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1) Communication; talk to me, discuss, debate, let me know what you think and why. Make some of the choices and don't wait for me to do everything.
2) Something to get up for in the morning; whether that's a job, a vocation, education, anything. Just something that gives you a life away from 'us'. 3) Honesty; don't lie, i'll know. Without honesty there can be no trust. and a cheeky fourth 4) Cuddles and 'Us' time is essential; Sex is a two way street but let me take charge |
08-10-2013, 04:55 PM | #202 |
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1. Passion-not just of the obvious kind, but passion as a way of life, a passion for life. Includes having passions outside of the relationship. 2. The ability to be present in the moment with me, whatever is going on. You won't always "get" me, but really trying is important. I will reciprocate with you. 3. The ability to face your challenges and problems and see them as opportunities for real change. Even if they beat you down at first, the ability to come back stronger.
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08-10-2013, 05:54 PM | #203 |
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Non-negotiable
Always the same three for me;
!. No cheating 2. No lying 3. No stealing Actually, I have more than three but maybe that is on another thread. Lead by example. |
08-10-2013, 06:38 PM | #204 |
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1. Someone who knows and is true to who they are.
2. Someone of strong character and integrity. 3. Someone with a passion for every area of their life. |
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08-10-2013, 07:01 PM | #205 |
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1. Don't lie 2. Cheat 3. Or steal.
Have a sense of humor be able to communicate be able to forgive because if you cant do that how can you go forward in life? Be faithful trusting and have morals
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08-10-2013, 07:07 PM | #206 |
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08-10-2013, 07:09 PM | #207 |
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emotional honesty
Likes to have a clean home Communicates
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08-11-2013, 07:19 AM | #208 |
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1. A (nearly) similar view on spirituality, philosophy and ethics.
Indispensable attribute. Prevents major conflicts. 2. Healthy self-discipline. There are no Problems, just challenges. Fear? Conquer it. Bored? Open your eyes for the miracles around you. (If it's going to be a sexual relationship) 3. Attractiveness. Female masculinity and a dominant aura is a good start. Or s/he is an anthropomorphic alien. *cough*
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08-11-2013, 08:09 AM | #209 |
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Hmmmm....
Honesty Affectionate Must love dogs
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08-11-2013, 08:51 AM | #210 |
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I am not looking for pain = love, if you are keep walking away I am the Domestic Goddess you always dreamed of having by your side ... Not your slave, step up or get lost. Okie dokie, there, some honest to gawd honesty. It's Sunday morning, and yes, I'm putting it out there. Scorpio rising today. Feels fabulous. |
08-11-2013, 09:20 AM | #211 |
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1. Fluid communication (with that is honesty....that ultimately develops trust)
2. Flexibility/Open-mindedness...one must hold themselves with compassion and understanding in order to express/live by these 3. Independence...Yes I want you to want me, yes I want time with you....but I also want time with out you, time away, time to appreciate the time I have with you.
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08-11-2013, 10:30 AM | #212 |
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SCORPIO QUEEN OF CUPS Diving into emotional situations is best. Get in deep for best results. Work out emotional knots by addressing them head on.
See, Arwen said so. Feels good to say things outloud sometimes. I'm going to do this more often. |
08-11-2013, 11:04 AM | #213 |
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1. no smoking
2. no cats 3. no coming home drunk and obnoxious and few others that are regarded as "normal"
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good communicator
loves to kiss loyalty means something
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I think I'm still figuring these out, but almost everything I've thought of falls under this category:
Treats self and others with respect
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My number one rule in any relationship is to never expect something Im not willing to give.
but non-negotioable things Respecting and trusting each other Having that certain sumtin' sumtin' connection. Sharing a sense of humor is also very important. They wouldnt have to share all my interests and I dont expect to share all of theirs, but they would have to be accepting and propbably try to take part in them a little and I would do the same for them. |
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1. my finances are just that MINE ~ 2. lies ~ not allowed ~ I 'll end it right there and then ~ 3. no physical violence ~
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