Singles - Page 465

Leigh · 04-29-2014, 09:04 PM

just thought I'd say hi to everyone :-)

Kimpooh · 05-10-2014, 10:51 PM

Single in Cali & don't want to be! Single that is... Anyone in the SF Bay Area, more specifically, the east bay? I seem to be most attracted to masculine quality butch/stud/boi, types but anything is possible & besides, who can't always use more friends right? So PM me if you would like to chat!! Btw... I'm 46 if that matters....
Have a great day all!!

SoSousMe · 05-11-2014, 12:38 AM

Recently single... in San Antonio... not single by choice. Not looking for anything... just friends.
Have only lived in San Antonio for a year now, moved from My hometown, followed My girl out here, we fell apart after we moved here.
Bummer. I still love her deeply, but she's not happy anymore, so I guess I'll cool My jets for a while.

Leigh · 05-11-2014, 09:06 AM

I'm very sorry to hear this SSM - sometimes things fall apart and it's hard when we truly care about someone. Keep that chin up, smile through the pain and if you need a friend I've been told I'm a pretty good one :-)

TheLoneStranger · 06-16-2014, 03:39 PM

My single self has not been around much...so hello to all the singles.

TIMBERWOLF · 06-17-2014, 10:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Heavenleahangel

Popping in to say "Hello" to all the single peeps and re-introduce myself to the newbies.
I am a 44 year old femme with an adopted son who is almost 7 and a new baby girl on the way this August! I am super excited! I live in Upstate, NY-which happens to be the ONLY area of the WORLD that has little or no butch/stone/TG presence. Story of my life. Always in the wrong place.
I've been away from the Planet far too long and I hope to come back and make new acquaintances and maybe~just maybe meet someone to complete our little family!

Hey Lady!! How are you? See you been traveling around LOL kinda like me. Im up in Concord NY now living and watching my grandkids grow.

JustLovelyJenn · 06-17-2014, 08:01 PM

Us singles really should be mingling a little more!!! How are you all?

Fantastic here in the Evergreen State, and ready to start my summer adventures.

Barb42 · 06-19-2014, 12:51 AM

Ur right Jenn we do need to mingle more around here..

Just hanging out in Indiana

fever · 06-19-2014, 01:48 AM

Hello everyone! I am tired of being everyone's "friend". Maybe we should discuss approach and how to meet single folks on this site.

Should femmes approach the butches?

If a femme writes to a butch, is she seen as desperate?

If a femme talks to a butch first in chat, and asks where he lives, etc., is she seen as aggressive?

So far, trying to be polite and let the butch make the first move isn't working for a lot of us, so, we need a new approach obviously.

sick of sleeping alone,
Candice

JustLovelyJenn · 06-19-2014, 04:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fever

Hello everyone! I am tired of being everyone's "friend". Maybe we should discuss approach and how to meet single folks on this site.

Should femmes approach the butches?

If a femme writes to a butch, is she seen as desperate?

If a femme talks to a butch first in chat, and asks where he lives, etc., is she seen as aggressive?

So far, trying to be polite and let the butch make the first move isn't working for a lot of us, so, we need a new approach obviously.

sick of sleeping alone,
Candice

Fever,

Good questions! Thanks for starting some conversation.

For me, I feel that if I like someone, I should be able to make it known. Even if that means me approaching them. I am a confident and independent woman, in all parts of my life. So, if me talking to them first makes them uncomfortable, maybe its not a good fit.

BUT, that being said. I still get shy when I meet new people most of the time. I am not sure what to say, or how to start.

Right now, I am trying to concentrate on getting to know a lot of new people. Having real conversations, making friends, and hoping that one of those amazing friendships will highlight deeper possibilities.

skeeter_01 · 06-19-2014, 04:59 PM

I'm up for a single mingle.

Barb42 · 06-19-2014, 08:05 PM

Wondering if anyone was around tonight.. Im bored

Barb42 · 06-20-2014, 06:57 PM

Its friday night.. Whats everybody doing.. Im sitting around a bonfire drinking cold bud light & hanging out with friends ... Hope everyone has a great evenung

WildHorses · 06-20-2014, 07:01 PM

I am hanging out at my desk as usual.

JustLovelyJenn · 06-20-2014, 07:27 PM

Cleaning out my storage room, getting things together... going to have a yard sale tomorrow.

homoe · 06-20-2014, 07:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fever

Hello everyone! I am tired of being everyone's "friend". Maybe we should discuss approach and how to meet single folks on this site.

Should femmes approach the butches?

If a femme writes to a butch, is she seen as desperate?

If a femme talks to a butch first in chat, and asks where he lives, etc., is she seen as aggressive?

So far, trying to be polite and let the butch make the first move isn't working for a lot of us, so, we need a new approach obviously.

sick of sleeping alone,
Candice

I love for femmes to make the first move! Words like aggressive and desperate would never enter my mind from anyone showing an interest in me. I would have to add that I'm a 2x4 butch tho and I don't get 'hints'.

Charmingbutch21 · 06-21-2014, 08:36 AM

Yep, single and no baggage. I've been on "restriction" from women for a while, lol. Now I'm ready to mingle again.

Anybody here from the Deep South?

-cb

TheLoneStranger · 06-21-2014, 05:29 PM

Hello singles... I've been single for some time and have had the pleasure of talking with a few women here and there. I feel like I have hit a wall relationship wise. I realized this has left me with not having much to say these days. I do apologize. So hello is about all there is for now it seems.

God bless you all.

Mormegil · 06-21-2014, 07:05 PM

I'm not very good at this kinda thing since I'm a shy nerd and introvert but uh.... hi there...play any xbox lately? lol

TheLoneStranger · 06-30-2014, 03:08 PM

Hello to all that wander these halls.

04-29-2014, 09:04 PM	#9281
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	just thought I'd say hi to everyone :-) __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

05-10-2014, 10:51 PM	#9282
Kimpooh Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian, just me ;-) Preferred Pronoun?: She... Her... Baby... Babe... ;-) Relationship Status: Single Join Date: May 2014 Location: SF Bay Area Posts: 11 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 24 Thanked 27 Times in 8 Posts Rep Power: 246926	Single in Cali & don't want to be! Single that is... Anyone in the SF Bay Area, more specifically, the east bay? I seem to be most attracted to masculine quality butch/stud/boi, types but anything is possible & besides, who can't always use more friends right? So PM me if you would like to chat!! Btw... I'm 46 if that matters.... Have a great day all!! __________________ <3 Pooh "If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for." Bob Marley

05-11-2014, 12:38 AM	#9283
SoSousMe Member How Do You Identify?: Gender Juxtaposed/Butch/Top/Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: Just a normal Guy Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Texas Posts: 173 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 928 Thanked 691 Times in 141 Posts Rep Power: 9968156	recently single in Texas Recently single... in San Antonio... not single by choice. Not looking for anything... just friends. Have only lived in San Antonio for a year now, moved from My hometown, followed My girl out here, we fell apart after we moved here. Bummer. I still love her deeply, but she's not happy anymore, so I guess I'll cool My jets for a while. __________________ Should You stumble... should You fall... Pick Yourself up by Your bootstraps and move along. If by chance a lady's hand appears before You, don't let Your pride hinder Your progress. Take the hand she offers, for her touch may lend the perfect amount of resistance needed to help steady You on Your feet. The honor in Dominance lies in the ability to recognize submission as a gift. I tend to delve deep within Myself.. sometimes hearing nothing more than the stir of My own soul. LQ

05-11-2014, 09:06 AM	#9284
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I'm very sorry to hear this SSM - sometimes things fall apart and it's hard when we truly care about someone. Keep that chin up, smile through the pain and if you need a friend I've been told I'm a pretty good one :-) __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

06-17-2014, 08:01 PM	#9287
JustLovelyJenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: That's Need to Know Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Aberdeen, WA Posts: 4,478 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,464 Thanked 13,995 Times in 3,685 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Us singles really should be mingling a little more!!! How are you all? Fantastic here in the Evergreen State, and ready to start my summer adventures. __________________ --Jenn

06-16-2014, 03:39 PM	#9285
TheLoneStranger Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: . Posts: 1,138 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 950 Thanked 1,091 Times in 405 Posts Rep Power: 16736486	My single self has not been around much...so hello to all the singles.

06-19-2014, 12:51 AM	#9288
Barb42 Member How Do You Identify?: Soft butch Preferred Pronoun?: whatever.. Relationship Status: SINGLE Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Indiana Posts: 226 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,215 Thanked 727 Times in 205 Posts Rep Power: 3291560	Ur right Jenn we do need to mingle more around here.. Just hanging out in Indiana __________________ Im just me thats it..

06-19-2014, 01:48 AM	#9289
fever Member How Do You Identify?: stonefemme Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near Vancouver, B.C. Canada Posts: 592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,649 Thanked 1,280 Times in 357 Posts Rep Power: 17783435	Waving from B.C. Canada Hello everyone! I am tired of being everyone's "friend". Maybe we should discuss approach and how to meet single folks on this site. Should femmes approach the butches? If a femme writes to a butch, is she seen as desperate? If a femme talks to a butch first in chat, and asks where he lives, etc., is she seen as aggressive? So far, trying to be polite and let the butch make the first move isn't working for a lot of us, so, we need a new approach obviously. sick of sleeping alone, Candice

06-19-2014, 04:59 PM	#9291
skeeter_01 Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: Hey you! Relationship Status: Sleeping single in a double bed.. Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: ann arbor, michigan Posts: 195 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 288 Thanked 477 Times in 130 Posts Rep Power: 3007275	I'm up for a single mingle. __________________ Texting while driving is a real KILLER!!! ‎"It takes hundreds of nuts to hold a car together...but it takes only one nut to scatter them all over the highway..." Jeff PARAMEDIC

06-19-2014, 08:05 PM	#9292
Barb42 Member How Do You Identify?: Soft butch Preferred Pronoun?: whatever.. Relationship Status: SINGLE Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Indiana Posts: 226 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,215 Thanked 727 Times in 205 Posts Rep Power: 3291560	Wondering if anyone was around tonight.. Im bored __________________ Im just me thats it..

06-20-2014, 06:57 PM	#9293
Barb42 Member How Do You Identify?: Soft butch Preferred Pronoun?: whatever.. Relationship Status: SINGLE Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Indiana Posts: 226 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,215 Thanked 727 Times in 205 Posts Rep Power: 3291560	Its friday night.. Its friday night.. Whats everybody doing.. Im sitting around a bonfire drinking cold bud light & hanging out with friends ... Hope everyone has a great evenung __________________ Im just me thats it..

06-20-2014, 07:01 PM	#9294
WildHorses Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch/Big Heart/Rough Edge Preferred Pronoun?: Hy, She, Hym, Whatever, it really does not matter but do NOT call me lady! Relationship Status: Crazy over Genesis! Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Northern CA Posts: 1,216 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,840 Thanked 2,425 Times in 917 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I am hanging out at my desk as usual. __________________ There's nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shoreline, no matter how many times it's sent away. Sarah Kay

06-20-2014, 07:27 PM	#9295
JustLovelyJenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: That's Need to Know Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Aberdeen, WA Posts: 4,478 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,464 Thanked 13,995 Times in 3,685 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Cleaning out my storage room, getting things together... going to have a yard sale tomorrow. __________________ --Jenn

06-21-2014, 08:36 AM	#9297
Charmingbutch21 Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: It's not a big deal for me, call it as you see it Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jun 2014 Location: Alabama Posts: 202 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 211 Thanked 397 Times in 99 Posts Rep Power: 8328033	Fresh fish Yep, single and no baggage. I've been on "restriction" from women for a while, lol. Now I'm ready to mingle again. Anybody here from the Deep South? -cb

06-21-2014, 05:29 PM	#9298
TheLoneStranger Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: . Posts: 1,138 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 950 Thanked 1,091 Times in 405 Posts Rep Power: 16736486	Hello singles... I've been single for some time and have had the pleasure of talking with a few women here and there. I feel like I have hit a wall relationship wise. I realized this has left me with not having much to say these days. I do apologize. So hello is about all there is for now it seems. God bless you all.

06-21-2014, 07:05 PM	#9299
Mormegil Junior Member How Do You Identify?: just myself Preferred Pronoun?: meh Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2014 Location: pensacola , FL Posts: 64 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31 Thanked 184 Times in 50 Posts Rep Power: 1853352	I'm not very good at this kinda thing since I'm a shy nerd and introvert but uh.... hi there...play any xbox lately? lol __________________ "All is full of love"

06-30-2014, 03:08 PM	#9300
TheLoneStranger Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: . Posts: 1,138 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 950 Thanked 1,091 Times in 405 Posts Rep Power: 16736486	Hello to all that wander these halls.