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View Poll Results: How many of us have found love on BFP? | |||
Love romance only | 9 | 10.11% | |
Love with engagement | 4 | 4.49% | |
Love with marriage | 2 | 2.25% | |
Love in friendship | 31 | 34.83% | |
Found love more than once | 6 | 6.74% | |
Love not found | 31 | 34.83% | |
Other~please explain | 19 | 21.35% | |
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 89. You may not vote on this poll |
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12-14-2010, 06:52 PM | #1 |
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How Many Members Found Love on BFP?
A poll because I am curious that way...
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12-14-2010, 06:59 PM | #2 |
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What does "Love in Friendship" mean?
I will say that while I haven't found "love" in the romantic sense (since K and I were together before BFP formed), I have found closer ties to my extended family that I haven't had in a while.
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12-14-2010, 07:00 PM | #3 |
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Love in Friendship means finding friends that you absolutely love but not in a romantic way. That has happened to me several times even though I have only been a member slightly more than two months!!!
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12-14-2010, 07:30 PM | #4 |
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I have found love in friendship with several here, though I had this with some already on the dash site.
No love in the romantic sense though. :wondering where the hot femmes in Florida are that date Transmen:
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12-14-2010, 08:24 PM | #5 |
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I chose other b/c I am not looking for love on BFP.
I hope that no couple met on the site have gotten married...the site has only been open for a year!
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12-14-2010, 08:35 PM | #6 |
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I'm an other, I met and married my wife before this site was a glimmer.
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12-14-2010, 08:45 PM | #7 |
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I havent met anyone romantically to fall in love with on this site or any of the other sites However, I always keep an open mind and do know a few that met via the other sites who are married now
I also have met many friends on here whom I love... |
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12-14-2010, 08:49 PM | #8 |
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I have met friends, but no love.........
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12-14-2010, 10:00 PM | #11 |
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Organic and I technically didn't *meet* on here so I filed us under "other".
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12-14-2010, 11:52 PM | #12 |
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Love y'all.
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12-15-2010, 07:00 AM | #13 |
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Scoote and I met on the dash site...so I put us in "other" as well.
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12-15-2010, 07:47 AM | #14 |
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I met my gf through craigslist. I put up an ad that went something like this:
"Are there ANY other lesbians in this damn tiny town? I'm going to see X movie at X time. Get out from behind your keyboards and come join me. This is my very last weekend in town. PS. Don't be a craigslist murderer please." And I included a pic. Nobody came to the movie that night (except me). But I got some responses. One from a married lady with a half-dressed picture of herself, another from a lady claiming to be in the closet (again half-dressed), and then one from a lesbian in a nearby town who wrote a very sweet email and then also talked about other movies she liked. We decided to meet the next night for a movie - not as a date, just as a hang-out-with-another-lesbian-and-not-live-in-straight-world-for-a-night thing. And she was really cool. Afterwards we exchanged emails and just sort of talked about our pasts and our future plans and life in general, and we both realized the other was pretty cool. I was leaving anyway, so neither of us expected a future, but we did go ahead and have a real date after my work-week was over. It went really well. I was fresh off a failed relationship and not looking for new one, and definitely not a long-distance one, but I ended up going back up to see her shortly after I got back to Texas and she's just the awesome. Kind, gentle, empathetic, smart, logical, sexy. That was over a year ago now, and we've both flown back and forth since then mny times. She comes here on her school breaks, I save up vacation time to go there. She's having her last finals today and then she's coming down here for almost month. I was going to then go see her in January, but some heath issues have come up which may suck up my vacation time. (At my company you can't get to your sick leave until you use 3 "PTO" days). Anyway, I get to see her very soon, and I'm very happy about that. I hope her finals go well today.
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12-15-2010, 08:33 AM | #15 |
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I'll just say that I'm more guarded than before I came on line.
I have found friends here, and can honestly declare my love for them. In particular, there is nothing like the loyalty of a butch friend, nor the loving friendship of a fierce femme. That alone is worth the handful of stardust in my eyes when I did go overboard. Last edited by waxnrope; 12-15-2010 at 08:40 AM. |
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12-15-2010, 08:50 AM | #16 |
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I love you all.....well , mostly all.
When you aren't looking it smacks you in the head.
I found love On the Planet and all who come here... mostly all. I found love at the Reunion BIG TIME> I love ya baby. do. I love ya man/boi/girl/Daddy/Mama/ et.at;., I do I found lovers on other sites prior to spinning in here. I met that Joisey goil , LeftWriteFemme over there-->before the dashcrash about 3 years ago..Who knew we were destined for a long, reallly long distance relationship. as we are both rooted in our respective soil. |
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12-15-2010, 07:34 PM | #17 |
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I've found love MANY time's over... I have made friends with some amazing people that I am proud to call my "FRIENDS"
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12-15-2010, 11:49 PM | #18 |
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le sigh
There are truly delightful people on this site, and I really value the friendships we are creating, a lot. I cherish those sweet warm connections.
Well sharing erotic writing is fun, but I'm an Old school femme. And when I let someone into my heart, I love fiercely. When it comes to online romance, Nancy Regan and I agree, just say NO! I'm afraid I have learned not to trust people I don't really know, with my tender inner landscapes. Please, you know when it's starts getting close it's going, THERE. And for me it's proven unwise to be emotionally vulnerable to someone I've never met. But then again, I'm a very sensitive woman, who believes those parts of me are sacred. Actually my sweet wickedness, belong to my Papi, I'll save them for him, rather than being an online appetizer that gets passed around. <le sigh, rant over> So, I'm only dating in person, as in drive your car to my house, or meet me at the cafe. No more online romance for me, No dating sites, no craigslist, no adds ~ never again. Punto! Our paths will have to cross naturally, the old fashioned way. I'm sorry, I know I'm a buzz kill.
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12-16-2010, 07:50 AM | #19 |
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there are so many beautiful femmes on here i have found alot of lust but have only found true love in friendship here. i have also met some new butch bros that are true friends
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12-16-2010, 08:30 AM | #20 |
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I truly adore my friends here! So many fabulous people--how could you not love 'em?!
xoxo
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