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06-14-2011, 09:46 PM | #1 |
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What Makes Regular Folk?
I'm just a regular guy.
I do regular stuff. I get up every day and go to work, then I come home and check the mail, make dinner, do the dishes, help my son with homework. Then I go to bed and in the morning start all over again. On the weekends I go to the gym, grocery shop, clean the house, do laundry. Folding is fun. It's all startlingly average. I was wondering what other regular folks do to define themselves as "regular."
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Just throw in full time college hours on top of the 60 hour work week ON TOP of helping the teenage son with homework. My weekends are filled with things like excursions to the flea markets and thrift stores on the hunt for the odd, unusual items. Or perhaps hiking with kid and camera, trying to get good nature pics. The occasional "Saturday night at the club" with a couple folks from this site. Or picnics and cookouts with family or good friends on sunny Sunday afternoons. The laundry folding is kinda fun. I much prefer that over dish washing any day. I think that's kinda "normal". Last edited by dixie; 06-14-2011 at 09:54 PM. Reason: i.e. "normal" being "regular" |
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Wake up somewhere between 11 and noon on days Ami works, 2-3 PM on weekends. Second shifters here.
Get our collective meds together clean cat boxes, yes plural get the girl off to work wake the hella up depending on the day, mow, laundry, dishes, we don't do a lot of dishes due to dishwasher. read emails spend some time here play the FT do some projects when I can go to the gym when I'm able play with semi awake cats eat clean cat boxes again go to bed somewhere between midnight and 2-3 AM do it all ovah again.
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Everyday, like clockwork
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06-16-2011, 02:48 PM | #5 |
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I usually have a couple of cups pof coffee when I wake up, a cup at 9:30 or 10 at work, a cup after lunch and if I am sleepy a cup at 2.
In the evenings I try to go decaf. I drinks at least 8 glasses of water a day. and I am happiest with 8-9 hours of sleep a night. I also enjoy floating in the pool!
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I stand at parades when the American flag goes by.
I also applaud when service members and veterans march by (no matter what my views on war are). I sit on my front porch in the evenings; sometimes with a beer. I grumble at people who speed on my road and kids who cut through my yard. |
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Regular is good.
I get up. I turn off the porch light. I let Lucy out, then feed Ricky, Fred & Ethel. I let Lucy in and feed her. I empty the litter box. Then I get ready for my day, which generally consists of Le Toilette, getting dressed and household putzing before I paint or work on some artistic project. I live a relatively quiet life, actually. Some might call it boring. I call it Home. |
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I work full time
Weekends and days off I catch up on shows that I missed or hang out with friends I play video games Build model cars Work out Eat, sleep and shit
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06-14-2011, 09:59 PM | #9 |
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I don't actually mind the dishes, but I'm sick of the daily cooking and finally gave the boy the task of cleaning the littler box. I was over it.
A special note to the member repped me to say: "at first I thought this was a bowel regimen thread. I am getting so fucking old." Your daily fiber regimen is also entirely welcome here! Trust me, a few Ex Lax jokes went through my head as I composed my original post!
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06-14-2011, 10:41 PM | #10 |
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06-14-2011, 10:51 PM | #11 |
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Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, Wednesday.
I work full time, eat 3 squares a day, drink too much coffee and then stay up too late reading when I know I have to be in the office early.
Sundays are laundry days, but I never seem to get to the laundry until Tuesday. My housemates and I let the dishes pile up, then we all bitch collectively about whose fault it is for the atrocity that is our kitchen sink. I listen to NPR every morning on the way to work, call a friendly voice on the way home to de-stress. I read up on the news, go to rehearsals, have friends over for dinner. There's something so comforting about regular things. Our routines and habits become the rhythm, the pulse, the things we do without noticing. I guess they seem regular, but I think they're kind of beautiful. |
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06-15-2011, 05:40 AM | #12 |
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I get up, let everybody out to pee, then turn the computer on. I have my tea in front of the screen and catch up on what happened in the news while I was asleep. During the day I either run errands or putz around the house. Always housework to be done. Always yard work to be done. Lately I've added looking after the chickens and flowers and seedlings for our all-too-short summer. On the weekends my Sweetie is here and have our weekly supper at the diner (want more coffee? You know where the pot is!), do projects together, do the rounds of the thrift shops and yard sales, and go for a run in the woods with the dogs. (the dogs run - we stroll).
I have been known to go visit a friend or two - usually to see their new critter - whatever that may be. Not an exciting life, but it's comfy.
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06-15-2011, 05:54 AM | #13 |
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but but don't you find routine comforting?
I have 3-4 breathing treatments that must be done each day, my day/routine revolves around them most of the time. When I am online playing, usually I am doing a treatment as sitting still for 15 minutes would make me nuts. I don't like being tied down to a tight schedule, Just as long as it's all done is good. |
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Red and I are about as regular as one should ever want to be..LOL. We drove to Dallas last night so I could put her on a plane to Mt Vernon and then go back to pick her up this Saturday to start our summer vacation including my aunt and uncle then a week from Saturday I drop her off at DFW again to go back to Mt Vernon. Then she will be home on the 2nd of July and off again on July 5th. You might ask what makes this so regular? She is a school teacher and travels every summer to be better at what she does. Oh the real regular part is while she is traveling all over the place I have a honey do list that grows day by day :-). I miss her but when she is gone I get my list done a lot faster.
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Sometimes my world revolves around poop. Does this make me regular or weird?
I work at a vet hospital we've got it there and when I come home there's lots more. I clean the cat boxes and take the dogs out - pick up after their business, cause you know they like to drop it like it's hawt. Oh... and as far as household chores are divided; I'm the official toilet bowel scrubber. (I do a most excellent job, I may add!) I'll supply more (much needed, I'm sure) information to support my case for regular later. There's dinner to be made.. .and, and . ..
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What do the Simple Folk do?
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I whistle, sing and dance. ~CF GUENEVERE
What do the simple folk do To help them escape when they\'re blue? The shepard who is ailing, the milkmaid who is glum The cobbler who is wailing from nailing his thumb When they\'re beset and besieged The folk not noblessly obliged However do they manage to shed their weary lot? Oh, what do simple folk do we do not? ARTHUR I have been informed by those who know them well They find relief in quite a clever way When they\'re sorely pressed, they whistle for a spell And whistling seems to brighten up their day And that\'s what simple folk do So they say |
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My older daughter is at an anime convention (or "Con" in the lingo). She's wearing a slutty looking outfit, so I told her to be careful and don't talk to strangers.
I cry at touching television commercials. I told my daughter that I only text two or three times a month and she called me a Luddite. I'm regular *and* old. I think that wearing oversized clothing hides my fat. Weekends are my favorite times. I usually think that commercials are meant for me. I'm the demographic. Unless there are animated charachters or smiley faces. Then my partner is the demographic.
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I stay up too late, then have to get up too early. I'd be a total night owl if my job would let me.
Normally I work 30-40 hours a week, get three days off for my weekend (sat/sun/mon), but we've got a weekend project running which means I've had two full days off in the last few months. Memorial Day Monday and Easter Sunday. So lately it's been stay up 'til 12am, get up by 6, emails, work scheduling, showering and yes, farmville-ing (I'm so ashamed. But my eighty bajillion animals that live in my computer NEED me...). Now that I have a cat again, I do the food and water in the morning.... Out of the house by 10 usually, work work work work work work until 6, home to upload work stuff, or hand entry on the computer, depending on which company I was working for today... Make dinner, do litter box, try to socialize sweet new kitty person (she's in my gallery, btw.), make sure she has dinner... Play on puter. Stay up to late reading or knitting or something.... I can't wait to have days off again. I'll actually have time to make a garden.... |
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What makes me "regular folk" today:
It's 1:15 pm and I'm still in my pajamas. I'm thinking of going back to bed. I wanted to do laundry and get some things from Home Depot today. There's a 50:50 chance that this will happen. My daughter, who lives in Florida, is now on her way to Disneyworld for the day. I told her to drive safely and be careful, and to call me when she's home. I have a dog that chases rabbits in his sleep. He's doing it right now. I got a great manicure this week. Now, every few minutes, I take a second to admire my nails. When my partner notices this, she laughs at me.
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Wake up anywhere from 11 AM to 1 PM.
Get up. Kick the dogs out. Get dressed. Rescue the neighbors from the holy terror. Eat breakfast/lunch. Leave for work about 1:55 Sometimes have a good night, sometimes get steadily grumpier. Off work anytime between 10:30 and 11:30. Home. Get the girl to bed. Eat dinner. Play games. Texting as available. Somewhere in there I may do some housework, definitely on days off though. |
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