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Old 12-30-2012, 06:17 AM   #41
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...I want to be able to retire.

Healthy enough (also able to afford not to be employed) to be able to enjoy my time.

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Dee, first let me say, I enjoyed the entire video and when she started to cry, I was sad with her.

Reading all the posts, up to this one, made me think a lot.
Made me think, what do I want for me before I die since I always seem to put others first.

So, before I die, I'd like to fall in love again because loving someone just isn't enough
I'd like a home I never have to move from again because I like it enough to stay
I'd like a job I enjoy going to instead of going because I have to
I'd like to go fishing anywhere and everywhere when I can
I'd like to publish my poetry for others to read for years to come
I'd like to advocate for abused and neglected animals
I'd like property to build a cat habitat/sanctuary for all the throw aways to live without being chased away by humans


Although I know in my heart, I will always want more for others rather than myself, this is what I came up with off the top of my head.

To my BFP family, lets just all live in peace and harmony before we die.
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To fall madly and deeply in love.

To watch my granddaughter fall madly and deeply in love with someone who reciprocates.
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Hang glide off the Swiss Alps...Ride a bull...Ride a horse on an Iceland seashore...Walk across hot coals..See a volcano erupting...Ice ride my dirtbike across a frozen lake...Live for a year in both Berlin and the Czech Republic...And see all 7 wonders of the world.
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Ah, to raise my arms victorious, face to the heavens, feeling the pin-prick burn of the sun and the steel cold chill in the wind while I struggle for breath... all from the 22,837 ft. summit of Aconcagua.
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Before I die I want to....


See my daughters happy and successful....

and

Have at LEAST one grandbaby

but I'm in no hurry for that....tyvm
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Dee, first let me say, I enjoyed the entire video and when she started to cry, I was sad with her.

Reading all the posts, up to this one, made me think a lot.
Made me think, what do I want for me before I die since I always seem to put others first.

So, before I die, I'd like to fall in love again because loving someone just isn't enough
I'd like a home I never have to move from again because I like it enough to stay
I'd like a job I enjoy going to instead of going because I have to
I'd like to go fishing anywhere and everywhere when I can
I'd like to publish my poetry for others to read for years to come
I'd like to advocate for abused and neglected animals
I'd like property to build a cat habitat/sanctuary for all the throw aways to live without being chased away by humans


Although I know in my heart, I will always want more for others rather than myself, this is what I came up with off the top of my head.

To my BFP family, lets just all live in peace and harmony before we die.

Thank you for watching the video, i was hoping people would!

i could have written this list, only replaced poetry (i am no writer like you are!) with photography. i want to share how i see things with the world, and before i die would love to see people enjoy my photos and see what i see.


In reading these lists, most of them are about *us*. What we want, what we need.. but life isn't always about us. Like before i die i would like to see m y mother happy. She is not a happy person, before i die i want to see her enjoy her life, just once.


The question isn't really what we would like to *do* although that certainly comes to mind... but what we want before we die, whatever that may be.
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Before i die....

i want to see men stop attacking the women of the world, mostly sexually.

Before i die... i want to see a world where it's not the norm to have women and children raped, hunted, abused.


Before i die i want to see a world free of fear.
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Before i die i want to see a world free of hunger.

Before i die i want to fly a plane!
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Before i die....

i want to see men stop attacking the women of the world, mostly sexually.

Before i die... i want to see a world where it's not the norm to have women and children raped, hunted, abused.


Before i die i want to see a world free of fear.
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Before i die i want to teach! ...........
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...live abroad.

....go skydiving.

......run a marathon.

.........see an end to rape and violence against women and children.
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Before i die i want to teach! ...........
You already do this. Many people do this and don't know it. many people learn from you.
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You already do this. Many people do this and don't know it. many people learn from you.

What a compliment. Thank you so much!

i wasn't thinking of this project idea as a bucket list per se, but i think it has to be somewhat.

i know that i will not live long enough to read all the books i ever want to.

So before i die i want to try!
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...learn to tango and make Blue promise that we'll tango our way through old age, even if it has to be in wheelchairs

...see two of my three children married and settled and know that the third will be taken care of once I'm gone

...hold my first grandchild

Anything else would be a bonus.

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See everyone be able to get married, legally.....
Get married, legally .....
See Lady Gaga in concert, and perhaps cruise around town in a limo and be able to chat with her...
Go to a Laker game and sit with Jack Nicholson, courtside.....
Swim with doplhins .....
Be able to talk with my mom one more time, even though she is no longer amongst us ....
See an end to world hunger .....

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...I want to walk down the isle with the love of my life with no questions about my rights to love
...I want to adopt a little person
...I want to plant a garden and be remembered by it
...build and be Mistress of my own gifted and talented school
...have a huge wooden table to gather friends and loved ones
...get it right and have a chance to say I am sorry I hurt you
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