Singles - Page 408

TimilDeeps · 03-10-2012, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Countyfem

These folks do sound very awesome and amazing don't they!

I'm a year out of a 14 year relationship (well technically two as the last year we cohabitated we had gone into room-mate mode) so just now putting my toes back into the dating pool. Most of the singles here live quite aways from me and I'm not sure if a LDR would work for me. I know reading other threads that people have made it work for them, and Zimmeh I see you gave it a try.

How do the rest of you feel about LDR's?

Oh by the way hope everyone has a great weekend! The weather here is just beautiful today!

Been in one and it worked. It did end but not because of the distance. Whether someone lives down the road; or across the country, it really does depend on the people involved in the relationship.

Few more weeks and I'll be enjoying that beautiful weather!

Silverseastar · 03-10-2012, 11:59 AM

I also live far away from most up here in Canuckistan (aka Western Canada).

I have done long distance but never met anyone from here. I mostly just like to share with folks who know how it feels in this place in life.

BoDy*ShOt · 03-10-2012, 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne

...Knowing I can be independent and not co-dependent...

This is why I ended my last relationship. I felt like I had hopped onto that co-dependency hamster wheel,again.. and one day I looked at her and said that I wanted to move out.. I need to know I can make it on my own.. I need to know that the changes I'm making in me are for me and not for someone else b/c that's how she/he wants me to be.

So. Re-finding & re-learning the Independent me, here I come.. Olly, Olly Oxen Free!

Leigh · 03-10-2012, 02:49 PM

Just came to say ho to everyone, hope your all having a wonderful weekend

ruthie14 · 03-10-2012, 02:53 PM

Hello singles.... seems like I'm back in the saddle and single again.

I lost a good friend on valentines day. I loved her very much! She was one of the best women I have ever met! Funny, humble and could tell you stories of the "old days" like no one else. I will miss her greatly!

On a happier note, I had a great rehearsal this morning and tomorrow's concert should be quite a show. Gonna be a LOT of fun!

Hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend.

Ruthie

ruthie14 · 03-10-2012, 08:01 PM

Here is a link to one of the songs we will be singing tomorrow night. This is the same group of folks a few years ago... the opera students are different however.

[nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gedd37GEbrY"]It is finished - YouTube[/nomedia]

Enjoy!
Ruthie

Gemme · 03-11-2012, 12:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Countyfem

These folks do sound very awesome and amazing don't they!

I'm a year out of a 14 year relationship (well technically two as the last year we cohabitated we had gone into room-mate mode) so just now putting my toes back into the dating pool. Most of the singles here live quite aways from me and I'm not sure if a LDR would work for me. I know reading other threads that people have made it work for them, and Zimmeh I see you gave it a try.

How do the rest of you feel about LDR's?

Oh by the way hope everyone has a great weekend! The weather here is just beautiful today!

I've been in a couple and, as Timil said, the longevity of the relationships had nothing to do with the distance although, honestly, dating local is so much easier (unless you break up). Basically, it is what you make of it.

I'm recently out of a relationship that initially started long distance but quickly moved to a local thing, so we didn't have much of the stressors that came with LDRs.

Some of the perks of LDRs:

receiving packages in the mail

phone sex

Skype/webcam (you can control the lighting if you are having a bad hair day, etc)

the 'knowing' that someone, somewhere is thinking about you and thinks you are important

BoDy*ShOt · 03-11-2012, 08:59 AM

good morning, good morning!

I am single, hear me roar! (-;

ferret · 03-11-2012, 03:15 PM

I've found it really hard to find any single lesbians in Kentucky, so I wouldn't necessarily be opposed to an LDR. For all I know, the "one" could be down the road from me or in another state. I suppose if that person was a 2-4 hour drive instead of a 7 hour drive would be a little more do-able, but who knows. I'm pretty much open to anything at this point.

Sue

sarahwho · 03-11-2012, 07:47 PM

Just stopped in to say hi! This daylight savings switch has me so

that I can't keep my eyes open. Off to bed for me!

cuddlyfemme · 03-12-2012, 04:07 AM

Good Morning Singles!!!! I hope everyone has a wonderful day. Its supposed to be beautiful in SC
Gemme, I like your thoughts on being in an LDR

flirtyokie · 03-12-2012, 04:32 AM

Being in Oklahoma, odds are I'll end up in an LDR. That's fine by me though, the possibility of moving away from here again sometime is appealing to me anyway.

The worst downside is if you get insecure. You wonder what they are doing or if they feel the same way.

The upside is it can keep you from moving too fast and you get so much time to really just talk instead of making out all the time. If you live really far apart, you get to have fun adventures meeting in between.

cuddlyfemme · 03-12-2012, 04:37 AM

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Originally Posted by flirtyokie

Being in Oklahoma, odds are I'll end up in an LDR. That's fine by me though, the possibility of moving away from here again sometime is appealing to me anyway.

The worst downside is if you get insecure. You wonder what they are doing or if they feel the same way.

The upside is it can keep you from moving too fast and you get so much time to really just talk instead of making out all the time. If you live really far apart, you get to have fun adventures meeting in between.

I know what you mean. Living in SC, my only hope is an LDR also

Countyfem · 03-12-2012, 09:25 AM

Good morning singles

Well lets just say I would give a LDR a chance, I'm one of those one-on-one type...if I'm interested then my focus will be on you. I have always been this way.

cuddlyfemme you should meet us down in Savanna next sat for St Pats day,
Should be a lot of fun!

cuddlyfemme · 03-12-2012, 09:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Countyfem

Good morning singles

Well lets just say I would give a LDR a chance, I'm one of those one-on-one type...if I'm interested then my focus will be on you. I have always been this way.

cuddlyfemme you should meet us down in Savanna next sat for St Pats day,
Should be a lot of fun!

Good Morning Countyfem Like, you, if I'm interested I'll focus 100% on the Butch....there just doesn't seem to be any Butches in SC
The St Pats Day get together sounds fun! Will message you

Sunny · 03-15-2012, 02:52 AM

How the heck is everyone?????? We have had some beauuuutifullll weather here. I have been very busy with my Dad. He is finally showing his age. It is a tough thing to watch your parents age. It is a circle.
Soooo what has everyone been up to? I see LDR's are a toppic. I think they can work. It all depends on the people involved. It always seems the ones you are interested in are far, far away......

Have a great Day!!! Yeah I cannot sleep again!!!!!!! I think I am turning into a Vampire LOL Sleep during the day and up at night.

ruthie14 · 03-15-2012, 04:31 AM

Morning Singles! Hope you all have a wonderful day! Friday is in sight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Heavenleahangel · 03-15-2012, 06:43 AM

Good Morning, Everyone! I hope you are having a fantastic week and are enjoying getting ready for spring. We have had amazing weather here in the great upstate NY region. We may even hit 80* by the middle of next week! I already got my pedicure for sandal weather!

luv2luvgirls · 03-15-2012, 07:11 AM

Good Morn fellow singles

I have really enjoyed reading all of your comments on LDR's
I never had a problem with an LDR,of course who wouldnt want close,but w/ an ldr I can go slow and really get to know the person and vise versa.That appealed to me, I am not so sure now.. but being another one of the butches in KY,there is not tons of choices to meet single femmes. Where I am at I need to travel the least 2 hrs for a gay club

well another great sunny day! hope everyone has a great day

Zimmeh · 03-15-2012, 07:12 AM

Good Morning Everyone,

It has been awhile since I've posted in here. I've been working like a mad hatter and I've been dating someone.

Have a great day and even though I'm no longer single, I will continue to visit!

Zimmeh

03-11-2012, 08:59 AM	#8148
BoDyShOt Member How Do You Identify?: Queer. Femme. Preferred Pronoun?: girl ones Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Twin Cities Posts: 1,020 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,460 Thanked 2,096 Times in 532 Posts Rep Power*: 21474852	good morning, good morning! I am single, hear me roar! (-; __________________ ...not your average betty.

03-11-2012, 07:47 PM	#8150
sarahwho Member How Do You Identify?: lonely femme.... Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single - I quit Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Ohio Posts: 232 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 80 Thanked 156 Times in 72 Posts Rep Power: 2722344	Just stopped in to say hi! This daylight savings switch has me so that I can't keep my eyes open. Off to bed for me! __________________ You will find a girl prettier than me, smarter than me, and funnier than me, but you will never find a girl just like me.

03-15-2012, 02:52 AM	#8156
Sunny Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: New Jersey Posts: 423 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 396 Thanked 745 Times in 283 Posts Rep Power: 6521616	Howdy How the heck is everyone?????? We have had some beauuuutifullll weather here. I have been very busy with my Dad. He is finally showing his age. It is a tough thing to watch your parents age. It is a circle. Soooo what has everyone been up to? I see LDR's are a toppic. I think they can work. It all depends on the people involved. It always seems the ones you are interested in are far, far away...... Have a great Day!!! Yeah I cannot sleep again!!!!!!! I think I am turning into a Vampire LOL Sleep during the day and up at night. __________________ Sunny

03-15-2012, 06:43 AM	#8158
Heavenleahangel Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Femme; Earth bound Angel and Babygirl; Preferred Pronoun?: She, Angel, as long as it's respectful Relationship Status: Waiting for the One who can complete me Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Albany, NY~but originally from Georgia Posts: 562 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,257 Thanked 2,069 Times in 468 Posts Rep Power: 18675552	Good Morning, Everyone! I hope you are having a fantastic week and are enjoying getting ready for spring. We have had amazing weather here in the great upstate NY region. We may even hit 80* by the middle of next week! I already got my pedicure for sandal weather! __________________ Sweet Georgia Peach

03-15-2012, 07:12 AM	#8160
Zimmeh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Me Relationship Status: I am a human and not a possession Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Volusia County, FL Posts: 6,746 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 23,549 Thanked 13,441 Times in 4,316 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Good Morning Everyone, It has been awhile since I've posted in here. I've been working like a mad hatter and I've been dating someone. Have a great day and even though I'm no longer single, I will continue to visit! Zimmeh __________________ "A loving heart is the truest wisdom" -Chinua Achebe

03-10-2012, 11:59 AM	#8142
Silverseastar Member How Do You Identify?: femme, submissive, girl Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Singular Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Vancouver BC Posts: 133 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 348 Thanked 492 Times in 107 Posts Rep Power: 3095522	I also live far away from most up here in Canuckistan (aka Western Canada). I have done long distance but never met anyone from here. I mostly just like to share with folks who know how it feels in this place in life.

03-10-2012, 02:49 PM	#8144
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Just came to say ho to everyone, hope your all having a wonderful weekend

03-10-2012, 02:53 PM	#8145
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Hello singles.... seems like I'm back in the saddle and single again. I lost a good friend on valentines day. I loved her very much! She was one of the best women I have ever met! Funny, humble and could tell you stories of the "old days" like no one else. I will miss her greatly! On a happier note, I had a great rehearsal this morning and tomorrow's concert should be quite a show. Gonna be a LOT of fun! Hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend. Ruthie

03-10-2012, 08:01 PM	#8146
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Here is a link to one of the songs we will be singing tomorrow night. This is the same group of folks a few years ago... the opera students are different however. [nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gedd37GEbrY"]It is finished - YouTube[/nomedia] Enjoy! Ruthie

03-11-2012, 03:15 PM	#8149
ferret Member How Do You Identify?: As myself. Preferred Pronoun?: Female ones. Relationship Status: Timed out. Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: US Posts: 332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 19 Thanked 887 Times in 277 Posts Rep Power: 5468778	I've found it really hard to find any single lesbians in Kentucky, so I wouldn't necessarily be opposed to an LDR. For all I know, the "one" could be down the road from me or in another state. I suppose if that person was a 2-4 hour drive instead of a 7 hour drive would be a little more do-able, but who knows. I'm pretty much open to anything at this point. Sue

03-12-2012, 04:07 AM	#8151
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496121	Good Morning Singles!!!! I hope everyone has a wonderful day. Its supposed to be beautiful in SC Gemme, I like your thoughts on being in an LDR

03-12-2012, 04:32 AM	#8152
flirtyokie Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Mademoiselle Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: The windy, windy prairie! Posts: 41 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 43 Thanked 104 Times in 23 Posts Rep Power: 859007	Being in Oklahoma, odds are I'll end up in an LDR. That's fine by me though, the possibility of moving away from here again sometime is appealing to me anyway. The worst downside is if you get insecure. You wonder what they are doing or if they feel the same way. The upside is it can keep you from moving too fast and you get so much time to really just talk instead of making out all the time. If you live really far apart, you get to have fun adventures meeting in between.

03-12-2012, 09:25 AM	#8154
Countyfem Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: NC Posts: 244 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 469 Thanked 932 Times in 211 Posts Rep Power: 9455031	Good morning singles Well lets just say I would give a LDR a chance, I'm one of those one-on-one type...if I'm interested then my focus will be on you. I have always been this way. cuddlyfemme you should meet us down in Savanna next sat for St Pats day, Should be a lot of fun!

03-15-2012, 04:31 AM	#8157
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Morning Singles! Hope you all have a wonderful day! Friday is in sight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

03-15-2012, 07:11 AM	#8159
luv2luvgirls Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Asshole Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Kentucky/Austin/Wherever Posts: 2,310 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,387 Thanked 5,470 Times in 1,827 Posts Rep Power: 0	Good Morn fellow singles I have really enjoyed reading all of your comments on LDR's I never had a problem with an LDR,of course who wouldnt want close,but w/ an ldr I can go slow and really get to know the person and vise versa.That appealed to me, I am not so sure now.. but being another one of the butches in KY,there is not tons of choices to meet single femmes. Where I am at I need to travel the least 2 hrs for a gay club well another great sunny day! hope everyone has a great day