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I'm so naive... relationships are my forte; dating, however, is not
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If one of her closest friends says she'll hook you up with her... good sign?
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Yup it can be hard..
I have the same issue as AtomicZombie lol.. I can't always tell if someone is just looking for something casual or something more long term... if they are being genuine or saying whatever they think will get them in my pants lol.. Ive also had the issue of Butches thinking I am into them because I am nice or they assume because I am being sweet I want in their pants... -- Dating can be confusing! But I agree about paying attention to body language sometimes how we act or react speaks louder then what we say
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Ummmm.....no clue.
I'm one of those dense people when it comes to flirting. Years ago, in a group of friend/acquaintances I jokingly said "how come you all flirt with each other and no one flirts with me?" There was general laughter and then one was kind enough to inform me "uh, Jo...we do...you just don't get it." True story.
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One girl told me it made her feel "a little jealous" when I told her about this beautiful love letter I had from an ex-girlfriend who I adore. I think she might be into me...
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If she hugs you, kisses your cheek and says "text me tomorrow" but then texts you an hour later telling you how cute you are... she might be into you
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I'm on my I phone typing this but for me I can feel it and someone's lack of actions will.tell me every time
If you tell me you are gonna so something and you don't etc Lots of the things show when someone is just not into you Personally I think I'm a Damn good catch and someone is crazy not.to.be into.me.lol |
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Ummm.... so......
Why not just say "I'm into you?" I know, I'm no fun..... |
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if they are still calling you after they've moved on....
they may be into you. *shrugs*
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I like attention, so I can always tell if someone likes me. It works the other way too, I can always see if someone likes my partner, which can be hard.
I'm not always good. Once I spent a whole night with two old friends and completely missed the fact that they were now together. My gf at the time, who was usually rubbish at this sort of thing, was the one to point it out! It's the way someone looks at you, this searching - looking for deeper meaning kind of look. Their body language changes, they move closer, become more attentive. They listen and remember things you say. Plus they contact you quite randomly. It can always go the other way as well, they can be very distant, even give you dirty looks when you are both out, but then you they always know where you are..
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Um.. if I was into you I'd probably go dumb.. you know.. cos all the blood leaves my brain! That is why it's good to meet someone who genuinely makes you laugh.. giggling is a clue (and she's not laughing at you, unless you are making a joke about yourself and you meant her too!) I listen alot. I smile. Take deep breaths. Make eyes. I can't beleive you don't know these things ;-) you cheeky ones ;-)
Sometimes I think I confuse women 'cos if they reached out to touch my arm then I'd be all nervous but that's not the same as making a cold face and stepping backward, which would be "not into you". Reading between the lines it's a compliment I'm all tense! If you know what I'm saying! Sexual tension! So be careful to know the difference between excited/nervous and not interested/hostile. How she shows her interest in you isn't always blatantly obvious.. so.. There are some videos on YouTube I've recently watched, although straight, kind of give you some solid clues. Named something like How to tell if a girl/boy is into you. I hope that helps. F xx |
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