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Old 04-10-2011, 09:08 AM   #1
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Forgot to add this to my previous past...

When things get too overwhelming i drive up to the mountains for some meditation time atop Waterrock Knob or Richland Balsam (pics of both are in my gallery) - the two highest places along the Blue Ridge Parkway...
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If You've had a cruddy day, what do You do to 'shake it off'? Meditate? Listen to music? Read? Walk?

What do You do to center Yourself...to bring peace to Your soul?



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In order to bring peace to my soul, I go to the park and watch the squirrels and birds... It works for me!
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right now what brings me peace is:

strong arms that hold me when fear knocks

the quail singing in the back yard

listening to my girl, adele
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What Gives Me Peace:
1.) Listening to music....especially "Rolling in the Deep" by Adele
2.) Going for aimless drives
3.) Being near the ocean
4.) Spending time with good friends
5.) Listening to the rain
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Putting around in the garden.

Giving myself kudos for sticking to my values and boundaries without guilt!

Watching my little Frog Dog take in the scent of a flower.

Giving my old cat that is in the end of life phase due to kidney failure lots of love and brushing him while he purr thanks me.
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Old 06-09-2011, 02:18 PM   #6
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water
quiet library
museum
creating
breeze through the trees
cool sheets
totally relaxed cats
Chopin
vd D (ultimate peace)
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Watching the waves break on the shore, the smell of seasalt in the air
Listening to a beautiful thunderstorm (great for making love to )
The smell of rain in the desert
My favorite music, especially on a long drive with the windows down
Reading a very good book
Time with friends
Memories of my "children" when they were little, building sandcastles on the beach
California Poppies
Being loved, understood, appreciated and *wanted*
Holding hands with above said person whoever that may someday be
A really long, sweet kiss (see above)
Spooning to sleep
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Inner growth, and that AHA moment, when you realize it.
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reading with water ebbing and flowing in the background...maybe touching my toes.
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French pressed goodness.

A cool breeze coming through the window.

The smell of books in a library.

A knowing silence.

Sharing the same Sun, Moon, and Stars.

An open door to a wonderful future.

Ice cold bottled water.

Driving the truck with the music up loud and no destination.

The cats all stretched out and cooling off.

My niece's laugh.

The hypnosis receiver.

Knowing that tomorrow there is the great likelyhood of more peace to come.
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knowing I am living my forever...
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sitting at the beach, or on the beach...seeing the dolphins frolic in multiples....smiles
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Feeling my family members are safe and content.
Recalling all the wonderful times I shared with Gramma D.
Feeding a sweet baby squirrel last night and watching him play and climb till he was tuckered out.
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Sitting out on my balcony drinking good coffee and hearing the chimes and feeling the morning breeze.
Morning prayers, chanting my mantras and ringing the bells.
Reading from my Living Buddhism magazines inspirational.
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Hiking and FISHING ! (Those are number 2 and 3)
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i come home and take a long hot shower and then cuddle with my pups. They always make me smile.
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Silence. So i can be alone with my thoughts

Sometimes. Music. And sometimes entertaining my dog. He thinks i am highlarious
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someone who loves cozy as much as i do..holding hands..kissing..sharing a quiet evening at home
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A Walk Through a Pine Forest After an Ice Storm Alone.
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Quiet...
Solitude....
Curling up with my old furbaby by my side...
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