|
|
|||||||
| Breakups, Lessons Learned, Healing PLEASE do not use this forum for ugliness or nasty posts. |
 |
|
|
Thread Tools | Display Modes |
|
|
02-05-2011, 08:16 PM
|
#1 |
|
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status:
Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Arlington Texas
Posts: 4,009
Thanks: 4,950
Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts
Rep Power: 21474855   |
Songs That Got You Through Break Ups :)
Ok so I have the wedding thread... LOL But, I was thinking.. What kind of songs do we play to soothe our aching hearts when we break up with someone?
I will start... Years ago, an ex and I had broke up, and well, I was completely heart broken. those who know me in real life know this... I played this song over and over again... Hey, it got me through....  |
|
|
| The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to bigbutchmistie For This Useful Post: |
|
02-05-2011, 08:24 PM
|
#2 |
|
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status:
Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Arlington Texas
Posts: 4,009
Thanks: 4,950
Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts
Rep Power: 21474855 |
|
|
|
|
|
02-05-2011, 08:26 PM
|
#3 |
|
Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
Femme Preferred Pronoun?:
She, Her, etc Relationship Status:
Single 
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Canada
Posts: 7,767
Thanks: 9,029
Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts
Rep Power: 21474858 |
__________________
"When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!" 
|
|
|
|
| The Following 5 Users Say Thank You to Leigh For This Useful Post: |
|
02-05-2011, 08:41 PM
|
#4 |
|
Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
femme Preferred Pronoun?:
she Relationship Status:
Married 
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: rose cottage
Posts: 5,498
Thanks: 8,407
Thanked 15,610 Times in 3,973 Posts
Rep Power: 21474856 |
|
|
|
|
| The Following User Says Thank You to Soft*Silver For This Useful Post: |
|
02-05-2011, 08:45 PM
|
#5 |
|
Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
femme Preferred Pronoun?:
she Relationship Status:
Married
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: rose cottage
Posts: 5,498
Thanks: 8,407
Thanked 15,610 Times in 3,973 Posts
Rep Power: 21474856 |
__________________
Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
The field sees, the forest hears |
|
|
|
| The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to Soft*Silver For This Useful Post: |
|
02-05-2011, 08:54 PM
|
#6 |
|
Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
femme Preferred Pronoun?:
she Relationship Status:
Married
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: rose cottage
Posts: 5,498
Thanks: 8,407
Thanked 15,610 Times in 3,973 Posts
Rep Power: 21474856 |
for my one, who has room in my heart even today
__________________
Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
The field sees, the forest hears |
|
|
|
| The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to Soft*Silver For This Useful Post: |
|
02-05-2011, 11:18 PM
|
#7 |
|
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Queer Femme Relationship Status:
Ethical Nonmonogamist Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: The Mountains
Posts: 1,520
Thanks: 4,706
Thanked 5,223 Times in 1,150 Posts
Rep Power: 21474851 |
I often revert to Ani when my heart hurts...
...takes me back to my angsty youth.
__________________
My wish for you is that you continue. Continue to be who and how you are, to astonish a mean world with your acts of kindness. Continue to allow humor to lighten the burden of your tender heart. - Maya Angelou |
|
|
|
| The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Ms. Meander For This Useful Post: |
|
02-05-2011, 11:54 PM
|
#8 |
|
Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
Transguy Preferred Pronoun?:
He Relationship Status:
single  Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Central West Coast of Florida
Posts: 5,204
Thanks: 34,866
Thanked 17,793 Times in 3,939 Posts
Rep Power: 21474855 |
__________________
“You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”
|
|
|
|
| The Following User Says Thank You to Jesse For This Useful Post: |
|
02-06-2011, 12:00 AM
|
#9 |
|
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Satan in a Sunday Hat Preferred Pronoun?:
Maow Relationship Status:
Married 
Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: The Chemical Valley
Posts: 4,086
Thanks: 3,312
Thanked 8,742 Times in 2,566 Posts
Rep Power: 21474855 |
Not so much a break-up-coping song - but it's an anthem to me. This song gets me through all sorts of stuff.
__________________
bête noire \bet-NWAHR\, noun: One that is particularly disliked or that is to be avoided.
|
|
|
|
| The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to betenoire For This Useful Post: |
|
02-06-2011, 03:46 AM
|
#10 |
|
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status:
Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Arlington Texas
Posts: 4,009
Thanks: 4,950
Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts
Rep Power: 21474855 |
|
|
|
|
| The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to bigbutchmistie For This Useful Post: |
|
02-06-2011, 04:06 AM
|
#11 |
|
Member
How Do You Identify?:
femme woman Preferred Pronoun?:
she Relationship Status:
solo 
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Central Florida
Posts: 821
Thanks: 250
Thanked 1,944 Times in 584 Posts
Rep Power: 14065934 |
These are the two saddest break-up songs I have ever heard. The incredible angst of loving someone who no longer loves you ...
Sad and lonely Smooches, Keri |
|
|
|
| The Following 5 Users Say Thank You to iamkeri1 For This Useful Post: |
|
02-06-2011, 01:22 PM
|
#12 |
|
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Absolute Femme Preferred Pronoun?:
She Relationship Status:
Toe curling :-) 
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Atlanta
Posts: 2,382
Thanks: 1,792
Thanked 5,591 Times in 1,521 Posts
Rep Power: 21474853 |
__________________
 無料のライブ
|
|
|
|
| The Following User Says Thank You to Duchess For This Useful Post: |
|
02-06-2011, 01:56 PM
|
#13 |
|
Member
How Do You Identify?:
asleep at the synthesizer Preferred Pronoun?:
crown prince of dirty disco 
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: the dollar bin
Posts: 1,392
Thanks: 2,082
Thanked 1,794 Times in 857 Posts
Rep Power: 21474851 |
|
|
|
|
| The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to tonaderspeisung For This Useful Post: |
|
09-30-2012, 06:03 AM
|
#14 |
|
Member
How Do You Identify?:
I see the world thru a lens Preferred Pronoun?:
Yes Boss Relationship Status:
Chillin out with awesome women 
Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: San Francisco
Posts: 1,376
Thanks: 4,018
Thanked 4,185 Times in 1,179 Posts
Rep Power: 21474852 |
Break-Up Songs
Been there,Done that-Luke Bryan and Beacause of you-Kelly Clarkson
|
|
|
|
| The Following User Says Thank You to StrongButch For This Useful Post: |
|
09-30-2012, 07:15 AM
|
#15 |
|
Member
How Do You Identify?:
Femme Preferred Pronoun?:
Serene Highness ;} Relationship Status:
Dreamily contemplating some outrage against conventional morality 
Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: Houston area
Posts: 1,362
Thanks: 1,417
Thanked 4,767 Times in 1,144 Posts
Rep Power: 21474852 |
Love this song...
__________________
. "I need no warrant for being, and no word of sanction upon my being. I am the warrant and the sanction. " Ayn Rand, Anthem "So you'll die happily for your sins. You'd rather die in guilt then live in love?" Timothy Leary |
|
|
|
|
02-06-2011, 12:01 AM
|
#16 |
|
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
dangerous, but worth the risk. Preferred Pronoun?:
just be nice.. it's that easy. Relationship Status:
CapitalM's carved upon my skin.
Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: on the southern edge of sanity, under a carolina moon.
Posts: 3,276
Thanks: 8,341
Thanked 8,262 Times in 2,255 Posts
Rep Power: 21474854 |
__________________
True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate their life, through devotion, to something beyond themselves. Whenever someone awakens fully, it affects human consciousness at a collective level. It is like dropping a stone into a dark murky pond. Ripples of light... Not one word need be spoken. |
|
|
|
| The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to miss entycing For This Useful Post: |
|
02-06-2011, 12:24 AM
|
#17 |
|
Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
Transguy Preferred Pronoun?:
He Relationship Status:
single Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Central West Coast of Florida
Posts: 5,204
Thanks: 34,866
Thanked 17,793 Times in 3,939 Posts
Rep Power: 21474855 |
__________________
“You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”
|
|
|
|
| The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to Jesse For This Useful Post: |
|
02-06-2011, 11:00 AM
|
#18 |
|
Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
Usually "Hello" Relationship Status:
Married and Bound to Tommi's kaijira (Ts_kaijira ) Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Suthun.... California that is. Across the ridge from Laguna Beach.
Posts: 8,151
Thanks: 13,621
Thanked 21,337 Times in 5,968 Posts
Rep Power: 21474859  |
My Healing Song
Anything Chris Williamson Just sayin' Chris's music has Helped to Heal me, make me whole to love again songs that have been with me since my young dashing bachelor, lover days. She has been through the fire of love and loss and her Ashes album still does it for me. and for those in need of a fuck off or love me big boy song... |
|
|
|
| The Following User Says Thank You to Tommi For This Useful Post: |
|
02-07-2011, 08:09 PM
|
#19 |
|
Member
How Do You Identify?:
boi Preferred Pronoun?:
hy Relationship Status:
happily taken 
Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: ohio
Posts: 1,406
Thanks: 26
Thanked 889 Times in 477 Posts
Rep Power: 1175216 |
i found the all american reject's hope it gives you hell worked well. i would turn up the volume and scream
the lyrics while cleaning my room. very theraputic. |
|
|
|
| The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to chefhottie25 For This Useful Post: |
|
03-27-2011, 02:46 AM
|
#20 |
|
Junior Member
How Do You Identify?:
me! Preferred Pronoun?:
Woman Relationship Status:
Sold! 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Long Beach, CA but home is Portland
Posts: 96
Thanks: 174
Thanked 178 Times in 63 Posts
Rep Power: 507770 |
I am aware that I got a little happy about it but it depends on my current mood and what i need to help my day along so....
[nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTcu7MCtuTs"]YouTube - Simply Red - If You Don't Know Me By Now[/nomedia] [nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EhQvdcMgxTw"]YouTube - Clark Anderson - Give Me Something Real[/nomedia] [nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v8PXesIY8_k"]YouTube - More Then a Memory[/nomedia] [nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NRr3Svk8GvI"]YouTube - k.d. lang - Luck In My Eyes (live 1990)[/nomedia] [nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ft-1OZafqe4"]YouTube - Michelle Wright - Take It Like A Man[/nomedia] |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Hybrid Mode
