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08-21-2014, 12:44 AM | #121 |
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subscribing....pretty clear from the few posts I read that I want to start at the beginning...yum! Thank you for providing much needed happy thoughts before bedtime.
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08-21-2014, 01:18 AM | #122 |
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What an absolutely wonderful thread. Probably not the best one to read before I have to go to work but it has definitely put a smile on face and a spring in my step which makes for a productive day!
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08-21-2014, 05:00 AM | #123 |
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Good thread but yes, not the best to read before going to work! Lol
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08-22-2014, 12:00 AM | #124 |
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I am glad Tru started this thread. I think that there is a misconception that women who identify as butch somehow give up their erogenous zones in the process. What I like (or don't like) depends on many things, including but not limited to my partner, my hormones, my self-esteem, etc. I do find that people (femmes) are sometimes hesitant to explore what works and what doesn't. I "get" that the hesitation is sometimes due to past experiences with butches who don't want contact with their female parts but we (butches) aren't all cut from the same cloth.
I enjoy each opportunity to find the "right" spot to touch/lick/suck/fuck to get as many orgasms as possible until one of us has to tap out from exhaustion. It would be fabulous to be with someone who was willing to take a similar journey with me. I am female, not feminine, and my female parts count in the bedroom (or wherever) too. By the way, to the femmes who are posting their willingness and/or desire to please a butch pussy (or your preferred term), thank you...and yum! |
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08-22-2014, 09:13 PM | #125 | |
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ETA: I haven't been coming online much but I sure thought this thread had died some time ago. Thanks to all whom have posted here and revived this thread. I think it's worth talking about the misconceptions and some such things and anything else y'all wanna talk about here.
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02-10-2015, 06:29 PM | #126 |
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LMAO.. I just came across this thread and wailing over here. I understand ya Tru.. I really do. Im one of you. Its like it doesnt matter when it comes to the bedroom with these two type people. When it comes to love making with one of our kind.. you cant tell where the butch or femme begins or ends with either of us.
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02-11-2015, 02:45 PM | #127 |
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I love this thread. I will say that in my personal experience, it has never taken from partner's masculine energy nor from my feminine energy when she allows me to indulge in every bit of her body. In all honesty, sometimes it seems to intensify it.
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02-11-2015, 11:24 PM | #129 |
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Fantastic
Fabulous topic indeed.
I am not with the majority here, but, that matters not. Those I'm attracted to and those I attract dig the fact that I do not "return" certain sexual favors. This does not mean I don't satisfy my partner, because, I do. All too often they did not combust from what I was doing to them, but rather from things they were doing to me. I have never just climbed into bed with a butch and made assumptions. Since I wait a significant amount of time before givin it up, I have ample opportunity to discuss, get to know...the desires of the butch I am with. I made darn sure of it. I too needed to be heard. A sexual need or kink expressed to me that is not something I am into, means, to me, we are not compatible, Period. I will not even go there, why bother? ...and yes, to me it really is that cut and dry. Many i have dated expressed an interest in things such as BDSM. I am not interested in that. As much as I may have liked them, hot or not, it was Good-bye. I don't stick around thinking MY pussy will somehow change them into liking what I do or no longer liking or needing what they do with my wicked "pussy power" That's a game I never played. I think problems occur when people don't take the time to discuss sex before hand, also, many want a relationship that makes them feel happy and are willing to do anything to have that "happy" feeling. I am not one of them. I married a butch who does not desire what I do, and, I respect that. If she was to change her mind down the road and wanted me to explore her in ways I never have, again, a conversation would take place. In the past, when asked if I would do this or that, I never thought of it as making a butch any less masculine, not at all. Simply personal preference. I do not care what my wife or anyone else calls their genitals....again, to me, not an indication of butch or masculine or not, it's just a word, it's all just words. So, I do not go digging for gold in my butches body parts...I let the gold flow downwards, but, I'm right there to catch it. Thanks Tru, awesome thread!!!!! |
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02-12-2015, 08:51 AM | #130 |
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I totally get off on tasting myself in my lover's kiss.
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02-12-2015, 09:08 AM | #131 |
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I love this. Delicious, in so many ways. Yes. Yes. Yes. ❤️
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02-12-2015, 01:05 PM | #132 |
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I know what goes on in my own mind when I'm totally enmeshed between a femme's thighs. BUT, I was wondering what goes on in the minds of femmes when they are enmeshed between their butch's thighs and having Their way with them? What kinds of thoughts run around in your mind?
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03-05-2015, 03:26 PM | #133 |
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BUMP ! just because.
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Oh heavens
Y'all made my ovaries hurt.
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05-30-2015, 04:13 PM | #135 |
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LMAO! So funny...and true ! I`ll come back to this thread when I`m a little braver....... But I`m so happy to read such honest and open posts and and such rightly deserved respect for whatever our personal preferences are. DC |
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05-30-2015, 04:25 PM | #136 |
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Don't be so shy and afraid to post, DC, it's all good here. No one knows you so why not open up and share. LOL
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Seems to me that when someone is between your thighs, you are either turned on or close to, by that time...but if you start stopping, at that point, to think things over and calculating the other person's butch/femme quotient, I'd be thinking that someone is being objectified and this may be a short trip.
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Re objectification, getting off on someone's masculinity or femininity is not objectification. Do you honestly think it is?
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My Butch usually prefers to give and not receive, but there are occasions where she does, I take full advantage. She fully enjoys it at this point and so do I. I sometimes will even orgasm a second time when I get the chance to taste her. So, yeah, I think most Femmes, unless they are Stone variety like to please their Butches in this manner.
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Ya know, I just miss having a loving partner, one that I can enjoy myself with, love and be loved by, and have the special occasions where loving her and her loving me in a sexual way is oh soo good.
It's been a while and I have memories but memories are one thing, the real thing is totally better. And I just can't do the casual sex thing, it's totally not for me.
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