How did you find ButchFemmePlanet ??? - Page 11

princessbelle · 08-24-2012, 02:49 PM

Hominid · 09-05-2012, 07:19 PM

I've been wandering around, thinking something must have filled the void left over - the other place was so active at one time. Tonight, just trolling and googled "butch femme" and it came up. So many other dead places popped up it took a while, but when I started looking at names I realized this was it. Really enjoying the smack of familiarity, better design, and friendliness.

lusciouskiwi · 09-05-2012, 08:30 PM

From Live Journal. Can't even remember where the link was ...

moonwitch · 09-18-2012, 10:31 AM

I did a google search and I am so glad I did. Seems like a great place to call Home. Looking forward to meeting new people and making new friends.

Tony · 09-18-2012, 06:17 PM

I belong to 2 other sites that are not butch femme sites but was told by several people I would find acceptance here. So....here I be.
Even tho I may come off as brash, sexist and a bit of an ass, I'm really not. Ok, I am an ass. Lol. But I'm learning. Reading threads. Treading lightly so as not to offend with my twisted sense of humor & unfiltered mouth.
I will say that the sense of community & commarraderie (sp) that I see here is heart warming. I hope to fit in somewhere. ;-)

Countyfem · 09-18-2012, 06:59 PM

I think it found me

tazz · 09-18-2012, 07:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tony

I belong to 2 other sites that are not butch femme sites but was told by several people I would find acceptance here. So....here I be.
Even tho I may come off as brash, sexist and a bit of an ass, I'm really not. Ok, I am an ass. Lol. But I'm learning. Reading threads. Treading lightly so as not to offend with my twisted sense of humor & unfiltered mouth.
I will say that the sense of community & commarraderie (sp) that I see here is heart warming. I hope to fit in somewhere. ;-)

***you already do

DanieClarke · 10-07-2012, 09:05 AM

Anyway i have a small 6 acre farm surrounded by mostly large amish and mennonite farms in central Pa along the appalchia Mountains.

I am seeking someone who is rough and ready and able to live rustically.

That means i have chamber pots and outhouses and barns and no indoor plumbing except for a hand pump in the basement which pumps springwater yr round.

I think an older FTM might really enjoy sharing this place with me.. Oh yea i am in my late 50's and caregiving my 89 yr old mom here. They too should be older and respectful of the local amish and mennonites.

I happen to be a celibate and single for the last 14 yrs so i am hoping to find the same.

Oh i can't deal with a couple as that dynamic is too much for me and mom.

Right now we sleep in the livingroom as mom can't make it up the steps and the wood heater in the livingroom needs to be filled every few hours all winter long.

Oh i am a 14 yr post op MTF living mostly androgynously as most who don't know me think i am a FTM which suits me fine..

PS: No smokers or drugs or lazy people

Tony · 10-07-2012, 09:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tazz

***you already do

Thanks Tazz. I'm working on it. There are a lot of good people here. Now I just need to find more time in my day so me, my thumb & my stupid smart phone can interact here more.

Sachita · 10-07-2012, 02:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DanieClarke

Oh i was told about this place by a Tamara who saw my ad at rodale institute which is for people who like to farm http://www.rodaleinstitute.org/classifieds

Anyway i have a small 6 acre farm surrounded by mostly large amish and mennonite farms in central Pa along the appalchia Mountains.

I am seeking someone who is rough and ready and able to live rustically.

That means i have chamber pots and outhouses and barns and no indoor plumbing except for a hand pump in the basement which pumps springwater yr round.

I think an older FTM might really enjoy sharing this place with me.. Oh yea i am in my late 50's and caregiving my 89 yr old mom here. They too should be older and respectful of the local amish and mennonites.

I happen to be a celibate and single for the last 14 yrs so i am hoping to find the same.

Oh i can't deal with a couple as that dynamic is too much for me and mom.

Right now we sleep in the livingroom as mom can't make it up the steps and the wood heater in the livingroom needs to be filled every few hours all winter long.

You can see my rustic place (with over 170 pictures) here at my site http://directory.ic.org/22661/Centra..._minded_people

Oh i am a 14 yr post op MTF living mostly androgynously as most who don't know me think i am a FTM which suits me fine..

PS: No smokers or drugs or lazy people

Tamara that would be me! I'm so glad you made it!

izshadow · 10-07-2012, 08:54 PM

Facebook when I was typing in the butch/femme, transgender pages.....

Samurai Wanderer · 10-28-2012, 11:55 PM

I googled "butch femme" and the results gave me about 3 potential communities. This one, another one that seemed semi-active but dated, and a mailing list that seems inactive or I have trouble joining.

I got googling after having read this article:
Female masculinity and shame amongst lesbians, by Jessica Gird

I'm really liking BF Planet so far, and why would anyone wanna go anywhere else, right? In the bigger picture though, I hope eventually BFers will have more presence elsewhere as a greater community, with more hangout places like other more established LGBT groups out there.

takehimaway · 12-09-2012, 06:24 PM

A friend of my lady told us about it. It's kinda interesting so far.

PrincessMindy · 12-12-2012, 06:12 AM

Good morning! I am new here. I found my way to BFP because of my new friend Phyl.

Duchess · 12-12-2012, 07:06 AM

Emails from friends.

Amber2010 · 12-12-2012, 10:57 AM

By Best Friend is on here and told me about it.

ShanaGemini · 12-17-2012, 03:14 PM

I was searching Butch/Femme online and found it.

Shana Segat
Femme Gemini in Kansas City

Chelsius · 01-27-2013, 01:00 PM

I heard about this website in a different chatroom.

JinxieB · 01-30-2013, 04:58 PM

in a last ditch effort to find others...

I had been googling and binging for 2 days and I was sick of it but thought I'd give it one last try...and low and behold this was the first site on the page that looked far too interesting intriguing to pass up

maryam · 01-30-2013, 07:04 PM

Recommendation of a friend. I got the wrong site at first, but then she told me I was in the wrong spot.

08-24-2012, 02:49 PM	#201
princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,503 Times in 5,201 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	__________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

09-05-2012, 08:30 PM	#203
lusciouskiwi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme lesbian feminist Preferred Pronoun?: Anything except for "aunty" Relationship Status: Happy with my butch. Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Aotearoa New Zealand Posts: 2,681 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 25,494 Thanked 9,096 Times in 1,899 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	From Live Journal. Can't even remember where the link was ... __________________ happiness is a form of courage. George Holbrook Jackson Risk! Risk anything! Care no more for the opinions of others, for those voices. Do the hardest thing on earth for you. Act for yourself. Face the truth. Katherine Mansfield Motivate yourself or be miserable. Whatever has to be done, it's always your choice. Wayne Dyer

09-18-2012, 06:17 PM	#205
Tony Member How Do You Identify?: All Man (FTM if I must have a label) Preferred Pronoun?: Male ones Relationship Status: She's my Southern Comfort Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Midwest Posts: 412 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 569 Thanked 1,241 Times in 326 Posts Rep Power: 18460389	I belong to 2 other sites that are not butch femme sites but was told by several people I would find acceptance here. So....here I be. Even tho I may come off as brash, sexist and a bit of an ass, I'm really not. Ok, I am an ass. Lol. But I'm learning. Reading threads. Treading lightly so as not to offend with my twisted sense of humor & unfiltered mouth. I will say that the sense of community & commarraderie (sp) that I see here is heart warming. I hope to fit in somewhere. ;-) __________________ Words are what we hear; they allow the heart to believe what it wants to believe. But actions, actions show us the real truth of what we need to believe.

10-07-2012, 09:05 AM	#208
DanieClarke Timed Out How Do You Identify?: 14 yrs post op Preferred Pronoun?: Hey you Relationship Status: single Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: central pa Posts: 35 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5 Thanked 53 Times in 23 Posts Rep Power: 0	TAMARA TOLD ME Anyway i have a small 6 acre farm surrounded by mostly large amish and mennonite farms in central Pa along the appalchia Mountains. I am seeking someone who is rough and ready and able to live rustically. That means i have chamber pots and outhouses and barns and no indoor plumbing except for a hand pump in the basement which pumps springwater yr round. I think an older FTM might really enjoy sharing this place with me.. Oh yea i am in my late 50's and caregiving my 89 yr old mom here. They too should be older and respectful of the local amish and mennonites. I happen to be a celibate and single for the last 14 yrs so i am hoping to find the same. Oh i can't deal with a couple as that dynamic is too much for me and mom. Right now we sleep in the livingroom as mom can't make it up the steps and the wood heater in the livingroom needs to be filled every few hours all winter long. Oh i am a 14 yr post op MTF living mostly androgynously as most who don't know me think i am a FTM which suits me fine.. PS: No smokers or drugs or lazy people Last edited by nycfem; 10-08-2012 at 07:52 AM.

12-09-2012, 06:24 PM	#213
takehimaway Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Boy. Preferred Pronoun?: He, please. Relationship Status: Polyamorous. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: Portland, Oregon Posts: 64 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21 Thanked 73 Times in 29 Posts Rep Power: 1003660	A friend of my lady told us about it. It's kinda interesting so far. __________________ A memory hits you right out of the blue - that's just me, thinking of you.

09-05-2012, 07:19 PM	#202
Hominid Member How Do You Identify?: Male with interesting historical perspective Relationship Status: Taking Applications Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: In perpetual Wonder. And Western Mass. Posts: 254 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 417 Thanked 753 Times in 188 Posts Rep Power: 11507406	I've been wandering around, thinking something must have filled the void left over - the other place was so active at one time. Tonight, just trolling and googled "butch femme" and it came up. So many other dead places popped up it took a while, but when I started looking at names I realized this was it. Really enjoying the smack of familiarity, better design, and friendliness.

09-18-2012, 10:31 AM	#204
moonwitch Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Texas Posts: 5 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 49 Thanked 15 Times in 3 Posts Rep Power: 0	I did a google search and I am so glad I did. Seems like a great place to call Home. Looking forward to meeting new people and making new friends.

09-18-2012, 06:59 PM	#206
Countyfem Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: NC Posts: 244 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 469 Thanked 932 Times in 211 Posts Rep Power: 9455031	I think it found me

10-07-2012, 08:54 PM	#211
izshadow Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Saint Petersburg, Florida Posts: 2 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 6 Times in 2 Posts Rep Power: 0	Facebook when I was typing in the butch/femme, transgender pages.....

10-28-2012, 11:55 PM	#212
Samurai Wanderer Member How Do You Identify?: It's cool! Preferred Pronoun?: Cooky Relationship Status: In love Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Downunder Posts: 109 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 113 Thanked 415 Times in 72 Posts Rep Power: 5028123	I googled "butch femme" and the results gave me about 3 potential communities. This one, another one that seemed semi-active but dated, and a mailing list that seems inactive or I have trouble joining. I got googling after having read this article: Female masculinity and shame amongst lesbians, by Jessica Gird I'm really liking BF Planet so far, and why would anyone wanna go anywhere else, right? In the bigger picture though, I hope eventually BFers will have more presence elsewhere as a greater community, with more hangout places like other more established LGBT groups out there.

12-12-2012, 06:12 AM	#214
PrincessMindy Junior Member How Do You Identify?: n/a Relationship Status: n/a Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: n/a Posts: 6 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18 Thanked 18 Times in 6 Posts Rep Power: 0	Good morning! I am new here. I found my way to BFP because of my new friend Phyl.

12-12-2012, 07:06 AM	#215
Duchess Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Absolute Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Toe curling :-) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atlanta Posts: 2,382 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,792 Thanked 5,591 Times in 1,521 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	*Emails from friends.* __________________ *無料のライブ*

12-12-2012, 10:57 AM	#216
Amber2010 Member How Do You Identify?: Happy, Crazy, Bubbly, Funny, Strong, Outgoing, Friendly Preferred Pronoun?: Femme Relationship Status: Complicated Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 920 Thanked 594 Times in 154 Posts Rep Power: 3787183	By Best Friend is on here and told me about it.

12-17-2012, 03:14 PM	#217
ShanaGemini Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme, Sub Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: Olathe, KS.....Kansas City Metro area Posts: 5 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 11 Times in 4 Posts Rep Power: 0	I was searching Butch/Femme online and found it. Shana Segat Femme Gemini in Kansas City

01-27-2013, 01:00 PM	#218
Chelsius Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Queerdo Lady Unit Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: WI Posts: 76 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 33 Thanked 201 Times in 65 Posts Rep Power: 978930	I heard about this website in a different chatroom.

01-30-2013, 04:58 PM	#219
JinxieB Junior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian...soft butch Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: married Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 70 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 254 Thanked 242 Times in 60 Posts Rep Power: 2792217	in a last ditch effort to find others... I had been googling and binging for 2 days and I was sick of it but thought I'd give it one last try...and low and behold this was the first site on the page that looked far too interesting intriguing to pass up

01-30-2013, 07:04 PM	#220
maryam Member How Do You Identify?: femme-ish Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: taken Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: somewhere, out there.... Posts: 263 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 675 Thanked 795 Times in 231 Posts Rep Power: 4979163	Recommendation of a friend. I got the wrong site at first, but then she told me I was in the wrong spot.