Would you date yourself? - Page 2

Jett · 03-21-2012, 09:48 AM

LOL... yes and actually I'd marry myself immediately before I got away... xD

I'm not perfect but I'm trustworthy, kind, loyal as hell and I already crack myself up all the time why not? I may be the only one who can truely handle and understand me... I deserve that...

lmao

clay · 03-21-2012, 09:57 AM

No I wouldn't because I am Butch and I only want to date femme...grins...
Not that I am not date worthy...I am a cool human being...I just am BUTCH...too butch for me...lol

Dude · 03-21-2012, 02:28 PM

I thought the thread was about who we are as people
not how we present or id.
A deeper delve but much more interesting.

I took myself to the movies ,then dinner last night.
swoon
Later I'm gonna buy me some expensive, new socks!

Queerasfck · 03-21-2012, 02:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dude

I thought the thread was about who we are as people
not how we present or id.
A deeper delve but much more interesting.

I took myself to the movies ,then dinner last night.
swoon
Later I'm gonna buy me some expensive, new socks!

Sounds like you'll be able to at least get to 3rd base with yourself, and soon!

Deborah* · 10-03-2017, 08:04 PM

Yes absolutely.

Deborah

Blade · 10-03-2017, 08:21 PM

Yup, I'm a pretty decent person. I'd date me

akiza · 10-06-2017, 07:39 AM

seriously? no i wouldn't it'll be an hell worse than my dayly struggle

imperfect_cupcake · 10-12-2017, 12:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kobi

This was the topic of conversation at dinner tonight.

This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches.

It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc.

And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not?

Would I date a butch, sexually dominant version of myself?

No. Because I need someone that *compliments* my strengths and weaknesses, that interlinks with the way I work, no a carbon copy of my personality traits, that wouldn't work. That's like two puzzle pieces of the same shape.

I'm a quiet living extrovert that likes gregarious introverts. It works better than two extroverts. Two extroverts don't ever shut the fuck up.

I like people who have strong points where I suck.

Two people who are very chill about the same things don't ever make decisions, and stubborn about the same things, never make compromises.

Having similar values/needs/wants in a relationship would be great, yes. And similar interests would be fantastic. But that's about the only places I would find it beneficial.

too much similarity - we'd fight too much.

Esme nha Maire · 01-08-2018, 10:13 PM

I'd give it a go, but more with a view to making friends than finding a partner. I'd be concerned that with identical weaknesses, as a couple we'd screw up twice as bad on the things that I screw up on. I think I need that sense of occasional delightful surprise you get from an Other. But at least I'd know I'm completely trustworthy, and affectionate. Plus there'd be little sense of mystery to a relationship. Could be fun to double-date with, we'd likely cause minor havoc now and then with our respective dates!

(this is a fun thread - some of the responses here have had me in stitches!)

cathexis · 01-08-2018, 11:55 PM

Would be intrigued, but would rather hang out or else with.

Go out on a date, naw ... she's too boisterous and loud. You never know what she's going to say next.

Lovely · 01-22-2018, 11:31 PM

Yes, I would date myself. I'm kinda fun to date.

cathexis · 01-23-2018, 01:54 AM

Would definitely depend on the type of activity.
Gambling or Scrabble: yes
Chatterbox type activities: absolutely not - would lose some friends

Movies or any other activity not requiring conversation: absolutely
A party: not on my word

apretty · 03-26-2012, 09:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by June

I would. But I would make sure I got the upper hand immediately, otherwise, I will be quite a handful.

yes, this.

03-21-2012, 09:48 AM	#1
Jett Member How Do You Identify?: Hardcore bullheaded grown-ass Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: she loves my shaggy hair Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The backroom of a night cafe plotting world domination Posts: 1,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,054 Thanked 3,299 Times in 568 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	LOL... yes and actually I'd marry myself immediately before I got away... xD I'm not perfect but I'm trustworthy, kind, loyal as hell and I already crack myself up all the time why not? I may be the only one who can truely handle and understand me... I deserve that... lmao __________________ .......... In the depth of winter I finally learned that there was in me an invincible summer. ~Albert Camus

03-21-2012, 09:57 AM	#2
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,104 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 96,135 Thanked 31,703 Times in 7,722 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	No I wouldn't because I am Butch and I only want to date femme...grins... Not that I am not date worthy...I am a cool human being...I just am BUTCH...too butch for me...lol __________________ To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault

10-03-2017, 08:21 PM	#6
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,492 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,850 Thanked 14,401 Times in 4,049 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Yup, I'm a pretty decent person. I'd date me __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

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Lovely Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Jan 2018 Location: Canada Posts: 27 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 75 Thanked 73 Times in 21 Posts Rep Power: 429505	Absolutely! Yes, I would date myself. I'm kinda fun to date.

01-23-2018, 01:54 AM	#12
cathexis Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?: They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status: open Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Great White North! Posts: 4,332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,812 Thanked 4,710 Times in 1,603 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	Would definitely depend on the type of activity. Gambling or Scrabble: yes Chatterbox type activities: absolutely not - would lose some friends Movies or any other activity not requiring conversation: absolutely A party: not on my word __________________ Insurrection is an art, and like all arts has its own laws. -----Leon Trotsky

03-21-2012, 02:28 PM	#3
Dude Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Perusing Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: exit 5 with an exit 21 goal Posts: 1,725 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,351 Thanked 10,606 Times in 1,477 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I thought the thread was about who we are as people not how we present or id. A deeper delve but much more interesting. I took myself to the movies ,then dinner last night. swoon Later I'm gonna buy me some expensive, new socks!

10-03-2017, 08:04 PM	#5
Deborah* Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: single and not looking Join Date: Sep 2017 Location: Texas Posts: 354 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 304 Thanked 420 Times in 180 Posts Rep Power: 2658953	Yes absolutely. Deborah

10-06-2017, 07:39 AM	#7
akiza Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: khaleessi lol ^-^ just go with aki,ana,kit or princess Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2017 Location: Congo-brazzaville Posts: 774 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 318 Thanked 622 Times in 284 Posts Rep Power: 0	seriously? no i wouldn't it'll be an hell worse than my dayly struggle

01-08-2018, 10:13 PM	#9
Esme nha Maire Member How Do You Identify?: Tomboyish eccentric antique femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: UK Posts: 642 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,196 Thanked 2,088 Times in 541 Posts Rep Power: 19310768	I'd give it a go, but more with a view to making friends than finding a partner. I'd be concerned that with identical weaknesses, as a couple we'd screw up twice as bad on the things that I screw up on. I think I need that sense of occasional delightful surprise you get from an Other. But at least I'd know I'm completely trustworthy, and affectionate. Plus there'd be little sense of mystery to a relationship. Could be fun to double-date with, we'd likely cause minor havoc now and then with our respective dates! (this is a fun thread - some of the responses here have had me in stitches!)

01-08-2018, 11:55 PM	#10
cathexis Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?: They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status: open Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Great White North! Posts: 4,332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,812 Thanked 4,710 Times in 1,603 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	Would be intrigued, but would rather hang out or else with. Go out on a date, naw ... she's too boisterous and loud. You never know what she's going to say next.