40 Questions

laruss · 07-27-2012, 01:59 PM

I had answered these questions on my blog back in March and I was revisiting them and thinking about what had changed. So, I am answering them again. I wanted to share with everyone as I think they are great questions to ask ourselves. And if you would like to share please feel free to copy and paste and answer them.

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?

2. What's been on your mind most lately?

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame?

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most?

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life?

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now?

7. In one sentence, who are you?

8. What do you want to be known for?

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself?

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?

15. What stands between you and what you want?

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?

17. When did you first realize that life is short?

18. What do you need to spend more time doing?

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you?

22.What’s something no one can take away from you?

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?

27. If not now, then when?

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of?

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?

30. What do you want to remember forever?

31. What could society do without?

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of?

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older?

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while?

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be?

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?

40. What questions do you often ask yourself?

laruss · 07-27-2012, 02:34 PM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?
I can follow my dreams because I now have defined them and know that I am worth the hard work and I am worth the happiness that ensues when you follow your dreams.

2. What's been on your mind most lately?
My life, where I am going, what I want and how I will get there.

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame?
happiness, love, health, money, fame

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most?
Space, space to paint, write and explore. And this sense of happiness and peace to continue.

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life?
Happy, truly happy.

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now?
Knowing that I alone am responsible for my happiness.

7. In one sentence, who are you?
I am a happy, grateful being.

8. What do you want to be known for?
Being the person who changed the most, the person who loved the most.

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?
My friends and impromptu get togethers with them.

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?
I will be living in a new place, experiencing a new time in my life. Creating, loving, being.

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself?
I do, and I have some great friends that add to that. I really am lucky to have the people I do in my life.

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?
I would have to say Honesty, Loyalty and Openness.

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?
Is it fear of failure or fear of success? My life up until this last year seems like it has been riddled with fear. Although not fear of adventure, I have made sure to do new things as often as possible. Okay the question was 'What has fear of failure stopped you from doing' and I would have to say - Completing my degree. Oh, that's scary to even say. I didn't think I could keep up the marks all the way through so it was easier to not do it. I now know that I just have to get through it and enjoy it as much as possible, even if I don't have honors that doesn't take away from completing it.

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?
An education. To be the first Phd in my family.

15. What stands between you and what you want?
Myself, it is amazing how we make justified excuses when we are afraid of something.

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?
Lately most everything makes me happy, but my way of expressing is my art and writing. My art journal is perfect for that, I make sure I have art and writing on each and every page before I sign off on it. And when in doubt I call a friend who can ease me and make me laugh.

17. When did you first realize that life is short?
When my husband died. Not when my mom died at 56, but when my husband died at 50. My mom had been sick for a long time and I guess I thought of it as a relief for her and us (even though I missed her), but when my husband at 50 years old fell asleep and never woke up... that made me sit up and take notice. Well as soon as I was able to move again.

18. What do you need to spend more time doing?
Moving, I sit to write, I sit or stand to do my art. I need to move more.

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?
My first thought was my weight, but I have to say no, I have always known that when I dealt with the issues I would lose the weight. I have tried with many therapists and different programs to deal with those issues to no avail. But I have constantly looked at and confronted that. Hmmm, this is a tough one as I am one of those people who constantly is looking at their sh*t to see what needs to be changed, what can be improved on. So honestly I am struggling to come up with something I have refused to confront. I am going to ask my friends if they can think of something. Maybe I'm refusing so hard I don't see it.

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?
Download movies and music from the internet without paying for it. I have always had an issue with this. I have an itunes account and I either rent or buy the movies I want to watch. My friends know this about me so they no longer offer to make a disc for me and if we are getting together for movie night they usually let me bring the movie as they know I want watch it if it is "stolen".

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you?
That I have to have everything done my way. It doesn't need to be done my way but if no one else is going to step up I will take the lead. I am happy to have someone else lead... as long as someone leads. Step up, don't wait for me to do it.

22.What’s something no one can take away from you?
My integrity, my beliefs, my happiness.

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?
Hate, hate is a huge word... I guess I would have to say - My knowing. I would hate to even for one day question everything I know and I am. There are moments I may do this about something or other, but to lose that all encompassing knowing I have about myself, even for one day would be devastating.

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?
I can't think of anything really, because all my losses have made me who I am today and today I am pretty happy.

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?
The birth of my two granddaughters.

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?
I need to make sure I am always living for me and no one else as life is too short.

27. If not now, then when?
Oh, this is so true. Now.

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of?
Learned to ride a motorbike at 43. Given my kids the space I never got. Learned to follow my passion and stop letting 'real' life get in the way. That's not real life, living who you are is real life.

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?
I can be anything I want and I want to be an artist and a writer. Oh wait, I am an artist and a writer. And that I am lovable for who I am.

30. What do you want to remember forever?
I want to remember how much I was/am loved by those in my life.

31. What could society do without?
Small minded people is the first thing that comes to my mind. That and probably fear driven religions.

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of?
I am loved

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?
Live your passion, follow your dreams, be creative in everything that you do, be true to yourself.

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?
Contact my biological father, thankfully he never responded.

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older?
I had said I would never have more children and now I really want to have that experience again. I have no desire to give birth again, but to give a loving home to a child/ren that needs it would be fantastic. Crazy thoughts for a Grandma, lol.

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while?
My relationships, good or bad, they made me who I am today.

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?
Be true to yourself, don't let others tell you who you should be.

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be?
Good bye and thank you for being a part of my life. My hope would be that 60 seconds would be long enough to get that message out to everyone who had been a part of my life.

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?
Before this year I would have said no as I have always been about the experiences, but now that I am a writer it will probably all equal out.

40. What questions do you often ask yourself?
Why? I often ask myself why am I doing something, why did I say something, why do I think that, why do I think they think that. I have this innate curiosity that needs to know the why of everything.

Leigh · 07-27-2012, 03:56 PM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Loving myself, and allowing to love me in return

2. What's been on your mind most lately? Making changes in my life, only for the better and how I CAN achieve them where as before I never would have believed it

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? Happiness, Love, Health, Money and then Fame

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? To be in the arms of the one I love most

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Hectic

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? Love, it surrounds me and I am truly blessed

7. In one sentence, who are you? I am a strong woman who is a fighter, a lover and a friend

8. What do you want to be known for? For being a good friend, sister, daughter and person

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? Its both my mom and my sister

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? I'll have a job, have lost weight and I will just feel much better about myself as a person

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? My family and friends

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? Patient, Understanding and Happy

13. What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? Living life the way I really want to live it

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? Just to be happy

15. What stands between you and what you want? Me, as simple as that

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Sleep, or come on the Planet and talk to my friends

17. When did you first realize that life is short? Something makes me think that every day, with all of the tragedy in the world around us it constantly reminds me that like is MUCH to short and that its important to always be thankful for what you have and who is in your life

18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Taking care of myself

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? My weight and my battles with food

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Religion and personal beliefs

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? That I'm lazy, but I'm really not

22.What’s something no one can take away from you? The love that I have for myself

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? Talking to my Daddy, I couldn't go a day without that

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? All four of my grandparents

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? Daddy talking to me in chat for the first time, and growing to fall very much in love with Him

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? Lose weight and gain control of my eating habits

27. If not now, then when? ASAP

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? Going back to school in 2006 and getting my G.E.D

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? That I am stronger than I ever thought

30. What do you want to remember forever? How good it feels to be alive

31. What could society do without? Murder, famine etc

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? That I love my Daddy with everything I am

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? We all deserve to be happy, no matter what

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? Not sure, I'd have to think on that one

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? Kids, I didn't want any for a long time but now I do

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? One past relationship, that lasted for 5 years, it gave me a glimpse into how strong of a person I am and showed me what I really wanted in a partner (which I have now and am very happy about)

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? Don't let people get to you, pursue your dreams and fuck the haters

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? To tell my parents and sister I love them, and to tell rocky how much I love Him as well

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? The first 30 years of my life yes, but the next 30 years I plan to do more than I say

40. What questions do you often ask yourself? Why did I let so many years get away without doing things for myself?

macele · 07-27-2012, 06:56 PM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? i can breath when i walk. i find myself saying, "let me go get that!" my heart inhales a brand new oxygen. my tears fall like rain. thank you tears. i survived a heart attack and a triple bypass.

2. What's been on your mind most lately? i'm thinking about the victory that is about to happen. not the defeat.

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame?
the most important is to love myself. the rest will follow.

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? life is pain, happiness, love, heart break. we get moments of each and every. i just want to enjoy life, and make a difference while doing so. and go through the moments. just live the moments.

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? rising.

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? myself.

7. In one sentence, who are you? i am special.

8. What do you want to be known for? gambaru ... i never want to give up.

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? mississippi magnolia blooms. i believe thats one of heavens scents.

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? i'll be as rich as rich can be.

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? i do.

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? loyality, laughter, patience.

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? being honest.

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? a go cart.

15. What stands between you and what you want? air.

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? eat popcorn.

17. When did you first realize that life is short? do we ever really realize that? even at death, ...

18. What do you need to spend more time doing? anything that is productive.

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? blah blah blah.

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? they tell me what they don't like. i want to know what you do like, not dislike.

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? not a clue.

22.What’s something no one can take away from you? my salvation.

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? sports section.

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? sex. yeah, not nearly enough sex.

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? i'll let that be a private memory.

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? eating healthy.

27. If not now, then when? when i lift my head. amen.

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? i'm truly proud of the people around me. i chose, partially, to be with these people. i can pick good folks! you all, i'm proud of.

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? i've always looked for angels to save me from me. everyday angels. i've learned that i am an everyday angel. i can save myself from me.

30. What do you want to remember forever? my momma loves me.

31. What could society do without? facebook lol.

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? whitney houston had a gift. the voice.

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? we as a whole nation, this world of people needs to fight for health insurance.

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? i said i'd never forgive that 4th grade teacher that made me feel less. but without that feeling she made me feel, ... i wouldn't be able to defend others as well as i do now.

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? my momma isn't the only woman that can make biscuits.

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? the ball player that i will always be, if only in my heart.

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? don't waste time.

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? "i'll be just around the corner. i'll wait for you. i'll never leave you. i promise." and then, when i see them again, ... getting to see the look on their face. i really did wait.

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? yeah, probably so.

40. What questions do you often ask yourself? why don't you play bingo? why did you eat that whole pack of gum? and why do you wear black socks every damn day of your life? (that made me laugh)

laruss · 07-29-2012, 05:58 PM

Bumping (-:

Scuba · 07-29-2012, 11:03 PM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Love where I live

2. What's been on your mind most lately? Friendships

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? Health, happiness, love, money.

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? More time…

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Living

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? Good people

7. In one sentence, who are you? Chris

8. What do you want to be known for? That I tried…

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? I just did this…my chosen family.

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? I have no idea nor do I want to have any idea…surprise me 

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? Good decisions

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? Honesty, kindness, humor

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? Taking some necessary exams

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? Loving parents

15. What stands between you and what you want? Nothing

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Sleep

17. When did you first realize that life is short? A few years back…

18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Anything but work

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? Let’s start with aging…

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Not agree with me…of course

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? That I am full of myself

22.What’s something no one can take away from you? Me

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? Love

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? Tim

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? Tim

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? Take those damn exams…

27. If not now, then when? Before March

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? Become me…

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? The older I get the less patience I have..

30. What do you want to remember forever? Tim

31. What could society do without? Asshats

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? Me

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? THINK!!

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? Move again…

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? Peas

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? Tim

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? You are loved…

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? Thank you!!!

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? More than likely **laughing**

40. What questions do you often ask yourself? When can I get an AARP card and where’s the nearest IHOP?

thedivahrrrself · 07-30-2012, 12:02 AM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?
It might be better to ask what I didn't realize I was capable of a year ago... I understand now that I'm capable of almost anything. I also got good at breaking up over the last year. I used to suck at that.

2. What's been on your mind most lately?
How unusually grounded I feel.

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? Health, happiness, love, money. Fame looks like it sucks, no thanks.

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most?
To know what the future holds. Call the lady who throws the sticks.

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life?
Busy

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now?
the priorities i've set, goals that are within reach.

7. In one sentence, who are you?
I am the Queen of Awesomeness.

8. What do you want to be known for?
Genuinely helping a few people.

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?
Good Southern barbeque

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?
OMG There are SO many possibilities for next year! Once my MPA is finished, I could go one of about a million ways...

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself?
My friends, my lover, no one is allowed to be in my life who doesn't do this. I'm getting too old for frienemies.

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?
Honesty, kindness, fun (good taste in shoes never hurt either)

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?
Really giving myself to someone in a relationship.

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?
I spoil myself these days.... Hmmmm..... A music studio in my house

15. What stands between you and what you want?
You certainly don't want it to be you!

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?
Sing

17. When did you first realize that life is short?
I always thought mine would be. Then I realized I'm here for the long haul. Bring it on.

18. What do you need to spend more time doing?
Research. Working out. Salsa dancing.

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?
Self-esteem

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?
Vote for assholes

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you?
That you can push me around without consequences.

22.What’s something no one can take away from you?
My spunk

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?
Tenderness

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?
Intense spiritual experiences. Perhaps it's time to do a retreat when it cools down some. I could use the me time and the closeness I felt to my creator.

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?
Paipa

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?
Hit the books. Hard.

27. If not now, then when?
Tomorrow. Procrastinators love tomorrows.

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of?
Started a new career. Well, technically I do that in about 8 hours.

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?
The thing that has held me back most in life is forgetting that I am awesome.

30. What do you want to remember forever?
The feeling that I can have everything I want. Felt that for the first time a few weeks ago.

31. What could society do without?
The people from Jersey Shore

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of?
I can do this.

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?
Care about something other than yourself.

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?
I swore I'd never date another person who is smarter than me. They are tough people to crack. But some things are worth the time and effort you have to put in.

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older?
owning a gun

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while?
Skydiving

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?
If a person isn't worthy of your respect, what they think of you is irrelevant. Stop worrying about them and start worrying about you.

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be?
I would filibuster the whole 60 seconds. First, I'd pray. Next, I'd tell people I loved them. Then, I'd tell someone where I hid a bunch of gold... Just to fuck with them

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?
Nope. I'm a lot better doer than I am a sayer.

40. What questions do you often ask yourself?
Why am I still awake?
How did I get so lucky?
How am I going to keep myself from messing this up?
How am I going to finish this [work/project/etc]?

EnderD_503 · 08-03-2012, 10:39 PM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?
Feel genuinely happy. Focus more on things that interest me. Feel the fear of losing the positive people and chosen family in my life right now, but also the joy of how much they've come to mean to me.

2. What's been on your mind most lately?
1. Surgery and being happy with the results. 2. My financial situation. 3. Worried about whether or not I'll be able to afford to go back to school.

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame?
1. Happiness. 2. Health. 3. Money. 4. Love. 5. Fame.

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most?
To have a clearer view of my future and what to do with my life. Also, to see one of my roommates get the health care he needs since he keeps getting the shaft from every angle and it breaks my heart to see it.

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life?
Happy? :P

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now?
That I finally feel like I actually want to be alive And that maybe that feeling means I finally have something to offer my community!

7. In one sentence, who are you?
Dunno.

8. What do you want to be known for?
Nothing really.

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?
My community.

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?
Hopefully I'll have a better job.

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself?
My roommates and my mother.

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?
Honesty. Trustworthiness. Socially-minded.

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?
So much

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?
Top surgery

15. What stands between you and what you want?
Already go it. From here on out I hope things can only get better, lol.

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?
I just ride it out. When I feel depressed sometimes I just need to sleep it off and wake up the next day feeling less hopeless.

17. When did you first realize that life is short?
Not sure the first time...but every time I realise that there's way too many things I want to do in my life.

18. What do you need to spend more time doing?
Looking for a new job.

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?
I'm not sure.

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?
Not sure about that either.

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you?
Not sure...

22.What’s something no one can take away from you?
The happiness I feel right now.

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?
Pants or shorts. I don't like being naked in my nether regions

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?
Right now, probably seeing some friends I haven't seen in a year or so. My cousin as well.

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?
Top surgery! Yes, I'm redundant lol

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?
Get a new job and start volunteering at a local clinic that I keep meaning to try to get signed up for...

27. If not now, then when?
Good question!

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of?
I don't feel I've ever done anything so great that I should be proud. But if I manage to contribute something to my community, that's enough.

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?

30. What do you want to remember forever?
This moment...is etterrnniiitttyyy!

31. What could society do without?
Where do I even start? lol

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of?
That I'm happy with my life right now and the people around me. I've definitely managed to surround myself with some amazing people and I've learned so much from them.

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?
N/A

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?
Dance, lol.

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older?
Too much to list.

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while?
Current living situation...may not last forever, and I wish it would...but has been totally worth it. I hope it continues for a long time to come though.

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?
Hey, there's this thing called transgender...it may be why you're acting so fucked up right now Btw, you'll get away from your father and your classmates alive and you'll actually be happy one day.

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be?
Oh shi-

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?
Probably. That's usually the way of the world.

40. What questions do you often ask yourself?
What kind of human being does it take to vote for Stephen Harper? Will Canada ever get rid of the conservative party? Will I be alive when it happens?

laruss · 08-21-2012, 11:47 AM

Anyone else want to share?

Amber2010 · 08-21-2012, 01:51 PM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?
I can breathe so much better. I spent so much time last year
in the doctor’s office trying to figure out why I was sick all the
time to find out that I have developed allergies. So not fair to get
them when you have never had them before in your life.

2. What's been on your mind most lately?
My family and the problems we are facing right now.

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame?
Health, happiness, love, money, fame
4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most?
To not be needed so much but to have more free time
5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life?
Taking care of sick parents
6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now?
My daughter is because she calls me to remind me how much she loves me and enjoys having me in her life right now.
7. In one sentence, who are you?
A girl who loves with her whole heart and enjoys getting it back not only emotional but needs it physical as well.
8. What do you want to be known for?
A best friend

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?
The Ocean

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?
My goal is to be less in dept and have more time for me.

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself?
Three people my best friend, my partner, my daughter

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?
Acceptance, Understanding and love

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?
Leaving my job and move away

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?
Real diamond earrings the size you can actually see

15. What stands between you and what you want?
Finances

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?
Put on my headphones go down to the track and run

17. When did you first realize that life is short?
As a teenager when my whole life changed and was never the same again

18. What do you need to spend more time doing?
Taking time for me and less for work, family and everything else

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?
Choices the doctors want me to do and I refuse to

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?
Judge others

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you?
??

22.What’s something no one can take away from you?
Memories

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?
My computer “sorry I guess I am addicted giggles”

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?
Intimacy

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?
My new niece she is a beautiful baby

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?
??

27. If not now, then when?

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of?
Gotten my son back into college

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?
I am stronger than I ever knew

30. What do you want to remember forever?
The people who made a difference in my life

31. What could society do without?
Judgmental people

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of?
Getting a paycheck keeps me paying my bills

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?
Treat others like you want to be treated

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?
Something I regret but it is done so let’s move on

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older?
Leaving my life to find happiness somewhere else

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while?
My beach vacation

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?
Don’t listen to others and believe in yourself

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be?
I lived the best life I knew how

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?
Trying not to

40. What questions do you often ask yourself?
What I could have done different with my oldest daughter to change the fate of us

Soft*Silver · 08-21-2012, 03:42 PM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? OMG, So very much! I am working! I can do so much physically I couldnt do last year! I am no longer an insomniac. I dont have night time hallucinations. (from lack of sleep and lack of oxygen) I can eat again. Financially, I rarely have to ask for help from anyone. I can buy groceries as needed, instead of making due with whats in the cupboards until the end of the month. I can afford to repair my house. As for romance...I can feel again. I am open to love and am involved once more. More on this later on...

2. What's been on your mind most lately? my shop...its never off my mind. And Jo. Jo is on my mind alot lately. And horses. And my damn daughter who I love but cant have a relationship with.

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? I have the first four and a bit of the last one locally. I think they all matter and the one that matters most is the one you dont have at all.

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? Immediately, I want ice cream. But in general, I want a car that is easier on gas. I want a beater. I have a 350 dually truck that is KILLING me with gas mileage.

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Stabilizing

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? my age. I am running out of time so I am making sure I get the most out of the years I have left.

7. In one sentence, who are you? She laid her hand faintly upon his and softly said "softness...." and in that moment, his heart stopped bleeding and began to beat again...

8. What do you want to be known for? that I was good and bad and was proud of both

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? my family

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? well I will be married....

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? when I am productive. Thats probably the most important thing to me in life

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? trustworthiness, availability, and compassion

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? I have to say not much that I can remember. I have accomplished everything I set out to do, except to finish my massage therapy schooling and I stopped that because I got a job as a children's therapist. I have gotten every degree or certification I ever wanted, learned every trade or craft I wanted. I have had all the relationships I wanted. I have traveled, moved,etc. I have journeyed, traveled, etc. I really have led a much fuller life than most people

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? a horse

15. What stands between you and what you want? I have several answers for this. None of them are about the same thing. Several states. Money. Time. Age. Ability.

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? I dont need to be happy all the time. I am ok having periods of bleakness and pain. its all part of life. When i need to change momentum, I ride a horse. If I cant, I garden. If I cant, I paint. If I cant, I clean house. If I cant I write. If I cant I read. See a pattern here?

17. When did you first realize that life is short? When I could no longer plant a tree and know i would not see it mature into old age. When I had to think about acquiring animals based on my own longevity.

18. What do you need to spend more time doing? paperwork

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? paperwork

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? obnoxious drunkeness. I cant tell you how much this bothers me now. I use to be tolerant of it but cant stand to be in the same space as someone who is pissing in his pants drunk.

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? probably the same ones I have about me

22.What’s something no one can take away from you? I have learned everything can be taken away.I have also learned I will kill before I let people take some things away again

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? there isnt anything I couldnt do without.

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? my daughter's childhood

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? so many experiences involved with opening my plus sized womens clothing store

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? my eating habits are atrocious again. I dont eat alot. I just eat bad.

27. If not now, then when? yeah,when? When i am dead from clogged arteries?

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? not to sound vain, but there is alot I have done that I am incredibly proud of. The most recent, is that I got back on my feet after becoming disabled.

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? that I am totally insensitive about other people at times and am totally unaware of it until they point it out to me. its not my intention to be. It translates out to be like an episode of Bones.

30. What do you want to remember forever? to be in the moment

31. What could society do without? extreme-ism of any kind.

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? I am loved.

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? support the arts...

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? date a person who was born male

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? the importance of insurance. I am not kidding

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? he knows

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? dont move out of state for anyone

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? FUCK! SIXTY SECONDS??? My facebook password is...

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? I have walked the talk

40. What questions do you often ask yourself? Did I pay that bill? LOL

Tattoogurl · 08-21-2012, 03:56 PM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Stand up for myself and tell people what i think and feel without any sorta guilt!

2. What's been on your mind most lately?

Wondering if the relationship Im in now is worth all the headache?

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame?

health first with out that none of the other things will happen.

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most?

A partner that respects me and my boundaries.. Lol i know gay, but its true.. i dont ask for much just a little comnmon curtiousy(sp)

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life?

Living it to the fullest, seeing people I havent seen in years..

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now?

The fact I want a new coach purse and without work i wont get it...

7. In one sentence, who are you?

The girl your mother warned you about...

8. What do you want to be known for?

Being the one person in "your" life that you can count on.

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?

My momma

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?

I'll be finished with college and looking for doc school on the E coast

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself?

Noone, anyone up for a challenge..

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?

1. honesty
2. communication
3. open mindness

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?

Living life to the full potential.

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?

not really sure, but I think a pink soft tail harley

15. What stands between you and what you want?

80K

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?

Smoke a bowl and play castelville

17. When did you first realize that life is short?

When i was diagnosed with cancer at the age 15

18. What do you need to spend more time doing?

Things that make me happy. i am a giver so everyone comes first.

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?

self esteem

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?

cheat, lie, negative shit

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you?

That im a rebel cause of my tattoos

22.What’s something no one can take away from you?

pride

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?

My perfume

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?
Nothing LOL.. ok maybe being a little girl with my momma again..

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?

Every minute i spend with my son

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?

My loose skin and my neurotic gemini self lol

27. If not now, then when?

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of?

survived another day in the hard world..

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?

That I am a strong independant woman who DONT need anyone but wants someone.

30. What do you want to remember forever?

hell Idk, what i did yesterday would be a good start... lol

31. What could society do without?

not really sure, everything prmotes ballance and if you disrupt that then who knows..

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of?

That i am sick of investing myself to people that are not grateful.

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?

Stand up for yourself and you are worthy!!

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?

idk

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older?

abortion. birth control

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while?

My awesome red hair

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?

have fun cause its gonna get harder..

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be?

DRINK UP BITCHES!!!

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?

of course

40. What questions do you often ask yourself?

When do i get a break?

gaea · 08-21-2012, 04:21 PM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?
stand up for myslef
2. What's been on your mind most lately?
th elast 3 months
3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame?
family,happiness,love, health, money ---fame really ???
4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most?
what i had a week and a half ago
5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life?
Happy
6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now?
living
7. In one sentence, who are you?
I am a mother,grandmother,daughter,sister, a woman of courage, hope and beleif's, spiritual, I am the keeper of ME.
8. What do you want to be known for?
how i truly loved people and always gave the benefit of the doubt even when i shouldn't have
9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?
the warmth
10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?
I will have continued to grow on my spirtuial path, be another year wiser
11. Who makes you feel good about yourself?
I do, my kids do my grandbabies do and my lil pup she just makes me smile big
12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?
honety,integrity,compassion
13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?
nothing....i am not afraid to fail because i am not afraid to try
14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?
to see the Nutcracker in New York
15. What stands between you and what you want?
nothing...everything is achievable it just takes time...

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?
..........
17. When did you first realize that life is short?
The day my dad died
18. What do you need to spend more time doing?
theres 24 hours in a day.....i do what i want to do thus im good here
19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?
one I am confronting....have been forced to confront, my abandonment issue....
20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?
drink alcohol regularly
21.What’s a common misconception people have about you?
that im cold
22.What’s something no one can take away from you?
the can take away my smile
23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?
the sunrise and sunset
24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?
my parents
25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?
hearing my mom when my sister read my birthday wish her her to her
26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?
I do not know yet....
27. If not now, then when?
Is this question related to anything?
28. What have you done that you are truly proud of?
raised 3 healthy happy kids to adult hood
29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?
Im not a "casual" kind of girl...
30. What do you want to remember forever?
my morals,values and family
31. What could society do without?
mitt romney
32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of?
Im totally sure of who I am and what im capable of and what im learning
33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?
dont vote for that idiot mitt romney
34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?
get married...and divorced
35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older?
Life in general, people
36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while?
....................
37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?
Your going to be hurt, used and taken advantage of, just keep moving forward and continue being who you are...
38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be?
I love you

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?
I do not know as i have no idea where my path will end up
40. What questions do you often ask yourself?[/QUOTE]
Why does hate always outweigh love?

Girl_On_Fire · 10-19-2012, 06:19 PM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?

Let go of a negative relationship

2. What's been on your mind most lately?

Things I've kept buried for years

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame?

Health
Happiness
Love
Money
Fame

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most?

To get someting off my chest

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life?

Chaotic

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now?

My freelance writing business

7. In one sentence, who are you?

I am a very old soul with a broken heart

8. What do you want to be known for?

My writing and my love

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?

My family

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?

Yes, I think it will be better

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself?

My aunt

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?

Honesty
Loyalty
Respect

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?

It's not fear of failure, it's awareness of limitations

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?

To be completely believed and understood

15. What stands between you and what you want?

Asperger's syndrome

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?

Go hiking or watch a movie

17. When did you first realize that life is short?

I've always known that

18. What do you need to spend more time doing?

Learning how to be more social and have fun

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?

I'm pleading the fifth on this

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?

Drugs, Alcohol, Drama

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you?

That I don't care. I care too much.

22.What’s something no one can take away from you?

My inner strength

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?

The Internet lol!

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?

Ignorance (Being awake is painful)

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?

The good times with her

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?

I'm not sure

27. If not now, then when?

Hmmmm

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of?

Started my own freelance writing business and natural health blog

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?

I'm so much stronger than I realized

30. What do you want to remember forever?

The little precious moments in life

31. What could society do without?

Reality TV

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of?

I love myself exactly as I am

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?

I'd tell people to wake up. Stop listening the media and look inward and listen to yourself. The answer is always there.

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?

Getting involved with another mentally unstable person

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older?

My mom occasionally knows what she's talking about

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while?

Oh, so many things. All of them worth it, no matter how painful.

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?

You have Asperger's syndrome! Read these books or be confused about everybody's reaction to you until you're 27.

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be?

I love you

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?

I sure as heck hope not

40. What questions do you often ask yourself?

Why didn't I see that before? How did I not know that?

Gráinne · 10-19-2012, 07:00 PM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?

Read and understand more Russian

2. What's been on your mind most lately?

So much. Work. What I'm doing here (meaning Arkansas).

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame?

Health
Happiness
'Love
Money
Fame

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most?

Sleep. A hug. A cry.

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life?

Busy

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now?

A huge desire to take care of myself

7. In one sentence, who are you?

I am an old, strong soul who refuses to quit.

8. What do you want to be known for?

My writing and my love

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?

My children, if they didn't come with me. Otherwise, nada.

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?

I know a lot of goals I'm just starting now will be accomplished. I'm scared to think of that, actually.

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself?

My daughter

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?

Honesty
Loyalty
Respect

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?

I think I have the opposite. Fear of success. If this actually works, I'll have to ask much more of myself. I've been putting off looking for a better position and improving myself to get said position.

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?

Peace of mind. I'm much better now than I was then.

15. What stands between you and what you want?

My own fear.

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?

Go to sleep, or read.

17. When did you first realize that life is short?

I've always known that

18. What do you need to spend more time doing?

Taking care of my own needs and wants.

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?

I actually try to confront things as they come up.

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?

Being lazy. Not meeting their obligations.

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you?

That I'm unemotional and aloof. I'm precisely the opposite.

22.What’s something no one can take away from you?

My inner strength

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?

My hearing

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?

Innocence

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?

Reunion was probably the happiest I've been all year.

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?

Attend to my eating habits and fitness.

27. If not now, then when?

You're right!

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of?

Teaching in China

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?

I'm so much stronger than I realized

30. What do you want to remember forever?

The little precious moments in life

31. What could society do without?

Anything named "Kardashian"

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of?

I love myself exactly as I am

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?

I'd tell people to wake up. Stop listening the media and look inward and listen to yourself. The answer is always there. (i'm borrowing a lot of the answers, it seems)

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?

that's a fifth

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older?

That I'm not so dumb, and even quite smart.

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while?

Oh, so many things. All of them worth it, no matter how painful.

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?

Have faith in yourself and know you can do whatever you put your mind to.

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be?

I love you

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?

I sure as heck hope not

40. What questions do you often ask yourself?

It's not "why me?". It's "why NOT me?"
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Tcountry · 10-20-2012, 01:22 AM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Have a tactful discussion with my Lab Manager...(very much an accomplishment)

2. What's been on your mind most lately? being a bad influence, and jobs

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? health, happiness, love, money, fame

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? It's the middle of the night...what do you think I want?......sleep, get ur head out of the gutter
5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? productive

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? just one? Being healthy...mind, body, and soul

7. In one sentence, who are you? I am who I desire to be

8. What do you want to be known for? being kind

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? Seasons

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? Looking forward to some big changes

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? my bff's

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? my kind of humor, vault, and introvert

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? making not so wise decisions

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? A pickup...just bought it this summer

15. What stands between you and what you want? Other people

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? I don't think that ever happens...

17. When did you first realize that life is short? 4th grade...death in the family

18. What do you need to spend more time doing? organizing family heir looms

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? I confront most things head on...

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? have their priorties wrong

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? hmmm...you would have to ask them I would presume

22.What’s something no one can take away from you? my smile

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? currently...my phone. Usually, the opportunity to learn something

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? not worrying about money

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? most of the year...I have a lot of good memories

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? location

27. If not now, then when? when it is right...everything for a reason

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? become one of the best in the world at my job

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? ...I believe the word smother came up in a convo...lol

30. What do you want to remember forever? as many positive memories as I can

31. What could society do without? war

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? Nebraska is not where I belong

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? Stop judging other people's lives

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? been around pot

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? I don't want to be President anymore

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? Every relationship I have had...I have learned a lot

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? cutting just leaves scars...and Bad memories...don't start

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? night beautiful

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? I'm pretty good with the follow through, at least with good intentions, and I try

40. What questions do you often ask yourself? What's next? How could you not?

sierragirrl · 10-20-2012, 03:59 AM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?
Sadly nothing.ask me again in a year and it will be a different answer

2. What's been on your mind most lately?
doctors appointments and tests

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? health happiness love money fame

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want? to be healthy mind body and soul

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Quiet

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? knowing my health is starting to get in order

7. In one sentence, who are you?mother,girlfriend,introvert,chill

8. What do you want to be known for?no idea

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?my town,everyone else will be with me

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?goodness i will be 100percent healthier

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? right now i dont feel good about myself really.therapy is going good though lol

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? goofiness,loyality,trustworthy

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? living

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?peace

15. What stands between you and what you want?fear of failure

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Sleep,go for a drive

17. When did you first realize that life is short? my fathers death..sadly it is something we seem to forget

18. What do you need to spend more time doing?Loving

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?reality but i am trying

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?vote for Romeny

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? hhmm.prob that im a bitch.meh.

22.What’s something no one can take away from you? my kids

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?my sanity

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?the way things were 5 yrs ago.if only there was a rewind button

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?traveling,spending alot of time with my other half,and watching my kids and pup grow

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?my health

27. If not now, then when?tomorrow

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? the steps i am making now

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? i have been abandon nearly half my life..im changing that daily

30. What do you want to remember forever?the feeling of l o v e

31. What could society do without?assholes

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? the choices i am making

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? love and help one another

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?hhmm..nothing that i can think of

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? prob to stay in the town i was born and raised in.

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? some friendships

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?that my birth mother is a fuking mess and to love my adopted parents more and to not cause so much teenage grief.

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? oy i can't even think about that.

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? said more sadly

40. What questions do you often ask yourself?what is my purpose in life,why am i here,how come i don't think like that?

spritzerJ · 10-20-2012, 11:02 AM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?
Find my way around NH. I can orientate toward the ocean and know it is east and not west now.

2. What's been on your mind most lately?
how am i going to make the most of our time apart to be ready to live together every day. getting home for a visit.

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame?
love, health, happiness, money, fame

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most?
positive bank balance

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life?
working hard, loving hard and trying to get ready for new ways of being

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now?
My family

7. In one sentence, who are you?
I am a beautiful, strong, joyous woman.

8. What do you want to be known for?
laughter and acceptance. that I was open to people as they are/were and found joy in odd places

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?
well I'd be back home so I'd find it tricky to miss what is still newer to me out here... maybe the utter continuity of the homes and the way things seem to look the same/follow a pattern out here.

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?
snort... I'll be in another state, farther north, living the everyday family life and I will still be wondering when I am going to like folding laundry. My job will be different, The General will be older... etc.

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself?
that I try, over and over to keep the focus on the positive, that I know how to be strong and start over. that I don't stay down for long

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?
individuality, sense of humor and appreciation for the unusual.

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?
asking for help, trying things until I have to, sorting out finances. long list

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?
I've wanted my mom to be happy and relaxed.

15. What stands between you and what you want?
a plan and the willingness to take the first step

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?
call my mom

17. When did you first realize that life is short?
remember the zany parts, make a plan, do something new

18. What do you need to spend more time doing?
folding laundry and doing dishes

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?
initiating conversations with people that I disagree with

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?
I disagree with going along to make things nice and because it is what a community expects.

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you?
that I don't follow through

22.What’s something no one can take away from you?
everything

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?
there are lots of things I would hate to go with out for a day. from my mom to clean hair.

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?
college

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?
I have many smiling memories to choose from. I think when The General said I feel left out and Stoney, myself and I ended up in a group hug on the couch. I knew then we'd be family.

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?
how i account for spending money

27. If not now, then when?
I don't understand the question. why am I not doing it now? It is in process... small steps forward.

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of?
nearly everything. there is a lot to choose from. I am most often proud of my picking up and moving on skills.

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?
that I can commit to forever and the traditions I swore off because it fits now.

30. What do you want to remember forever?
It hasn't happened yet.

31. What could society do without?
many many things swiffer and those clorox wipes and plastic water bottles.

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of?
I am sure that The General will have a home and a parent if something happens to me.

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?
I know precious little in my life. And I know this.. as much as we think we know it is shaped by our perceptions and experiences. My experiences have taught me this... you do not have to accept the impossible, improbable, unlikely or the fate that seems handed to you. You can have a dream, to live. And what ever limits life puts on you find another dream to make come true.

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?
I said I'd never get married again or change my name. I'm likely to do both.

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older?
what I wanted to be...

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while?All of it.

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?
Your a dumb ass and it is okay. Seriously honey you are going to be wonderful, stupid, smart, klutzy and nutty. And it will all be part of the point

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be?
I love you and you will be wonderful.

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?
probably... I am a talker. But I don't know yet. I don't want to know.

40. What questions do you often ask yourself?
Seriously Jenn what were you thinking?

agape · 03-10-2013, 12:53 PM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?
cook sushi rice (my life is so much better now...)

2. What's been on your mind most lately?
Honestly? My dream-love (it's still legal to dream isn't it?)

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame?
love, health, happiness, money, (fame) I don't think I want any fame at all

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most?
A big hug without words or expectations...

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life?
tired

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now?
Chocolate... Ice cream...
revenge...

(yes, that's my outfit for seeking revenge

)

7. In one sentence, who are you?
I'm the one that nobody gets but everyone thinks they can figure out (You can't. Give up)

8. What do you want to be known for?
I don't know. Don't care really...

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?
I've already done that and what I missed the most is food, familiar smells and sounds

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?
I have NO idea. But I do hope I will have more energy and more money so I can do stuff...

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself?
Me

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?
honest, caring, equal

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?
Living out my sexual orientation earlier in life... :/

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?
To live in a tree house!

15. What stands between you and what you want?
What ever does should better get out of the way and fast!!

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?
I dance

17. When did you first realize that life is short?
Life is short?

Oh crap!

18. What do you need to spend more time doing?
Stuff that make me feel good

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?
I choose my battles

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?
Brag...

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you?
Far too many... They usually get just about everything wrong.

22.What’s something no one can take away from you?
I don't dare to say. Don't want to challenge fate...

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?
Some alone time.

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?
My childhood summer house...

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?
When I met my cousins daughter

I hope to meet her again soon

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?
I think, to learn to say no...

27. If not now, then when?
It might as well be never... But it's never too late to try

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of?
Doing my best to take care of myself even at the hardest darkest times

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?
That I'm only female in the body, not in my heart and mind... (long story)

30. What do you want to remember forever?
love

31. What could society do without?
people

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of?
nothing

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?
lie

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older?
That blood is thicker than water.

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while?
I think love is always worth it... At least you tried.

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?
Stay away from guys. Do drugs instead.

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be?
so long suckers!

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?
Probably... I talk a lot... But I do mean the things I say and I do try to put them into practice

40. What questions do you often ask yourself?
What the heck am I doing here?

SoSousMe · 03-10-2013, 01:24 PM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?
Moving on

2. What's been on your mind most lately?
My future

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame?
happiness, love, health, money, fame

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most?
To be by her side

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life?
lonely

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now?
happiness

7. In one sentence, who are you?
I am a dedicated, hard worker - I am her Daddy - I am a proud
parent

8. What do you want to be known for?
Going the extra mile for people

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?
My family

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?
I will be living in a city in central Texas, missing My West Texas sunsets

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself?
she does

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?
staying power, honesty, having My back

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?
taking that risk

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?
My mother to be happy

15. What stands between you and what you want?
distance

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?
listen to music and drink beer on the porch

17. When did you first realize that life is short?
when I lost a friend to alcohol every year when I was in high school

18. What do you need to spend more time doing?
taking walks with My girl

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?
work related favoritism

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?
discriminate

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you?
that I do not have fears

22.What’s something no one can take away from you?
My knowledge

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?
love

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?
My nephew and My best gay friend

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?
private moments with her

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?
turning in My notice and moving on with My life

27. If not now, then when?
in a couple more weeks, notice will be given

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of?
I have made many customers happy

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?
that I love someone so much I am willing to move from My hometown to start over in a new city

30. What do you want to remember forever?
My son's laugh

31. What could society do without?
bigotry & hatred

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of?
I love My family

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?

Stop hating those that are different from you, everyone has a heart inside that beats the same as yours.

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?
Leave My job that I love

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older?
politics

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while?
Having My nephew in My life

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?
Be compassionate, honest, hard working, and love.... with all of your heart

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be?
I love you son

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?
probably

40. What questions do you often ask yourself?
Why was I such a fckn Dawg back in the day?

07-27-2012, 02:34 PM	#2
laruss Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She or Goddess Relationship Status: Settled in Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Edmonton Alberta Posts: 1,322 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,849 Thanked 5,329 Times in 1,045 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? I can follow my dreams because I now have defined them and know that I am worth the hard work and I am worth the happiness that ensues when you follow your dreams. 2. What's been on your mind most lately? My life, where I am going, what I want and how I will get there. 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? happiness, love, health, money, fame 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? Space, space to paint, write and explore. And this sense of happiness and peace to continue. 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Happy, truly happy. 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? Knowing that I alone am responsible for my happiness. 7. In one sentence, who are you? I am a happy, grateful being. 8. What do you want to be known for? Being the person who changed the most, the person who loved the most. 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? My friends and impromptu get togethers with them. 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? I will be living in a new place, experiencing a new time in my life. Creating, loving, being. 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? I do, and I have some great friends that add to that. I really am lucky to have the people I do in my life. 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? I would have to say Honesty, Loyalty and Openness. 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? Is it fear of failure or fear of success? My life up until this last year seems like it has been riddled with fear. Although not fear of adventure, I have made sure to do new things as often as possible. Okay the question was 'What has fear of failure stopped you from doing' and I would have to say - Completing my degree. Oh, that's scary to even say. I didn't think I could keep up the marks all the way through so it was easier to not do it. I now know that I just have to get through it and enjoy it as much as possible, even if I don't have honors that doesn't take away from completing it. 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? An education. To be the first Phd in my family. 15. What stands between you and what you want? Myself, it is amazing how we make justified excuses when we are afraid of something. 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Lately most everything makes me happy, but my way of expressing is my art and writing. My art journal is perfect for that, I make sure I have art and writing on each and every page before I sign off on it. And when in doubt I call a friend who can ease me and make me laugh. 17. When did you first realize that life is short? When my husband died. Not when my mom died at 56, but when my husband died at 50. My mom had been sick for a long time and I guess I thought of it as a relief for her and us (even though I missed her), but when my husband at 50 years old fell asleep and never woke up... that made me sit up and take notice. Well as soon as I was able to move again. 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Moving, I sit to write, I sit or stand to do my art. I need to move more. 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? My first thought was my weight, but I have to say no, I have always known that when I dealt with the issues I would lose the weight. I have tried with many therapists and different programs to deal with those issues to no avail. But I have constantly looked at and confronted that. Hmmm, this is a tough one as I am one of those people who constantly is looking at their sht to see what needs to be changed, what can be improved on. So honestly I am struggling to come up with something I have refused to confront. I am going to ask my friends if they can think of something. Maybe I'm refusing so hard I don't see it. 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Download movies and music from the internet without paying for it. I have always had an issue with this. I have an itunes account and I either rent or buy the movies I want to watch. My friends know this about me so they no longer offer to make a disc for me and if we are getting together for movie night they usually let me bring the movie as they know I want watch it if it is "stolen". 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? That I have to have everything done my way. It doesn't need to be done my way but if no one else is going to step up I will take the lead. I am happy to have someone else lead... as long as someone leads. Step up, don't wait for me to do it. 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? My integrity, my beliefs, my happiness. 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? Hate, hate is a huge word... I guess I would have to say - My knowing. I would hate to even for one day question everything I know and I am. There are moments I may do this about something or other, but to lose that all encompassing knowing I have about myself, even for one day would be devastating. 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? I can't think of anything really, because all my losses have made me who I am today and today I am pretty happy. 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? The birth of my two granddaughters. 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? I need to make sure I am always living for me and no one else as life is too short. 27. If not now, then when? Oh, this is so true. Now. 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? Learned to ride a motorbike at 43. Given my kids the space I never got. Learned to follow my passion and stop letting 'real' life get in the way. That's not real life, living who you are is real life. 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? I can be anything I want and I want to be an artist and a writer. Oh wait, I am an artist and a writer. And that I am lovable for who I am. 30. What do you want to remember forever? I want to remember how much I was/am loved by those in my life. 31. What could society do without? Small minded people is the first thing that comes to my mind. That and probably fear driven religions. 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? I am loved 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? Live your passion, follow your dreams, be creative in everything that you do, be true to yourself. 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? Contact my biological father, thankfully he never responded. 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? I had said I would never have more children and now I really want to have that experience again. I have no desire to give birth again, but to give a loving home to a child/ren that needs it would be fantastic. Crazy thoughts for a Grandma, lol. 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? My relationships, good or bad, they made me who I am today. 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? Be true to yourself, don't let others tell you who you should be. 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? Good bye and thank you for being a part of my life. My hope would be that 60 seconds would be long enough to get that message out to everyone who had been a part of my life. 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? Before this year I would have said no as I have always been about the experiences, but now that I am a writer it will probably all equal out. 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? Why? I often ask myself why am I doing something, why did I say something, why do I think that, why do I think they think that. I have this innate curiosity that needs to know the why of everything. __________________ Creativity is a drug I can't do without.* -Cecil B. DeMille

07-27-2012, 03:56 PM	#3
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Loving myself, and allowing to love me in return 2. What's been on your mind most lately? Making changes in my life, only for the better and how I CAN achieve them where as before I never would have believed it 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? Happiness, Love, Health, Money and then Fame 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? To be in the arms of the one I love most 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Hectic 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? Love, it surrounds me and I am truly blessed 7. In one sentence, who are you? I am a strong woman who is a fighter, a lover and a friend 8. What do you want to be known for? For being a good friend, sister, daughter and person 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? Its both my mom and my sister 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? I'll have a job, have lost weight and I will just feel much better about myself as a person 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? My family and friends 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? Patient, Understanding and Happy 13. What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? Living life the way I really want to live it 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? Just to be happy 15. What stands between you and what you want? Me, as simple as that 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Sleep, or come on the Planet and talk to my friends 17. When did you first realize that life is short? Something makes me think that every day, with all of the tragedy in the world around us it constantly reminds me that like is MUCH to short and that its important to always be thankful for what you have and who is in your life 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Taking care of myself 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? My weight and my battles with food 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Religion and personal beliefs 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? That I'm lazy, but I'm really not 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? The love that I have for myself 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? Talking to my Daddy, I couldn't go a day without that 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? All four of my grandparents 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? Daddy talking to me in chat for the first time, and growing to fall very much in love with Him 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? Lose weight and gain control of my eating habits 27. If not now, then when? ASAP 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? Going back to school in 2006 and getting my G.E.D 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? That I am stronger than I ever thought 30. What do you want to remember forever? How good it feels to be alive 31. What could society do without? Murder, famine etc 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? That I love my Daddy with everything I am 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? We all deserve to be happy, no matter what 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? Not sure, I'd have to think on that one 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? Kids, I didn't want any for a long time but now I do 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? One past relationship, that lasted for 5 years, it gave me a glimpse into how strong of a person I am and showed me what I really wanted in a partner (which I have now and am very happy about) 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? Don't let people get to you, pursue your dreams and fuck the haters 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? To tell my parents and sister I love them, and to tell rocky how much I love Him as well 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? The first 30 years of my life yes, but the next 30 years I plan to do more than I say 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? Why did I let so many years get away without doing things for myself? __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

07-29-2012, 05:58 PM	#5
laruss Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She or Goddess Relationship Status: Settled in Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Edmonton Alberta Posts: 1,322 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,849 Thanked 5,329 Times in 1,045 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Bumping (-: __________________ Creativity is a drug I can't do without. -Cecil B. DeMille

07-29-2012, 11:03 PM	#6
Scuba Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Flying Solo Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: PNW Posts: 2,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,749 Thanked 8,047 Times in 1,618 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Love where I live 2. What's been on your mind most lately? Friendships 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? Health, happiness, love, money. 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? More time… 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Living 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? Good people 7. In one sentence, who are you? Chris 8. What do you want to be known for? That I tried… 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? I just did this…my chosen family. 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? I have no idea nor do I want to have any idea…surprise me  11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? Good decisions 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? Honesty, kindness, humor 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? Taking some necessary exams 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? Loving parents 15. What stands between you and what you want? Nothing 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Sleep 17. When did you first realize that life is short? A few years back… 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Anything but work 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? Let’s start with aging… 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Not agree with me…of course 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? That I am full of myself 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? Me 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? Love 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? Tim 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? Tim 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? Take those damn exams… 27. If not now, then when? Before March 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? Become me… 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? The older I get the less patience I have.. 30. What do you want to remember forever? Tim 31. What could society do without? Asshats 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? Me 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? THINK!! 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? Move again… 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? Peas 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? Tim 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? You are loved… 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? Thank you!!! 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? More than likely laughing 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? When can I get an AARP card and where’s the nearest IHOP? __________________ https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-X...etuwo1_500.jpg ~~Bob Richardson~~

07-30-2012, 12:02 AM	#7
thedivahrrrself Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Sapiosexual Femme Relationship Status: Mrs. Grumpy Cat Tournaments Won: 4 Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: 8,660 feet high in the Andes Posts: 2,640 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,519 Thanked 11,657 Times in 2,292 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? It might be better to ask what I didn't realize I was capable of a year ago... I understand now that I'm capable of almost anything. I also got good at breaking up over the last year. I used to suck at that. 2. What's been on your mind most lately? How unusually grounded I feel. 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? Health, happiness, love, money. Fame looks like it sucks, no thanks. 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? To know what the future holds. Call the lady who throws the sticks. 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Busy 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? the priorities i've set, goals that are within reach. 7. In one sentence, who are you? I am the Queen of Awesomeness. 8. What do you want to be known for? Genuinely helping a few people. 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? Good Southern barbeque 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? OMG There are SO many possibilities for next year! Once my MPA is finished, I could go one of about a million ways... 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? My friends, my lover, no one is allowed to be in my life who doesn't do this. I'm getting too old for frienemies. 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? Honesty, kindness, fun (good taste in shoes never hurt either) 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? Really giving myself to someone in a relationship. 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? I spoil myself these days.... Hmmmm..... A music studio in my house 15. What stands between you and what you want? You certainly don't want it to be you! 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Sing 17. When did you first realize that life is short? I always thought mine would be. Then I realized I'm here for the long haul. Bring it on. 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Research. Working out. Salsa dancing. 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? Self-esteem 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Vote for assholes 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? That you can push me around without consequences. 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? My spunk 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? Tenderness 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? Intense spiritual experiences. Perhaps it's time to do a retreat when it cools down some. I could use the me time and the closeness I felt to my creator. 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? Paipa 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? Hit the books. Hard. 27. If not now, then when? Tomorrow. Procrastinators love tomorrows. 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? Started a new career. Well, technically I do that in about 8 hours. 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? The thing that has held me back most in life is forgetting that I am awesome. 30. What do you want to remember forever? The feeling that I can have everything I want. Felt that for the first time a few weeks ago. 31. What could society do without? The people from Jersey Shore 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? I can do this. 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? Care about something other than yourself. 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? I swore I'd never date another person who is smarter than me. They are tough people to crack. But some things are worth the time and effort you have to put in. 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? owning a gun 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? Skydiving 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? If a person isn't worthy of your respect, what they think of you is irrelevant. Stop worrying about them and start worrying about you. 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? I would filibuster the whole 60 seconds. First, I'd pray. Next, I'd tell people I loved them. Then, I'd tell someone where I hid a bunch of gold... Just to fuck with them 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? Nope. I'm a lot better doer than I am a sayer. 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? Why am I still awake? How did I get so lucky? How am I going to keep myself from messing this up? How am I going to finish this [work/project/etc]? __________________ Small business owners around the world use microfinance to help expand their businesses and provide for their families. You can help! Click here to learn about Kiva.

07-27-2012, 01:59 PM	#1
laruss Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She or Goddess Relationship Status: Settled in Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Edmonton Alberta Posts: 1,322 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,849 Thanked 5,329 Times in 1,045 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	40 Questions I had answered these questions on my blog back in March and I was revisiting them and thinking about what had changed. So, I am answering them again. I wanted to share with everyone as I think they are great questions to ask ourselves. And if you would like to share please feel free to copy and paste and answer them. 1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? 2. What's been on your mind most lately? 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? 7. In one sentence, who are you? 8. What do you want to be known for? 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? 15. What stands between you and what you want? 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? 17. When did you first realize that life is short? 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? 27. If not now, then when? 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? 30. What do you want to remember forever? 31. What could society do without? 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? __________________ Creativity is a drug I can't do without. -Cecil B. DeMille

07-27-2012, 06:56 PM	#4
macele Member How Do You Identify?: a bold-assed maximus Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: mississippi Posts: 1,066 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,178 Thanked 3,232 Times in 847 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? i can breath when i walk. i find myself saying, "let me go get that!" my heart inhales a brand new oxygen. my tears fall like rain. thank you tears. i survived a heart attack and a triple bypass. 2. What's been on your mind most lately? i'm thinking about the victory that is about to happen. not the defeat. 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? the most important is to love myself. the rest will follow. 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? life is pain, happiness, love, heart break. we get moments of each and every. i just want to enjoy life, and make a difference while doing so. and go through the moments. just live the moments. 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? rising. 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? myself. 7. In one sentence, who are you? i am special. 8. What do you want to be known for? gambaru ... i never want to give up. 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? mississippi magnolia blooms. i believe thats one of heavens scents. 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? i'll be as rich as rich can be. 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? i do. 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? loyality, laughter, patience. 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? being honest. 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? a go cart. 15. What stands between you and what you want? air. 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? eat popcorn. 17. When did you first realize that life is short? do we ever really realize that? even at death, ... 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? anything that is productive. 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? blah blah blah. 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? they tell me what they don't like. i want to know what you do like, not dislike. 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? not a clue. 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? my salvation. 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? sports section. 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? sex. yeah, not nearly enough sex. 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? i'll let that be a private memory. 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? eating healthy. 27. If not now, then when? when i lift my head. amen. 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? i'm truly proud of the people around me. i chose, partially, to be with these people. i can pick good folks! you all, i'm proud of. 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? i've always looked for angels to save me from me. everyday angels. i've learned that i am an everyday angel. i can save myself from me. 30. What do you want to remember forever? my momma loves me. 31. What could society do without? facebook lol. 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? whitney houston had a gift. the voice. 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? we as a whole nation, this world of people needs to fight for health insurance. 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? i said i'd never forgive that 4th grade teacher that made me feel less. but without that feeling she made me feel, ... i wouldn't be able to defend others as well as i do now. 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? my momma isn't the only woman that can make biscuits. 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? the ball player that i will always be, if only in my heart. 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? don't waste time. 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? "i'll be just around the corner. i'll wait for you. i'll never leave you. i promise." and then, when i see them again, ... getting to see the look on their face. i really did wait. 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? yeah, probably so. 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? why don't you play bingo? why did you eat that whole pack of gum? and why do you wear black socks every damn day of your life? (that made me laugh)

08-03-2012, 10:39 PM	#8
EnderD_503 Member How Do You Identify?: Queer, trans guy, butch Preferred Pronoun?: Male pronouns Relationship Status: Relationship Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Canada Posts: 1,329 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,090 Thanked 3,882 Times in 1,022 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Feel genuinely happy. Focus more on things that interest me. Feel the fear of losing the positive people and chosen family in my life right now, but also the joy of how much they've come to mean to me. 2. What's been on your mind most lately? 1. Surgery and being happy with the results. 2. My financial situation. 3. Worried about whether or not I'll be able to afford to go back to school. 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? 1. Happiness. 2. Health. 3. Money. 4. Love. 5. Fame. 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? To have a clearer view of my future and what to do with my life. Also, to see one of my roommates get the health care he needs since he keeps getting the shaft from every angle and it breaks my heart to see it. 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Happy? :P 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? That I finally feel like I actually want to be alive And that maybe that feeling means I finally have something to offer my community! 7. In one sentence, who are you? Dunno. 8. What do you want to be known for? Nothing really. 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? My community. 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? Hopefully I'll have a better job. 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? My roommates and my mother. 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? Honesty. Trustworthiness. Socially-minded. 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? So much 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? Top surgery 15. What stands between you and what you want? Already go it. From here on out I hope things can only get better, lol. 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? I just ride it out. When I feel depressed sometimes I just need to sleep it off and wake up the next day feeling less hopeless. 17. When did you first realize that life is short? Not sure the first time...but every time I realise that there's way too many things I want to do in my life. 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Looking for a new job. 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? I'm not sure. 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Not sure about that either. 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? Not sure... 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? The happiness I feel right now. 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? Pants or shorts. I don't like being naked in my nether regions 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? Right now, probably seeing some friends I haven't seen in a year or so. My cousin as well. 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? Top surgery! Yes, I'm redundant lol 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? Get a new job and start volunteering at a local clinic that I keep meaning to try to get signed up for... 27. If not now, then when? Good question! 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? I don't feel I've ever done anything so great that I should be proud. But if I manage to contribute something to my community, that's enough. 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? 30. What do you want to remember forever? This moment...is etterrnniiitttyyy! 31. What could society do without? Where do I even start? lol 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? That I'm happy with my life right now and the people around me. I've definitely managed to surround myself with some amazing people and I've learned so much from them. 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? N/A 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? Dance, lol. 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? Too much to list. 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? Current living situation...may not last forever, and I wish it would...but has been totally worth it. I hope it continues for a long time to come though. 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? Hey, there's this thing called transgender...it may be why you're acting so fucked up right now Btw, you'll get away from your father and your classmates alive and you'll actually be happy one day. 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? Oh shi- 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? Probably. That's usually the way of the world. 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? What kind of human being does it take to vote for Stephen Harper? Will Canada ever get rid of the conservative party? Will I be alive when it happens?

08-21-2012, 11:47 AM	#9
laruss Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She or Goddess Relationship Status: Settled in Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Edmonton Alberta Posts: 1,322 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,849 Thanked 5,329 Times in 1,045 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Anyone else want to share? __________________ Creativity is a drug I can't do without. -Cecil B. DeMille

08-21-2012, 01:51 PM	#10
Amber2010 Member How Do You Identify?: Happy, Crazy, Bubbly, Funny, Strong, Outgoing, Friendly Preferred Pronoun?: Femme Relationship Status: Complicated Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 920 Thanked 594 Times in 154 Posts Rep Power: 3787184	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? I can breathe so much better. I spent so much time last year in the doctor’s office trying to figure out why I was sick all the time to find out that I have developed allergies. So not fair to get them when you have never had them before in your life. 2. What's been on your mind most lately? My family and the problems we are facing right now. 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? Health, happiness, love, money, fame 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? To not be needed so much but to have more free time 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Taking care of sick parents 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? My daughter is because she calls me to remind me how much she loves me and enjoys having me in her life right now. 7. In one sentence, who are you? A girl who loves with her whole heart and enjoys getting it back not only emotional but needs it physical as well. 8. What do you want to be known for? A best friend 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? The Ocean 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? My goal is to be less in dept and have more time for me. 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? Three people my best friend, my partner, my daughter 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? Acceptance, Understanding and love 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? Leaving my job and move away 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? Real diamond earrings the size you can actually see 15. What stands between you and what you want? Finances 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Put on my headphones go down to the track and run 17. When did you first realize that life is short? As a teenager when my whole life changed and was never the same again 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Taking time for me and less for work, family and everything else 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? Choices the doctors want me to do and I refuse to 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Judge others 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? ?? 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? Memories 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? My computer “sorry I guess I am addicted giggles” 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? Intimacy 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? My new niece she is a beautiful baby 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? ?? 27. If not now, then when? 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? Gotten my son back into college 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? I am stronger than I ever knew 30. What do you want to remember forever? The people who made a difference in my life 31. What could society do without? Judgmental people 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? Getting a paycheck keeps me paying my bills 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? Treat others like you want to be treated 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? Something I regret but it is done so let’s move on 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? Leaving my life to find happiness somewhere else 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? My beach vacation 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? Don’t listen to others and believe in yourself 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? I lived the best life I knew how 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? Trying not to 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? What I could have done different with my oldest daughter to change the fate of us

08-21-2012, 03:42 PM	#11
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,914 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? OMG, So very much! I am working! I can do so much physically I couldnt do last year! I am no longer an insomniac. I dont have night time hallucinations. (from lack of sleep and lack of oxygen) I can eat again. Financially, I rarely have to ask for help from anyone. I can buy groceries as needed, instead of making due with whats in the cupboards until the end of the month. I can afford to repair my house. As for romance...I can feel again. I am open to love and am involved once more. More on this later on... 2. What's been on your mind most lately? my shop...its never off my mind. And Jo. Jo is on my mind alot lately. And horses. And my damn daughter who I love but cant have a relationship with. 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? I have the first four and a bit of the last one locally. I think they all matter and the one that matters most is the one you dont have at all. 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? Immediately, I want ice cream. But in general, I want a car that is easier on gas. I want a beater. I have a 350 dually truck that is KILLING me with gas mileage. 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Stabilizing 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? my age. I am running out of time so I am making sure I get the most out of the years I have left. 7. In one sentence, who are you? She laid her hand faintly upon his and softly said "softness...." and in that moment, his heart stopped bleeding and began to beat again... 8. What do you want to be known for? that I was good and bad and was proud of both 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? my family 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? well I will be married.... 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? when I am productive. Thats probably the most important thing to me in life 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? trustworthiness, availability, and compassion 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? I have to say not much that I can remember. I have accomplished everything I set out to do, except to finish my massage therapy schooling and I stopped that because I got a job as a children's therapist. I have gotten every degree or certification I ever wanted, learned every trade or craft I wanted. I have had all the relationships I wanted. I have traveled, moved,etc. I have journeyed, traveled, etc. I really have led a much fuller life than most people 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? a horse 15. What stands between you and what you want? I have several answers for this. None of them are about the same thing. Several states. Money. Time. Age. Ability. 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? I dont need to be happy all the time. I am ok having periods of bleakness and pain. its all part of life. When i need to change momentum, I ride a horse. If I cant, I garden. If I cant, I paint. If I cant, I clean house. If I cant I write. If I cant I read. See a pattern here? 17. When did you first realize that life is short? When I could no longer plant a tree and know i would not see it mature into old age. When I had to think about acquiring animals based on my own longevity. 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? paperwork 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? paperwork 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? obnoxious drunkeness. I cant tell you how much this bothers me now. I use to be tolerant of it but cant stand to be in the same space as someone who is pissing in his pants drunk. 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? probably the same ones I have about me 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? I have learned everything can be taken away.I have also learned I will kill before I let people take some things away again 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? there isnt anything I couldnt do without. 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? my daughter's childhood 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? so many experiences involved with opening my plus sized womens clothing store 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? my eating habits are atrocious again. I dont eat alot. I just eat bad. 27. If not now, then when? yeah,when? When i am dead from clogged arteries? 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? not to sound vain, but there is alot I have done that I am incredibly proud of. The most recent, is that I got back on my feet after becoming disabled. 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? that I am totally insensitive about other people at times and am totally unaware of it until they point it out to me. its not my intention to be. It translates out to be like an episode of Bones. 30. What do you want to remember forever? to be in the moment 31. What could society do without? extreme-ism of any kind. 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? I am loved. 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? support the arts... 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? date a person who was born male 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? the importance of insurance. I am not kidding 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? he knows 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? dont move out of state for anyone 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? FUCK! SIXTY SECONDS??? My facebook password is... 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? I have walked the talk 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? Did I pay that bill? LOL __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

08-21-2012, 03:56 PM	#12
Tattoogurl Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: lTR, looking for flirty fun Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Olympia, WA Posts: 26 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12 Thanked 67 Times in 18 Posts Rep Power: 1272610	40 Questions 1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Stand up for myself and tell people what i think and feel without any sorta guilt! 2. What's been on your mind most lately? Wondering if the relationship Im in now is worth all the headache? 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? health first with out that none of the other things will happen. 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? A partner that respects me and my boundaries.. Lol i know gay, but its true.. i dont ask for much just a little comnmon curtiousy(sp) 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Living it to the fullest, seeing people I havent seen in years.. 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? The fact I want a new coach purse and without work i wont get it... 7. In one sentence, who are you? The girl your mother warned you about... 8. What do you want to be known for? Being the one person in "your" life that you can count on. 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? My momma 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? I'll be finished with college and looking for doc school on the E coast 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? Noone, anyone up for a challenge.. 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? 1. honesty 2. communication 3. open mindness 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? Living life to the full potential. 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? not really sure, but I think a pink soft tail harley 15. What stands between you and what you want? 80K 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Smoke a bowl and play castelville 17. When did you first realize that life is short? When i was diagnosed with cancer at the age 15 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Things that make me happy. i am a giver so everyone comes first. 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? self esteem 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? cheat, lie, negative shit 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? That im a rebel cause of my tattoos 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? pride 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? My perfume 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? Nothing LOL.. ok maybe being a little girl with my momma again.. 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? Every minute i spend with my son 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? My loose skin and my neurotic gemini self lol 27. If not now, then when? 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? survived another day in the hard world.. 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? That I am a strong independant woman who DONT need anyone but wants someone. 30. What do you want to remember forever? hell Idk, what i did yesterday would be a good start... lol 31. What could society do without? not really sure, everything prmotes ballance and if you disrupt that then who knows.. 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? That i am sick of investing myself to people that are not grateful. 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? Stand up for yourself and you are worthy!! 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? idk 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? abortion. birth control 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? My awesome red hair 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? have fun cause its gonna get harder.. 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? DRINK UP BITCHES!!! 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? of course 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? When do i get a break? __________________ “Strength is the capacity to break a Hershey bar into four pieces with your bare hands - and then eat just one of the pieces.” ― Judith Viorst

08-21-2012, 04:21 PM	#13
gaea Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: west coast Posts: 3,910 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,630 Thanked 14,363 Times in 3,381 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? stand up for myslef 2. What's been on your mind most lately? th elast 3 months 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? family,happiness,love, health, money ---fame really ??? 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? what i had a week and a half ago 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Happy 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? living 7. In one sentence, who are you? I am a mother,grandmother,daughter,sister, a woman of courage, hope and beleif's, spiritual, I am the keeper of ME. 8. What do you want to be known for? how i truly loved people and always gave the benefit of the doubt even when i shouldn't have 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? the warmth 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? I will have continued to grow on my spirtuial path, be another year wiser 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? I do, my kids do my grandbabies do and my lil pup she just makes me smile big 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? honety,integrity,compassion 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? nothing....i am not afraid to fail because i am not afraid to try 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? to see the Nutcracker in New York 15. What stands between you and what you want? nothing...everything is achievable it just takes time... 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? .......... 17. When did you first realize that life is short? The day my dad died 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? theres 24 hours in a day.....i do what i want to do thus im good here 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? one I am confronting....have been forced to confront, my abandonment issue.... 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? drink alcohol regularly 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? that im cold 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? the can take away my smile 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? the sunrise and sunset 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? my parents 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? hearing my mom when my sister read my birthday wish her her to her 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? I do not know yet.... 27. If not now, then when? Is this question related to anything? 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? raised 3 healthy happy kids to adult hood 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? Im not a "casual" kind of girl... 30. What do you want to remember forever? my morals,values and family 31. What could society do without? mitt romney 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? Im totally sure of who I am and what im capable of and what im learning 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? dont vote for that idiot mitt romney 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? get married...and divorced 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? Life in general, people 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? .................... 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? Your going to be hurt, used and taken advantage of, just keep moving forward and continue being who you are... 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? I love you 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? I do not know as i have no idea where my path will end up 40. What questions do you often ask yourself?[/QUOTE] Why does hate always outweigh love? __________________ Gaea "Building a lifetime together one day at a time" Courage: the willingness to risk who you are for who you want to be and what you have for what you want You're not who your past says you are, you are who you choose to be today moving forward.

10-19-2012, 06:19 PM	#14
Girl_On_Fire Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her Relationship Status: On Hiatus Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Connecticut Posts: 690 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,020 Thanked 2,683 Times in 562 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	My list 1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Let go of a negative relationship 2. What's been on your mind most lately? Things I've kept buried for years 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? Health Happiness Love Money Fame 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? To get someting off my chest 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Chaotic 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? My freelance writing business 7. In one sentence, who are you? I am a very old soul with a broken heart 8. What do you want to be known for? My writing and my love 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? My family 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? Yes, I think it will be better 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? My aunt 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? Honesty Loyalty Respect 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? It's not fear of failure, it's awareness of limitations 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? To be completely believed and understood 15. What stands between you and what you want? Asperger's syndrome 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Go hiking or watch a movie 17. When did you first realize that life is short? I've always known that 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Learning how to be more social and have fun 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? I'm pleading the fifth on this 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Drugs, Alcohol, Drama 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? That I don't care. I care too much. 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? My inner strength 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? The Internet lol! 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? Ignorance (Being awake is painful) 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? The good times with her 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? I'm not sure 27. If not now, then when? Hmmmm 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? Started my own freelance writing business and natural health blog 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? I'm so much stronger than I realized 30. What do you want to remember forever? The little precious moments in life 31. What could society do without? Reality TV 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? I love myself exactly as I am 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? I'd tell people to wake up. Stop listening the media and look inward and listen to yourself. The answer is always there. 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? Getting involved with another mentally unstable person 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? My mom occasionally knows what she's talking about 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? Oh, so many things. All of them worth it, no matter how painful. 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? You have Asperger's syndrome! Read these books or be confused about everybody's reaction to you until you're 27. 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? I love you 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? I sure as heck hope not 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? Why didn't I see that before? How did I not know that? __________________ "Quit trying to reason with unreasonable people. It's like trying to have a meaningful conversation with an end table." ~ Girl_On_Fire Last edited by Girl_On_Fire; 10-19-2012 at 06:21 PM. Reason: I'm a writer. I always edit.

10-19-2012, 07:00 PM	#15
Gráinne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Neither, nada, out of the box Preferred Pronoun?: My name always works Relationship Status: Happy whatever happens Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Little Rock Posts: 1,854 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,094 Thanked 7,366 Times in 1,448 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Read and understand more Russian 2. What's been on your mind most lately? So much. Work. What I'm doing here (meaning Arkansas). 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? Health Happiness 'Love Money Fame 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? Sleep. A hug. A cry. 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Busy 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? A huge desire to take care of myself 7. In one sentence, who are you? I am an old, strong soul who refuses to quit. 8. What do you want to be known for? My writing and my love 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? My children, if they didn't come with me. Otherwise, nada. 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? I know a lot of goals I'm just starting now will be accomplished. I'm scared to think of that, actually. 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? My daughter 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? Honesty Loyalty Respect 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? I think I have the opposite. Fear of success. If this actually works, I'll have to ask much more of myself. I've been putting off looking for a better position and improving myself to get said position. 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? Peace of mind. I'm much better now than I was then. 15. What stands between you and what you want? My own fear. 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Go to sleep, or read. 17. When did you first realize that life is short? I've always known that 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Taking care of my own needs and wants. 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? I actually try to confront things as they come up. 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Being lazy. Not meeting their obligations. 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? That I'm unemotional and aloof. I'm precisely the opposite. 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? My inner strength 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? My hearing 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? Innocence 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? Reunion was probably the happiest I've been all year. 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? Attend to my eating habits and fitness. 27. If not now, then when? You're right! 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? Teaching in China 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? I'm so much stronger than I realized 30. What do you want to remember forever? The little precious moments in life 31. What could society do without? Anything named "Kardashian" 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? I love myself exactly as I am 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? I'd tell people to wake up. Stop listening the media and look inward and listen to yourself. The answer is always there. (i'm borrowing a lot of the answers, it seems) 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? that's a fifth 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? That I'm not so dumb, and even quite smart. 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? Oh, so many things. All of them worth it, no matter how painful. 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? Have faith in yourself and know you can do whatever you put your mind to. 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? I love you 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? I sure as heck hope not 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? It's not "why me?". It's "why NOT me?" __________________ __________________ The odds of going to the store for a loaf of bread and coming out with only a loaf of bread are three billion to one. ~Erma Bombeck

10-20-2012, 01:22 AM	#16
Tcountry Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Country Boi Preferred Pronoun?: call it as u see it Relationship Status: Completely...complete ;) Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Either at the beach or in the pool Posts: 1,665 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,929 Thanked 4,287 Times in 1,181 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	first things that come to mind... 1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Have a tactful discussion with my Lab Manager...(very much an accomplishment) 2. What's been on your mind most lately? being a bad influence, and jobs 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? health, happiness, love, money, fame 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? It's the middle of the night...what do you think I want?......sleep, get ur head out of the gutter 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? productive 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? just one? Being healthy...mind, body, and soul 7. In one sentence, who are you? I am who I desire to be 8. What do you want to be known for? being kind 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? Seasons 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? Looking forward to some big changes 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? my bff's 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? my kind of humor, vault, and introvert 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? making not so wise decisions 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? A pickup...just bought it this summer 15. What stands between you and what you want? Other people 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? I don't think that ever happens... 17. When did you first realize that life is short? 4th grade...death in the family 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? organizing family heir looms 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? I confront most things head on... 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? have their priorties wrong 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? hmmm...you would have to ask them I would presume 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? my smile 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? currently...my phone. Usually, the opportunity to learn something 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? not worrying about money 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? most of the year...I have a lot of good memories 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? location 27. If not now, then when? when it is right...everything for a reason 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? become one of the best in the world at my job 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? ...I believe the word smother came up in a convo...lol 30. What do you want to remember forever? as many positive memories as I can 31. What could society do without? war 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? Nebraska is not where I belong 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? Stop judging other people's lives 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? been around pot 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? I don't want to be President anymore 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? Every relationship I have had...I have learned a lot 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? cutting just leaves scars...and Bad memories...don't start 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? night beautiful 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? I'm pretty good with the follow through, at least with good intentions, and I try 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? What's next? How could you not? __________________ "You don't Find life worth living; You MAKE IT that way" Last edited by Tcountry; 10-20-2012 at 01:24 AM. Reason: color

10-20-2012, 03:59 AM	#17
sierragirrl Member How Do You Identify?: .... Relationship Status: <3 Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: ..... Posts: 783 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,417 Thanked 2,870 Times in 667 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Sadly nothing.ask me again in a year and it will be a different answer 2. What's been on your mind most lately? doctors appointments and tests 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? health happiness love money fame 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want? to be healthy mind body and soul 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Quiet 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? knowing my health is starting to get in order 7. In one sentence, who are you?mother,girlfriend,introvert,chill 8. What do you want to be known for?no idea 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?my town,everyone else will be with me 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?goodness i will be 100percent healthier 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? right now i dont feel good about myself really.therapy is going good though lol 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? goofiness,loyality,trustworthy 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? living 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?peace 15. What stands between you and what you want?fear of failure 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Sleep,go for a drive 17. When did you first realize that life is short? my fathers death..sadly it is something we seem to forget 18. What do you need to spend more time doing?Loving 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?reality but i am trying 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?vote for Romeny 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? hhmm.prob that im a bitch.meh. 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? my kids 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?my sanity 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?the way things were 5 yrs ago.if only there was a rewind button 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?traveling,spending alot of time with my other half,and watching my kids and pup grow 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?my health 27. If not now, then when?tomorrow 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? the steps i am making now 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? i have been abandon nearly half my life..im changing that daily 30. What do you want to remember forever?the feeling of l o v e 31. What could society do without?assholes 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? the choices i am making 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? love and help one another 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?hhmm..nothing that i can think of 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? prob to stay in the town i was born and raised in. 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? some friendships 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?that my birth mother is a fuking mess and to love my adopted parents more and to not cause so much teenage grief. 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? oy i can't even think about that. 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? said more sadly 40. What questions do you often ask yourself?what is my purpose in life,why am i here,how come i don't think like that?

10-20-2012, 11:02 AM	#18
spritzerJ Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Queer (gender), female (biological marker) Preferred Pronoun?: she will work as a default. Relationship Status: engaged to jac until 8/10/14 Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Maine Posts: 3,154 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,307 Thanked 15,802 Times in 2,905 Posts Rep Power: 0	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Find my way around NH. I can orientate toward the ocean and know it is east and not west now. 2. What's been on your mind most lately? how am i going to make the most of our time apart to be ready to live together every day. getting home for a visit. 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? love, health, happiness, money, fame 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? positive bank balance 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? working hard, loving hard and trying to get ready for new ways of being 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? My family 7. In one sentence, who are you? I am a beautiful, strong, joyous woman. 8. What do you want to be known for? laughter and acceptance. that I was open to people as they are/were and found joy in odd places 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? well I'd be back home so I'd find it tricky to miss what is still newer to me out here... maybe the utter continuity of the homes and the way things seem to look the same/follow a pattern out here. 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? snort... I'll be in another state, farther north, living the everyday family life and I will still be wondering when I am going to like folding laundry. My job will be different, The General will be older... etc. 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? that I try, over and over to keep the focus on the positive, that I know how to be strong and start over. that I don't stay down for long 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? individuality, sense of humor and appreciation for the unusual. 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? asking for help, trying things until I have to, sorting out finances. long list 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? I've wanted my mom to be happy and relaxed. 15. What stands between you and what you want? a plan and the willingness to take the first step 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? call my mom 17. When did you first realize that life is short? remember the zany parts, make a plan, do something new 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? folding laundry and doing dishes 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? initiating conversations with people that I disagree with 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? I disagree with going along to make things nice and because it is what a community expects. 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? that I don't follow through 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? everything 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? there are lots of things I would hate to go with out for a day. from my mom to clean hair. 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? college 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? I have many smiling memories to choose from. I think when The General said I feel left out and Stoney, myself and I ended up in a group hug on the couch. I knew then we'd be family. 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? how i account for spending money 27. If not now, then when? I don't understand the question. why am I not doing it now? It is in process... small steps forward. 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? nearly everything. there is a lot to choose from. I am most often proud of my picking up and moving on skills. 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? that I can commit to forever and the traditions I swore off because it fits now. 30. What do you want to remember forever? It hasn't happened yet. 31. What could society do without? many many things swiffer and those clorox wipes and plastic water bottles. 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? I am sure that The General will have a home and a parent if something happens to me. 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? I know precious little in my life. And I know this.. as much as we think we know it is shaped by our perceptions and experiences. My experiences have taught me this... you do not have to accept the impossible, improbable, unlikely or the fate that seems handed to you. You can have a dream, to live. And what ever limits life puts on you find another dream to make come true. 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? I said I'd never get married again or change my name. I'm likely to do both. 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? what I wanted to be... 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while?All of it. 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? Your a dumb ass and it is okay. Seriously honey you are going to be wonderful, stupid, smart, klutzy and nutty. And it will all be part of the point 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? I love you and you will be wonderful. 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? probably... I am a talker. But I don't know yet. I don't want to know. 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? Seriously Jenn what were you thinking?

03-10-2013, 12:53 PM	#19
agape Member How Do You Identify?: queer Preferred Pronoun?: don't care Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: earth Posts: 375 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,537 Thanked 671 Times in 203 Posts Rep Power: 9378958	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? cook sushi rice (my life is so much better now...) 2. What's been on your mind most lately? Honestly? My dream-love (it's still legal to dream isn't it?) 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? love, health, happiness, money, (fame) I don't think I want any fame at all 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? A big hug without words or expectations... 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? tired 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? Chocolate... Ice cream... revenge... (yes, that's my outfit for seeking revenge ) 7. In one sentence, who are you? I'm the one that nobody gets but everyone thinks they can figure out (You can't. Give up) 8. What do you want to be known for? I don't know. Don't care really... 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? I've already done that and what I missed the most is food, familiar smells and sounds 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? I have NO idea. But I do hope I will have more energy and more money so I can do stuff... 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? Me 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? honest, caring, equal 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? Living out my sexual orientation earlier in life... :/ 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? To live in a tree house! 15. What stands between you and what you want? What ever does should better get out of the way and fast!! 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? I dance 17. When did you first realize that life is short? Life is short? Oh crap! 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Stuff that make me feel good 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? I choose my battles 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Brag... 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? Far too many... They usually get just about everything wrong. 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? I don't dare to say. Don't want to challenge fate... 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? Some alone time. 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? My childhood summer house... 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? When I met my cousins daughter I hope to meet her again soon 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? I think, to learn to say no... 27. If not now, then when? It might as well be never... But it's never too late to try 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? Doing my best to take care of myself even at the hardest darkest times 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? That I'm only female in the body, not in my heart and mind... (long story) 30. What do you want to remember forever? love 31. What could society do without? people 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? nothing 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? lie 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? That blood is thicker than water. 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? I think love is always worth it... At least you tried. 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? Stay away from guys. Do drugs instead. 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? so long suckers! 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? Probably... I talk a lot... But I do mean the things I say and I do try to put them into practice 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? What the heck am I doing here? __________________ "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear." Martin Luther King, Jr.

03-10-2013, 01:24 PM	#20
SoSousMe Member How Do You Identify?: Gender Juxtaposed/Butch/Top/Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: Just a normal Guy Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Texas Posts: 173 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 928 Thanked 691 Times in 141 Posts Rep Power: 9968156	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Moving on 2. What's been on your mind most lately? My future 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? happiness, love, health, money, fame 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? To be by her side 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? lonely 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? happiness 7. In one sentence, who are you? I am a dedicated, hard worker - I am her Daddy - I am a proud parent 8. What do you want to be known for? Going the extra mile for people 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? My family 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? I will be living in a city in central Texas, missing My West Texas sunsets 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? she does 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? staying power, honesty, having My back 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? taking that risk 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? My mother to be happy 15. What stands between you and what you want? distance 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? listen to music and drink beer on the porch 17. When did you first realize that life is short? when I lost a friend to alcohol every year when I was in high school 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? taking walks with My girl 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? work related favoritism 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? discriminate 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? that I do not have fears 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? My knowledge 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? love 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? My nephew and My best gay friend 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? private moments with her 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? turning in My notice and moving on with My life 27. If not now, then when? in a couple more weeks, notice will be given 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? I have made many customers happy 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? that I love someone so much I am willing to move from My hometown to start over in a new city 30. What do you want to remember forever? My son's laugh 31. What could society do without? bigotry & hatred 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? I love My family 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? Stop hating those that are different from you, everyone has a heart inside that beats the same as yours. 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? Leave My job that I love 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? politics 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? Having My nephew in My life 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? Be compassionate, honest, hard working, and love.... with all of your heart 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? I love you son 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? probably 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? Why was I such a fckn Dawg back in the day? __________________ Should You stumble... should You fall... Pick Yourself up by Your bootstraps and move along. If by chance a lady's hand appears before You, don't let Your pride hinder Your progress. Take the hand she offers, for her touch may lend the perfect amount of resistance needed to help steady You on Your feet. The honor in Dominance lies in the ability to recognize submission as a gift. I tend to delve deep within Myself.. sometimes hearing nothing more than the stir of My own soul. LQ

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