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A few folks mentioned the back up freezer. I save so much money using mine. I buy a lot of things in bulk when they are on sale. I also try to buy my grains, beans, other non-perishables in bulk. Often my weekly grocery runs are fruits, veggies, and pet items because I stock up on everything else in big runs every few months.
I cook from scratch as much as I can, that saves a lot of money. I use groupon type things sometimes for outings and trips- sometimes they end up saving a good chunk. Try to pay cash for just about everything so I'm more mindful of how much I'm spending and it doesn't rack up CC interest. |
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I eat a lot of meat so when I find it on sale I buy it and freeze it. I also buy frozen veggies on sale and freeze them. I love fresh veggies but I only buy what I will eat that week.
I too pay cash at the grocery store. I make all my food from scratch and that saves me a lot of money. I plan my expenses each week and that helps a lot. I always put aside a little fun money but if I don't spend it then I am ahead of the game the next week. ![]() Happy savings friends! |
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I use almost no credit. Everything by cash. EVERYTHING.
I buy in resale stores I sell in resale stores and use the money made there to buy in resale stores I grow my own plants from seed instead of buying plants I grow plants and thus, veggies, instead of buying them in the store. I also keep my gardening simple, and dont buy expensive gardening tools, etc. I borrow what I can. I buy only quality when I do buy. I do not buy in quantity. It goes bad in our house because we never get around to using it all. So we buy in moderate amounts of small amounts. Sounds backwards but its what works for our two person household. I am buying a half a cow and half a pig this year from a farmer, at slaughter time and putting them in my freezer. I have had it for two years and never used it. We decided that was silly. (the freezer was given to us) I got rid of cable. I refuse to pay $150 a month for the privilege of watching commercial laden shows. We have netflix, hulu and amazon plus. Still cheaper! (I also watch shows the day after, on imtv.cc) I keep my car maintained so I have fewer repair bills. Once a car is paid off, I only keep liability on it. The money I save goes into a fund that goes for the next car, as a full payment or a down payment. I live within my means. I overstetched myself at times and was miserable whenever I did so. I am much happier living carefully.
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Whoever said "two can live as cheap as one" was a bold face liar!
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I am getting my hair trimmed at the beauty school for $10.00!
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When I go to Starbucks, I always just get tea. I don't need all the sugar in a latte anyway (although this is easy for me to say since I don't drink coffee.)
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It's fun to see how much we have in common when having to live on a budget. So many of us seem to have similar strategies.
I have a shopping triangle: Trader Joes, Sprouts and Costco. I have found I can get really good quality food at reasonable prices by being picky and price aware. Our Costco carries a lot of organic products. I love my freezer too. I decided to try and redecorate my house via Craigslist. I've bought choice pieces and sold my old stuff. Just this week it all fell into place. I love Annie Sloan and her chalk paint. I buy for shape, design, and quality. And I actually love it if it needs some paint ![]() TIP: When wealthy people redecorate they often sell things cheap so they can get on with their projects. Act fast and bargain with them. CL is a treasure hunt you never know what piece you will find at what time. Be patient when you want an item, it will come up. I heard a saying in regards to organization and decluttering: Only save what you love. I tend to have a love of "SHINEY THINGS" especially if found on a treasure hunt like yard sales, Craigslist etc. Ohhh shiny thing, great price, and growing clutter. So I have been on an only save what I use and love binge. It has happened in layers, over a couple of years. I am finally down to what I really want and love. My house is easier to clean, and when I look around I smile because I really love what's left. Love the laundry soap idea <3 |
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Only order water in restaurants.
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But not with lemon or lime wedges as most of them have fecal residue on them.
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Me too, I live within the means of my earning power. I don't use credit cards at all, but swipe my credit union debit card or use cash for purchases.
I've been able to save money by upgrading all my appliances at home to energy saving appliances. Also, I qualified for energy credits via the power company, because I upgraded my appliances. I wish I could qualify for clean energy off the power grid, but because I live in an much older urban housing community, I won't be able to do that unless I buy my own property/home. That's my dream, to own my own home. I started a savings account for funds to go toward that dream. I do that by contributing money that I save on my power bill. It's growing steadily because for years, before I bought my energy saving appliances, my power bill would notoriously sky rocket during late fall through late spring (a span of over 7-8 months). This year, I want to have my sweetheart build a few things (little pet projects): I want to have more privacy by attaching lattice work to the patio balcony, so I can grow sun flowers and trumpet vines and trailing roses and English ivy. I've been keeping an eye out for an rather large patio umbrella, so I can stand it up inside a wooden picnic table, to provide coverage during times of rain. I'm actually hoping to have a nice amount of cash equity set aside before I turn 60 (a couple of years from now), to help me purchase a small house, on a reasonable sized rural lot. My car died during grad school, a number of years ago, so I don't miss the price of car insurance or weekly gasoline purchases or car maintenance expenditures. Bicycling gets me to where I need to go, plus it's a fabulous way to get exercise and decompress after a work day or just ride for fun and relaxation. The cost of upkeep on my bicycle is minimal, so I don't miss owning a car at all. I cook all meals at home, which saves too. I like to go out for dinner or breakfast, maybe once or twice a year. I really like it that four times a year, certain groups of friends get together for potlucks or BBQ's. I always make something to take to these seasonal get-together's: by request, if it's something everyone would like to have again; or be creative and bring something that people don't always make at home but would enjoy eating. I really want to grow my own vegetables and such but there's not enough space or room to do that, right now. For the most part, I live modestly. My sweetheart does too. We're happy and it makes us feel good that our lifestyle choices and values match similarly. |
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Exactly! (my mom told me this..)
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staying in the woods all weekend and not going into town to Home Depot, Lowe's or Sams Club
btw, you people are cracking me up in this thread tonight ![]() almost forgot ... had to come back and edit ... staying away from Abercrombie &Fitch's online clearance sale I ordered 2 of their guys shirt jackets around 5:00 a.m. today ... With the coupon code A & F supplied, they were down to right about $28.00 each... that was for the light brown one and the khaki colored one ... the other colors at that time in the morning were not marked down that much ... if anyone goes there, be sure and study the size and fit ... if it does not say"Classic Fit" then I go up a size from my norm |
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This year I decided to put aside $5 a day from my job and so far, I've been able to do it. At the end of the year, I'll have saved a decent amount. My only dilemma is how often should I bank it.
And, I gave up my credit cards, only using cash and debit nowadays.
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I put money away. I can be dead poor but I don't touch my savings. I am waiting for the housing market to crash again.
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I save money by not buying anything that is tagged with extra taxes or tariffs. I don’t know how long the American economy will survive once it’s irrevocably changed by our latest person occupying the WH.
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