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02-05-2011, 08:16 PM
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Songs That Got You Through Break Ups :)
Ok so I have the wedding thread... LOL But, I was thinking.. What kind of songs do we play to soothe our aching hearts when we break up with someone?
I will start... Years ago, an ex and I had broke up, and well, I was completely heart broken. those who know me in real life know this... I played this song over and over again... Hey, it got me through....  |
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02-05-2011, 08:24 PM
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02-05-2011, 08:26 PM
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02-05-2011, 08:41 PM
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02-05-2011, 08:54 PM
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for my one, who has room in my heart even today
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02-05-2011, 09:19 PM
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02-05-2011, 09:48 PM
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OK, it was 1976 and I just broke up with my first girlfriend...guess ya just had to be there...LOL |
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02-05-2011, 09:52 PM
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02-05-2011, 10:01 PM
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killer break up lyrics-
Sorry, have no idea how to post a video-
You Oughta Know- Alanis Morrisette I want you to know, that I'm happy for you I wish nothing but the best for you both An older version of me Is she perverted like me Would she go down on you in a theatre Does she speak eloquently And would she have your baby I'm sure she'd make a really excellent mother Cause the love that you gave that we made wasn't able To make it enough for you to be open wide, no And every time you speak her name Does she know how you told me you'd hold me Until you died, till you died But you're still alive And I'm here to remind you Of the mess you left when you went away It's not fair to deny me Of the cross I bear that you gave to me You, you, you oughta know You seem very well, things look peaceful I'm not quite as well, I thought you should know Did you forget about me Mr. Duplicity I hate to bug you in the middle of dinner It was a slap in the face how quickly I was replaced Are you thinking of me when you fuck her Cause the love that you gave that we made wasn't able To make it enough for you to be open wide, no And every time you speak her name Does she know how you told me you'd hold me Until you died, til you died But you're still alive And I'm here to remind you Of the mess you left when you went away It's not fair to deny me Of the cross I bear that you gave to me You, you, you oughta know Cause the joke that you laid on the bed that was me And I'm not gonna fade As soon as you close your eyes and you know it And every time I scratch my nails down someone else's back I hope you feel it...well can you feel it And I'm here to remind you Of the mess you left when you went away It's not fair to deny me Of the cross I bear that you gave to me You, you, you oughta know
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02-05-2011, 10:04 PM
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02-05-2011, 10:04 PM
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02-05-2011, 10:04 PM
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Good Songs you guys and gals
Keep em coming... Romance has left my house for the night...
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02-05-2011, 10:07 PM
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02-05-2011, 10:20 PM
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still no clue how to post a video- bear with me!
Cry Me A River- Justin Timberlake You were my sun, you were my earth But you didn't know all the ways I loved you, no So you took a chance and made other plans But I bet you didn't think that they would come crashing down, no All of these things people told me Keep messin' with my head You should've picked honesty Then you may not have blown it, yeah You don't have to say what you did I already know, I found out from him Now there's just no chance For you and me, there'll never be Don't it make you sad about it? You told me you loved me Why did you leave me all alone? Now you tell me you need me When you call me on the phone But girl I refuse you must have me confused With some other guy, the bridges were burned And now it's your turn to cry Cry me a river I know that they say That some things are better left unsaid But it wasn't like you only talked to him and you know it Don't act like you don't know it All of these things people told me Keep messin' with my head You should've picked honesty Then you may not have blown it, yeah You don't have to say what you did I already know, I found out from him Now there's just no chance For you and me, there'll never be Don't it make you sad about it? You told me you loved me Why did you leave me all alone? Now you tell me you need me When you call me on the phone Girl I refuse you must have me confused With some other guy, the bridges were burned Now it's your turn to cry So cry me a river Go on and just (Cry me a river, girl) Go on and just (Cry me a river) Baby, go on and just (Cry me a river, girl) Yeah, yeah, yeah Oh, oh The damage is done So I guess I be leavin' Oh, oh The damage is done So I guess I be leavin' Oh, oh The damage is done So I guess I be leavin' Oh, oh The damage is done So I guess I be leavin' You don't have to say what you did I already know, I found out from him Now there's just no chance For you and me, there'll never be Don't it make you sad about it (Cry me a river) Don't it make you sad about it (Cry me a river) Don't it make you sad about it (Cry me a river) Cry me a river, oh
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02-05-2011, 10:32 PM
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yay for my sistah teaching me how to post videos!
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02-05-2011, 10:43 PM
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I often revert to Ani when my heart hurts...
...takes me back to my angsty youth.
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Not so much a break-up-coping song - but it's an anthem to me. This song gets me through all sorts of stuff.
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