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if all this is "policing" this form of ongoing nagging "you're not good enough" terrible criticism, then my Mother was a Police Commissioner ......
but, who gives a shit? If I had a dollar for every time someone "fell in love with me just the way I was" only then to spend countless days trying to change me to no avail, in essence is the same thing. police all you want then as i walk away talk about me all you want, who cares, certainly, not I..... Yes, it's hurtful, painful ...but who are they? friends? get rid of them, it's that simple. Surround yourself with acceptance rather than spending time figuring out why people do what they do.... I have similar issues with being a Jew, it used to make me see red, peoples ignorance. just "be" |
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oh and "man-up"
I have said this to many, jokingly, and they knew it, and it's been said to me, that's fine. I have been called "dude" by my own butch wife, that's fine too.
When you know who and what you are, what you feel like inside, how you choose to project your inner to your outer in every way, just do it.... One day when in a bar with J and our friends, the shots of booze were flying. J will drink 2-3 beers but isn't a shot drinker. Bartender went to pour J a shot and j said "no" Bartender replied "Oh, man up" Oh no he didn't just say THAT to my butch wife, did he? ..as the steam starting coming from my ears and blood from my eyes, I knew I was about to combust...... I had that feeling of anger with the ignorance. I waited a bit until calmer, we said goodbye to our friends and left, never saying a word to Bartender. I am glad I didn't, it would have showed him he annoyed me .....and i knew he would enjoy knowing that. |
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