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Old 04-07-2011, 07:51 AM   #221
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I know Y'all are sick and tired of me saying this, but I get a lot of peace from painting.........

It heals me......it calms me......it centers me.......and it gives me joy on a daily basis. <smile>



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Old 04-07-2011, 07:59 AM   #222
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Daddys constant reassuring presence allowing my little girl to be completely free.
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Getting out on the road on my Harley, no destination in mind, just feeling the wind against me, free'ing my mind, my soul, just riding to nowhere.
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Warm breezy day

Cozy spot down by the river

Picnic basket filled with all sorts of edible goodies

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drifting off in front of a roaring fire.

floating in the sea and allowing the waves to move me.

gazing on a clear & starry night.

waking up with sunshine on my face and pillow.
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drifting off in front of a roaring fire.

floating in the sea and allowing the waves to move me.

gazing on a clear & starry night.

waking up with sunshine on my face and pillow.

I love this! It reminds me of my many beach vacations, and swinging in the hammock. Just a wonderful visual.
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That my life is my own and that I live honestly and with integrity. No one can take that away from me or change that reality.
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Knowing that this is how life is supposed to be. Knowing life is not supposed to be filled with drama and chaos. Knowing that I am not supposed to work myself to death to prove myself. Knowing that I am worthy. Sorry it took so long for it to sink in, self.
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[QUOTE=DomnNC;315411]Getting out on the road on my Harley, no destination in mind, just feeling the wind against me, free'ing my mind, my soul, just riding to nowhere.


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Being on the water;

Watching water fountains;

Holding and rocking my furkids;

Sitting on my deck and having hummingbirds and other birds land on my shoulders to rest.
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Taking the furkids for a long walk around the community, then seeing a few friendly gators near the pond on the way home.
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Depends on the season. Winter is hard , most things I find comfort in require you to be outside. Sitting on the patio after a long day at work, just watching the birds, or butterflies, or listening to the bullfrogs, in my bare feet If I'm really restless, I run , or play basketball, or riding my motorcycle, I get alot of thinking done when I do those things. Just floating around the swimming pool is very relaxing for me. Playing golf always makes me happy , no matter what. I just realized something. When I'm restless or in pain, I just want to be alone, if I hang out with friends, or go to an event , seems to make things worse.
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Having a quiet meditation time for myself...beginning with turning off everything - tv, phone, computer...followed by a sage smudge sometimes with sweetcrass, cedar and/or lavender, then incense and candles, selection of a crystal and then i sit quietly for as long as it takes...letting the cobwebs clear and finding peaceful ground again...
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Forgot to add this to my previous past...

When things get too overwhelming i drive up to the mountains for some meditation time atop Waterrock Knob or Richland Balsam (pics of both are in my gallery) - the two highest places along the Blue Ridge Parkway...
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Watching all the beautiful bluebirds [from my porch and window] who have called our yard and trees home. This is the first time in my life that bluebirds have chosen to nest so close. It's a thrill to watch them and a special treat to see their flash of color and watch their antics (even if it means my car has birdie poop all over it).

Sitting hear enjoying a late breakfast while listening to all the birdies.... music to my ears.
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