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01-04-2011, 09:59 PM
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Would you date yourself?
This was the topic of conversation at dinner tonight. This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches. It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc. And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not?
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01-04-2011, 10:04 PM
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 I would. I am awesome, extremely faithful, highly romantic, affectionate. Love to laugh, make others laugh. Im a huge teddybear with a big giving heart. Ive been told a great lover, and a great friend... And Im hella sexy  Just for starters. Im so much more. Im not perfect. I have my flaws... I never require in a femme what I dont already possess... Just sayin..
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01-04-2011, 10:08 PM
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I would without a doubt. I am a good catch. Kind, compassionate, well read and yes attractive to boot.
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01-04-2011, 10:09 PM
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I'd date myself, I just made dinner for me and I and gotta say.. I'm pretty damn good to me in bed too! *smirk* Sometimes I have a headache or me is too tired...
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01-04-2011, 10:12 PM
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01-04-2011, 10:13 PM
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No, cause I'm married, and I don't fool around on my wife.
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01-04-2011, 10:16 PM
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I would have to lean towards no.
Don't get me wrong, I have lots of qualities I like about myself. That's not it. I am looking for someone who complements me, not someone who is exactly like me. If they are exactly like me and like ALL the same things that I do and has all the same exact opinions that I do then I will not be challenged. There have to be some commonalities but not everything.
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01-04-2011, 10:20 PM
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Well I know "Strappie" would love me but I'm not so sure I would love "Strappie" The heat seeking moisture missile is a lot to handle.
Ohhh I went there...... |
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01-04-2011, 10:25 PM
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01-05-2011, 01:10 AM
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Me? In a New York minute, I would. I like my company. I think I'm very funny. I like to do all the things I like to do so it's easy to plan a date.
I will go out to eat alone. I will go out to the movies too. I sometimes have to force myself because so-called society thinks it's weird, but there ya are. I'm officially weird. I just get annoyed when I double book myself and stand me up. |
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01-05-2011, 07:29 AM
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limits!!!
i would but after much thought there would have to be limits when dating myself. we would also need a safe word for a timeout on those days we just can't deal with me anymore!!! ohhhh and i would have to like using vampire gloves on me, that is important.
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01-05-2011, 07:59 AM
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I think I would, but then again, I'm already with someone who is very much like myself - which is quite spooky at times - but other times - very comforting. Being on the same wave length, thinking the same things at the same time, sharing a lot of the same experiences, qualities, etc...
On the other side of that, we do have our differences and I think that is the key to what makes me a better person.
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01-05-2011, 08:02 AM
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Good God no! I'm not my type, far too grumpy and impatient.
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01-05-2011, 08:19 AM
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Oh yeah I would!!! It would have to be polyamorous though, and the other me COULD NOT own a goat damn BEAGLE!!!
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01-05-2011, 08:19 AM
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I'd probably be too frustrated by how little time that I would have to spend with me right now. Maybe in another year or so, when things have settled down a bit.
Even then, though, there will be the issue of always wanting to kick me out of the kitchen so that I can cook.
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01-05-2011, 08:50 AM
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Not only would I date me...I'd move me in and be in a committed relationship pronto!
Just think...someone who cooks the way I like it, bakes, makes the coffee, wants to go to the beach all the time, plays like a big goofy kid at Disney, has a job with lots of freedom, and gets things done around the house...awesome! On the down side...it's hard enough to get me to go for a walk or to my doctor appointments now. If I had me giving myself more slack...that could be an issue. Sexually...ummm....not going there 
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01-06-2011, 09:22 PM
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02-24-2012, 06:23 PM
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I would date me for some of my characteristics.
I'm not sexually attracted to femmes, but I do make a great femme bff! I prefer masculine energy sexually. As others have said about themselves, I can also be a handful, sometimes moody, forgetful, distracted, aloof, disinterested, crabby, emotional, and messy. I would make a better best friend to myself! . |
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02-24-2012, 10:44 PM
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yes and no. most often i find myself gravitating toward those with a similar low-key personality. i am the strong silent type but by no means shy. creativity and shared values also set a good foundation for the types of relationships in which i thrive, see myself and feel most comfortable. and, while i salute other butches, i am physically attracted only to those of the femme persuasion.
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03-21-2012, 09:39 AM
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Not only do I know how to woo me, make me weak in the knees etc, I know everything I like in bed Honestly though, I may not. My life is pretty fast-paced and I really need someone to rein me in when I commit to too much. Since I move at the speed of sound, I do better with someone who reminds me why the quiet days/nights at home are so much fun and therapeutic. 
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