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Old 02-10-2015, 07:07 PM   #401
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On a beautiful day, a clean house with music playing and the windows open with a cool breeze blowing through

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having my bills paid on time, my rent paid on time, having money left over to buy food and medicine, being alone in the quiet times.

Less stress gives me more peace.
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Hiking in the woods...

Rain on the metal roof...

Tea in the early morning hours...

The sunrise and sunset in the mountains...

Hearing from my kids..

My dog..

Yoga...

And numerous other things...
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A few things that bring me peace:

Feeling the pull and push of the tide as I walk or sit on the beach

Fishing...anywhere, anytime

Hanging out with my dog, Sadie

Coffee on the patio overlooking the pond

Walking in the woods

Doing a little gardening

Having a clear conscience
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~ dusk falling
~ hearing water
~ toes in the sand
~ smell of a bonfire or fireplace
~ walking through a historical place
~ the sound of a fan
~ needlework & paper crafting
~ music
~ cooking & baking
~ snuggling pets
~ a good book
~ finishing a stressful project
~ being so tired that i know i'll be lost to the world once im in my blanket
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deep calming breaths and knowing I stand by my choices.

integrity gives me peace.
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Tea, a journal, and colorful pens.
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.... Knowing my family and friends are safe and that they know that they are loved, the sunset, the stars in the sky, walking along the beach and taking in the smells, the sights, the feel of the waves over my feet, yoga, practicing staying in the moment, soaking in a bathtub, with candles, and music playing, laughter , sharing time with family and friends , a massage, the mountain sights on my drive home from work, cuddles and snuggles, my definition of good music which covers many genres, writing , drawing and so much more....

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Today, I found peace in being appreciated.
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Today, my peace is coming home and cuddling with my pups after spending a hard day at work.
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Watching her drift off.
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i find peace in....

Silence.....in watching the sun go down.....watching it rain.....the dark clouds and the smell of rain.....I find peace waking up in the middle of the night....feeling my dog cuddled next to me. I find peace in exhaling a deep sigh and feeling the stress of the moment melt away. I used to find peace in her eyes...now i find peace within myself.
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Today i find peace....

In being prepared for our snow/ice storm tomorrow..

Extra batteries, plenty of firewood, candles, flashlights, food, blankets folded and ready, and a full tank of gas in my car.

Bring it storm!!!

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Seeing the sun rise
Listening to jazz
My living space
Grass
Reading, watching, or listening to James Baldwin
Brushing and petting dogs or horses
Being near an ocean, river, or lake
A good game of chess
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Listening to music in the morning when I wake up.
Looking around at all my blessings
Waking up before the house and just taking some time to enjoy the peace for just a moment.
Being by the water, a lake, ocean, stream
Going exploring in nature
Knowing that God's Got this!
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Cultivating simplicity in everything I do brings me the most peace.

In that way, there is always time for enjoyment of all stripes. I probably still have far to go in that regard, but I don't feel in any hurry - just cutting down on the extraneous bit by bit until I arrive there and enjoying the ride in the meantime.

What is very interesting is to observe how unsettling this sort of idea is to so many people. It is approaching time for me to take a wide detour. But please don't ask me what I mean by that because I'm not exactly sure myself yet.
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What brings me peace....is revelling in Nature's wonders....the rainbow, the water, the squirrels, rabbits and deer that cross my path on my way to work some days. I get the greatest peace from knowing that I'm cared for and loved.
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