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09-19-2010, 11:40 AM | #61 | |
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I think the OP should try the greyhound station. No exaggeration, but I've met several Butches at greyhound stations. I don't know what that's all about. The cutest one EVER was in Detroit - but I was attached at the time so I just chatted and smoked and left. Seriously. Greyhound.
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And awayyyyy we go ...
Seriously, you wouldn't find me or SOME other butches at the mall. Just saying. Then again, unlike the other posts, I haven't any other real useful suggestions Perhaps a concert or other musical event. A dance? Then again, library? Lol. I have a few butch friends who are librarians, if you like that stereotype. Lol. Why limit yourself to one location? If you persist, as was suggested on the first page, you'll do fine. |
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gawd..... im such a dork sometimes..........
Caustic. welcome to the Planet...... lol ..... this is a very good topic for alot of us girls here... ty
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09-19-2010, 12:07 PM | #65 |
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what wax said. you can't limit yourself to one specific place. you kind of have to put yourself out a little more. if you live in a large lgbt community check for local events coming your way.
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You would find ME at the mall, jus sayin'
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uses a barber..
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Hmmmmm.....lots of great advice....a few slams......a comment about my name.....and some heated discussion......wow......and I just had a simple question.....no fear friends...I FEAR no one and dont run away from opinions or opinionated people.....its all good.....we are all here for the same thing.....friendship...comraderie....support.....a nswers......and if one is really lucky....LOVE......
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All princess and non-princess types are looked at...sometimes stared at... I don't remember who said it because I am not good at quoting, but it is true the more you put yourself out there, the better chances you will have...the worst anyone can do is say no (that goes for all of us, butch and femme). It is interesting tho that a lot of us are very flirty in here and not so much in person...so establishing a connection in here is one way to go about possibly more, and if it doesn't work out I bet you get some pretty great friends from it. You'll be surprised how much you learn about a person when you actually "have to" talk to them...lol *teasing, sarcasm* Have a gret Sunday, what's left of it...& good Luck!
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.... very good post.. T ......
btw........ I think your tractor is sexy... hehehe
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And just so we're clear - I wasn't kidding about Greyhound stations. They're a fucking GOLDMINE.
But, really. I find if you want to meet people in general, you go to where your type of person would normally hang out. Like 'em smart? Start lurking around independent bookstores. Like 'em pretentious? Start lurking around coffee shops (not starbucks). Like 'em nerdy? Start lurking around comic book stores. Like 'em to completely forget you exist for weeks at a time? Start lurking around video game stores. And GO TO THE BAR. That's the whole reason that queer bars exist. So we have somewhere to drink, dance, and meet other queers. And if dance clubs are too loud/obnoxious/meat markety for you (and, believe me I understand that. oy)...it doesn't have to be a dance club. You said where you live has a pretty big community - so USE that community. I'm sure there has got to be at least one sit-down Dyke bar - go there and sit down. Does your city or a nearby city have a gayborhood? Yes? GO THERE. Walk around. Get a latte and read a book. Pet strange people's dogs. Say hello to strangers. SMILE. Stare back. Edit!!! Get in touch with your nearest LGBTI centre. Sign up for some stuff - I bet they have stuff. Take a self-defense class for Queer Women. Volunteer for Queer events. Go to book launches. See live bands. Participate in protests. Eat alone at sidewalk cafes. Just GET OUTSIDE.
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You are here, and you did not run away, but have remained to even honor those of us, who might not have honored you in such a way. We are all here for the same reason, Princess (not feeling you are so Caustic). Welcome to the Planet and I look forward to reading some more of your words, and I wish for you - that in this massive world of ours, you are so blessed with finding that one special love in your life. Julie (Caustic Yesterday - Still a bit today).
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Awww...Julie....THANK YOU.......HUGE HUGZ......I can be TRULY Caustic...hence the name.....but no reason here.....everyone has bad days....good days.. long days and absolutely glorious days......and they all come and go....I just roll with the punches (when I can)...I took NO OFFENSE to your words.....Its all good darlin......
I am a Princess...a Diva....but with a WICKED tough skin....and a bit of a big ego ...LOL.....So lets have some coffee and solve all the worlds problems !!! K |
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How bout some tea...(or T )lol
Sorry...that is my mood today... so great that you just put it out there and made the rest of us think.. I really like actually having to think about a topic and in the process put myself out there for whatever comes to be...("caustic" or not...sometimes it is a friendly reminder to get burnt) Have a Great Week!! & Welcome again!
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I agree! When you exude -insert feeling here (happy, excited, fun, etc)- energy, I believe you attract like-minded energry
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I am new to the butch/femme dynamic. A good friend asked me one time how do you queer yourself? He was asking when I am not with my partner how do I communicate to the world at large that I am queer? I thought this was an excellent question. I am still working out how that works for me. I guess what I am saying is that if you queer yourself in general then butches will see you too!!!
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i suggest the greatest femme weapon of all time...
eye contact... and a smile... even here... in text.... it still works... i guess i should add....if you look at me... and i notice... (i own a bit of a 2x4 mentality...) if you look at me and smile and then put yourself into my space sometime... even as thick as i can be i will still see the writing on the wall.... in my case after i figure it out i will do the rest... others... you may actually have to talk to... |
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This helps........
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