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I struggled with self acceptence for many years, and one day I woke up and realized. I'm pretty, I'm fat, and I'm proud. So from one BBW to another I say hello and Happy Hump Day.
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Anyway, I posted this link in one of the other threads but I thought those who frequent this one might also enjoy this photographer's work: http://www.fatbottomboudoir.com/. --Slater, who for some reason always thinks ScandalAndy lives in Oklahoma and could not figure out why she was talking about the earthquake |
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I love this link........Thank you for posting it......I see a photo session in my future.
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I'm all for a good scolding, so I will take full credit on interpreting this thread "getting action" in all kinds of naughty ways! Thank you so much for the link! Do you follow Adipositivity at all? I'm a fan of her work. And if you click on my photo gallery, you'll see I'm already a fan of bbws in photo shoots. They're freaking empowering and, in my case, help me think better about myself. I encourage everyone to try it out!
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I'm another Adipositivity fan.
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I have been to this thread a couple of times, I am bbw and I still cant accept it.
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Can you accept part of it? I know for me, personally, I still cannot accept my stomach but I've gotten better with everything else. I started with my breasts, luckily they get a lot of attention and i added to that by agreeing to be a shot girl, where they get to be front and center. I was nervous and thought it was too much, but after I got over that, I realized that i had at least one part of me that was super hot. Then i thought, "well, if i have one good part, maybe I have more". From there I started trying to be nicer to myself when looking at my butt. I started looking at other butts and realizing that it's hard to get such a nice round curve! There was something I could do that others couldn't, so I praised myself for it. Little by little I'm working on accepting the things that others tell me are wrong. it takes time, and lots of repetition, and sometimes you have good and bad days, but you can do it. I know you can. I believe in you.
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Lord knows its not my boobs, they are great the way they are... its my stomach everything else is portioned right....
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It's good to have a tummy because it gives your butch someplace comfy to put their head while you run your fingers through their hair.
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Okay so I know I just quoted a bunch of things but I HAD to quote this too because, well, damnit I just had to I would rather go for a girl with awesome boobs and a cute butt anyday, all I can say is yummy yummy **drooooooooooooooool** And I will admit I'm a BIG time sucker for somewhere to lay My head, between a nice comfy set of boobs and a soft stomach I'd say thats being spoiled to Me but I digress **sigh**
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hahaha you are only saying that because i dated you lol silly goose
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Its the truth honey, yes I am biased but I don't care lol I'm damn proud of the fact that we dated and I know just how beautiful you are so I can brag all I want
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I'm seriously thinking about going through all y'all's photos to tell you what is awesome about each and every one of you. F'realz, I will. I feel yucky when people get down on themselves because they get so caught up in one thing they don't like that they just shove all the great stuff about themselves off in a corner and that's not fair.
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I know its not fair and I try My hardest not to do that, but unfortunately when all you've heard all your life are things like your fat/unworthy etc after awhile you tend to believe it because it becomes second nature. I spent My entire childhood and teenage school years being teased and tormented because of My size, and I often went home crying due to the hell I experienced. And as much as I love My dad, he doesn't help either but unfortunately due to lack of funds I have to live with him for now (thank goodness for My mom and sister keepin Me sane). One day I will believe that I'm not the person everyone makes fun of Me for but it is hard ~ in two weeks once My sister is back in school I'm taking My life back!!!! :-)
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WOW!!! There have been a lot of posts on here since last night! I'm not quoting anyone because I am loving ALL of what is being said here. Wow! This thread is great. I have to say it's doing wonders for me right now. I accept myself and for at least least a little while, I've been okay with my big curvy body. I'm comfortable with myself. But I am so thrilled to hear all these celebrations of BBWs out here. I never hear that. I live in a place where everyone looks like a lesbian from The L-Word. Seriously. No really hot butches, and no one who weighs more than 107. Ugh. I feel so out of place. So I have really struggled to keep telling myself that I can be beautiful just as I am. I know I am, but it's hard when I am the only voice saying it.
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