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09-08-2013, 06:58 AM | #16 | |
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I'm having a very hard time with what ppl call "white lies", to me I don't see any reason why someone would lie about small things like someones hair-cut for example. If I look bad, I would like to know! Of course, one doesn't have to be rude either and also just because sth is true doesn't mean you must say it out loud... Arguments - Do you aplogize when you know you're not wrong? Sometimes I might, since being right or wrong depends on one's point of view... Attraction - Do you deny that someone or something else caught your eye for a just moment when asked? I normally don't deny it, but it depends on the situation... Sexual Satisfaction - Do you fake it or are you honest? I'm always honest about that. Breath/Body Odor - Do you say something or live with it? Since I have a very strong sense of smell I feel I would have to tell someone very close to me or else I couldn't live with the person... In other cases I try to endure until I can get away... Friends - Would you tell your partner if you didn't like one their friends or just grin and bear it? I'm pretty sure I would, if I was expected to spend a lot of time with the friend. I can't see why that would be rude in any way. To me, it's like stating that I don't like my partners favorite ice cream, would that be rude? Even when together, we are two different persons and can't always like the same things, food or ppl... BUT I have no problem to lie to protect myself and the ones I love. That's where my limit goes...
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