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Old 04-14-2019, 11:34 AM   #181
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xzq34YD3T8E
this song still bites
what you want,but its impossible

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What I want from you is empty your head
Well they say be true, don't stain your bed
Well we do what we need to be free
And it leans on me just like a rootless tree
What I want from us is empty our minds
Well we fake a fuss and fracture the times
We go blind when we've needed to see
And this leans on me just like a rootless
So fuck you, fuck you, fuck you
And all we've been through
I said leave it, leave it, leave it
It's nothing to you
And if you hate me, hate me, hate me
Then hate me so good that you can let me out, let me out, let me out
Of this hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
What I want from this is learn to let go
No not of you, of all that's been told
But killers reinvent and believe
And this leans on me just like a rootless
So fuck you, fuck you, fuck you
And all we've been through
I said leave it, leave it, leave it
It's nothing to you
And if you hate me, hate me, hate me
Then hate me so good that you can let me out, let me out, let me out
Of this hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Of this hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around
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Hell when you're around
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And fuck you, fuck you, I love you
And all we've been through
I said leave it, leave it, leave it
It's nothing to you
And if you hate me, hate me, hate me
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Let me out
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Let me out, let me out, let me out
It's hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, just let me out
Hell when you're around
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the script- break even

switchfoot - dare you to move

lifehouse - broken

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Thank goodness this heartache is not mine to feel right now but I saw this thread on my last little adventure here, and THIS kept coming to mind....
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