 'What happened with ABC? She's likes you.' I would ask 'What makes you think she likes me?' - of course I get the 'Are you serious ? look - For me to know if she likes me comes one of three ways; 1) My friends tell me 2) The person who is interested comes at me with a 2x4 3) We eventually figure it out.--- Needless to say this option is in the lowest rating. Maybe if there was some kind of sensory - mood accessory or emotion bracelet that we can wear to help determine if we like each other. Of course to be worn discretionarily - wouldn't want to give away signals 24/7

01-05-2014, 01:50 AM	#16
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11-15-2019, 11:19 AM	#20
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