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10-04-2013, 10:59 AM
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So long, T4 Texas, see you in heaven...
It is with a sad and heavy heart that I inform you that my dear friend Charlie, Chuck as I called him, has passed on to glory. He went peacefully in his sleep I'm told. I've known Chuck since the aol board days...his screen name there, was Charlie. When the boards dwindled I invited him to try first the dash site, then here as we all made the transition from one home to the next. Well, our Charlie decided to cut out completely and wait for us on the other side. He was my friend, my love, my confidante, my all around go to guy most times, and as dominating and hard headed as he was loving and kind and sweet and compassionate. Idk if y'all got to know him...but he was hard working, talented, trustworthy,, smart and funny...he was a photographer, artist, poet and writer...he taught me to trust my talents and to never forget I was beautiful....he made me believe I could do anything, challenged me without ever saying a word. Chuckie is gone but never forgotten....and I will miss him.
Services are planned for next week. I put this announcement in this section because I wasn't sure where to put it and Chuck was a believer. Not a constant or consistent believer, but a believer in God, none the less. He, like all of us at some point, thought that God didn't and couldn't love him because of his lifestyle and we had long talks, debates and some knock
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10-04-2013, 11:06 AM
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(((((((( t4 )))))))))) ty Canela for sharing this information ~ T4's whitt has been missed and will always be missed. Hy was a good friend to me
 God Bless hym ~
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10-04-2013, 11:29 AM
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RIP, T4.
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10-04-2013, 11:59 AM
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I was just looking for him the other day..I've missed our chats and so much has changed since the chat room changed and Mikes passing now T4...
He was a really good guy, down to earth and a real good friend...Your going to be missed Bro .... |
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10-04-2013, 12:12 PM
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I am so sorry to hear that. We talked many times in chat. What a nice guy.
Such sad news. We had this little thing. When I would first see him in chat, I'd do a *tap tap twirl* as if to the song "Tea for Two and Two for Tea." Silly, but it was fun and seemed to delight him. I just hate to hear this. |
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10-04-2013, 12:23 PM
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May T4 be embraced as warmly in Heaven as here with friends. RIP.
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10-04-2013, 12:23 PM
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So sorry to hear this. I don't get on the site as much as I used to, but had asked about T the last time I was in chat. I knew he had serious health issues but didn't know the full extent of it.
I am deeply moved by learning of his passing. Thank you Canela for a wonderful tribute to a great guy. |
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10-04-2013, 12:32 PM
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Sorry to hear about T4. My thoughts go out to his friends and family. May he RIP.
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10-04-2013, 12:54 PM
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Reading this post absolutely breaks my heart.
Rest in peace, Charlie. Love you. <3
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10-04-2013, 01:01 PM
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i'm going to say that T4 had many talks with God. he no longer has to wonder if he is worthy. he has made peace with any doubts.
may God bless his family and friends. give them what they need. in Jesus' name i pray, amen. |
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10-04-2013, 01:31 PM
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Dang. Rest in peace T4 TEXAS!!!
  You know, I only chatted and pm'd with him. But boy, when we talked we had a great time. He was very real. Good Person. God Bless him. For those who knew him well, i am sincerely sorry for your loss. Last edited by DMW; 10-04-2013 at 01:44 PM. |
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10-04-2013, 01:56 PM
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Canela and friends...
I am so very sorry to hear of T4's passing. May you be surrounded by comfort and peace during this time... for he is always with you. |
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10-04-2013, 02:22 PM
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I pray for strength that T4's family and friends will need, and I pray for his journey that is just beginning on the other side ....
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10-04-2013, 04:09 PM
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T4 told me once hy wanted me to attend hys funeral and speak about hym because hy believed I would capture hys essence.
We would often sit in the attic and tease each other, trying to see who could get under the other's skin a little first. T4 had a naughty streak like that. Hy was also incredibly witty. Hy happened to love Adam's spices and got me into them because hy was concerned that I was spending too much at Watkins. Hy had a dog that hy loved very much, and an ex that hy had managed to transcend any negativity with and move into a wonderful supportive friendship, which isn't surprising if you knew hym. We spoke several times about hys health and possible early passing. Hy was brave and stoic. Hy endured many battles health wise and it's very fitting that hy passed peacefully in the night. Hy deserved that. Hy was a kind and good and decent person and I'll miss hym very much. 
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10-04-2013, 04:20 PM
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Rest in peace
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10-04-2013, 04:28 PM
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I am so going to miss you Charlie
Make sure you and Mike have a good time together up there. You are missed.
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10-04-2013, 04:54 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. Blessings to you and the rest of his family.
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10-04-2013, 05:06 PM
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My getaway driver.
May the road rise to meet you. May the wind always be at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face, the rains fall soft upon your fields, and, until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hand.
You are missed, T$. |
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10-04-2013, 05:16 PM
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(((CANELA))) Sorry about your loss. I saw T4 Texas around alot but I never really had much contact with him. By your post he sounded like a wonderful guy. I pray you find peace in this saddest of times.
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10-04-2013, 05:16 PM
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Good Bye Ol' Friend, you will be missed....
Then Almitra spoke, saying, "We would ask now of Death." And he said: You would know the secret of death. But how shall you find it unless you seek it in the heart of life? The owl whose night-bound eyes are blind unto the day cannot unveil the mystery of light. If you would indeed behold the spirit of death, open your heart wide unto the body of life. For life and death are one, even as the river and the sea are one. In the depth of your hopes and desires lies your silent knowledge of the beyond; And like seeds dreaming beneath the snow your heart dreams of spring. Trust the dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity. Your fear of death is but the trembling of the shepherd when he stands before the king whose hand is to be laid upon him in honour. Is the shepherd not joyful beneath his trembling, that he shall wear the mark of the king? Yet is he not more mindful of his trembling? For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun? And what is to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered? Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing. And when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb. And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance. Catch you later Cowboy 
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