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Old 11-09-2014, 01:07 PM   #9321
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It's difficult to find that special connection with someone. And then sometimes they don't feel the same way or you don't feel the same way. It can be so discouraging. I understand why people retreat and choose to stop trying. That option is looking attractive to me right now. The other way just seems to bring nothing but pain. Ok, that's my therapy for the day! Lol
It's a lot easier to retreat and stop trying, isn't it? You may be lonely but at least you won't end up with another broken heart and war wounds.

I contemplate this a lot lately as well. I don't like being without someone to shower with affection or to love but the thought of it scares the hell out of me at this moment. So I'm just sitting back and having fun flirting.

What I can say is that if we stop trying, how will we ever find the right one? I think about this too.

My advice is to maybe just take your time. Don't rush into anything and enjoy what comes along. It usually happens when you least expect it and when you aren't trying to find it. Right?
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It's a lot easier to retreat and stop trying, isn't it? You may be lonely but at least you won't end up with another broken heart and war wounds.

I contemplate this a lot lately as well. I don't like being without someone to shower with affection or to love but the thought of it scares the hell out of me at this moment. So I'm just sitting back and having fun flirting.

What I can say is that if we stop trying, how will we ever find the right one? I think about this too.

My advice is to maybe just take your time. Don't rush into anything and enjoy what comes along. It usually happens when you least expect it and when you aren't trying to find it. Right?
You are right, Sleepy. I think for me the uncertainty that can come in the beginning is so scary. It's hard to relax and trust when you've been hurt so much. How much do I owe you for the session, Dr. Sleepy? Lol
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You are right, Sleepy. I think for me the uncertainty that can come in the beginning is so scary. It's hard to relax and trust when you've been hurt so much. How much do I owe you for the session, Dr. Sleepy? Lol
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Hey singles! Hope everyone is well. Going to relax with family for a bit.
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Howdy Singles, I hope everyone is doing well.
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No problem! and yes I made them. I am trying to perfect my baking skills. lol
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oooo... cookies... Thank you JD. Hello, Sleepy.

*sits for a spell*

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I am hanging in there and yourself?
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I am hanging in there and yourself?
Not bad... learning to see the world from a different angle...
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I hear ya, I try to do that at times but it doesn't work.
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I hear ya, I try to do that at times but it doesn't work.
It's not always an easy thing to accomplish... sometimes the new angle is a result of someone pushing you off a cliff.
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Tea is lovely!!! Thank you. Rest well! I am headed to bed.
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oooo... cookies... Thank you JD. Hello, Sleepy.

*sits for a spell*

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Helllloooo Jenn! Apparently I was doing really well because I was sound asleep lol.

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Helllloooo Jenn! Apparently I was doing really well because I was sound asleep lol.

Hope you are well too!
Good morning to you both! I hope the day brings smiles and opportunity for moments of laughter and joy!
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