Singles - Page 468

rkim33 · 01-07-2015, 09:08 PM

Very single and very ready to mingle in NYC.

I have tried Okcupid and Dattch.... both not working all that well. We all have it pretty rough I am sure. Its only been like 4 days so..maybe I shouldnt complain haha.

Anyone living in NYC? I am trying to make friends too and will always be down to meet up after a good conversation or two.

JDeere · 01-13-2015, 11:47 PM

Hey Singles, I hope everyone is well!

Zimmeh · 01-20-2015, 06:04 AM

Good Morning Everyone! I am back to being single, and I'm not ready for a relationship. Just here to make friends and laugh.

Have a good day,

Zimmeh

imperfect_cupcake · 01-20-2015, 07:27 AM

Yeah I've tried plenty of fish and ok cupid. I have met people bit better suited on cupid than POF but it's really rare to. Maybe one every few months. Love reading people's profiles and answers to questions on cupid though. I love clutching my pearls and tutting at the shocking amount of Tory like answers from dykes.

I'd put my cupid name up here for anyone interested in A read but I've had some stalking issues so msg me for it and I'll happy fling it your way.

FemmeBibliophile · 01-20-2015, 10:05 AM

I'm single and ready for a relationship... But when I throw in the fact I have kids through adoption it does tend to throw quite a few people off... Oh well... One day my "charming" will come my way.

I've tried POF and OkCupid... OkCupid had a better selection in my mind, but when it came to match ups it wasn't what I preferred (thanks, but I'm not into other pretty femmes heh)...

imperfect_cupcake · 01-20-2015, 10:12 AM

Yeah. Neither site offers gender expression search. But I found I got better results with cupid when I selected gay and queer for sexuality rather than lesbian. The only drawback to that was that I also got a lot of feminine bisexual girls asking me if I'd like to try feminine for a change. I just ignore it. Pof I get femmine dykes asking to "titwrestle" etc (lol er, hi and yes my day is going well...).
I never get asked by butches. They usually think they aren't "butch enough" to ask. But feminine and femmes certainly think its worth a shot anyway. They tell me "hey! No harm in asking right?"

Ah if only everyone thought that...

FemmeBibliophile · 01-20-2015, 10:19 AM

I get told that I am being too "demanding" or too "bossy"... That I am expecting too much by expecting someone to "label" themselves... All because I ask that those who contact me be "either butch or FtM only please"

And for the record... WTF is titwrestling????

curlyredhead · 01-21-2015, 10:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zimmeh

Good Morning Everyone! I am back to being single, and I'm not ready for a relationship. Just here to make friends and laugh.

Have a good day,

Zimmeh

Giving Zimmeh a BIG HUG!!!

Ginger · 01-21-2015, 05:53 PM

Here I am in the singles thread.

Zimmeh, I met you at the 2012 reunion in Little Rock.

Sleepy, I met you there as well.

CurlyRedHead, I met you at a bar in Dallas. My dad dropped me off; I was visiting my parents. You were with your friend WolfSong, I think? Wolf something. I had fun hanging out with the two of you.

Don't think I've met anyone else in here, in person. So, Hi! Nice to meet you virtually.

Shystonefem · 01-21-2015, 06:51 PM

I guess I am wondering why only femmes are (really) posting here. Lol

JDeere · 01-21-2015, 06:58 PM

Howdy ladies and gents and all in between!

There are fresh homemade cookies on the table.

curlyredhead · 01-21-2015, 06:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shystonefem

I guess I am wondering why only femmes are (really) posting here. Lol

Not a fem.. Lol definitely a male

SleepyButch · 01-21-2015, 08:54 PM

Last time I checked, I wasn't a femme either. Thanks for the cookies JD!

SleepyButch · 01-21-2015, 08:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FemmeBibliophile

I get told that I am being too "demanding" or too "bossy"... That I am expecting too much by expecting someone to "label" themselves... All because I ask that those who contact me be "either butch or FtM only please"

And for the record... WTF is titwrestling????

Those are the people that are not worthy of your time. I ask for only femmes who are into the Butch/femme dynamic to contact me because I want someone who will actually understand and appreciate me for me. Don't worry about what all those other haters are saying.

SleepyButch · 01-21-2015, 10:20 PM

Sometimes I feel this way lol

C0LLETTE · 01-22-2015, 12:05 AM

JDeere · 01-22-2015, 12:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SleepyButch

Last time I checked, I wasn't a femme either. Thanks for the cookies JD!

No problem! Glad they were enjoyed.

Zimmeh · 01-22-2015, 05:05 PM

Thank you, Curly! It's much appreciated

I've missed everyone and I'm looking to see everyone again!

Zimmeh

Quote:

Originally Posted by curlyredhead

Giving Zimmeh a BIG HUG!!!

I remember you at the reunion to! I miss seeing all of my friends and I hope they are having the reunion this year! How are you doing?

Zimmeh

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ginger

Here I am in the singles thread.

Zimmeh, I met you at the 2012 reunion in Little Rock.

Sleepy, I met you there as well.

CurlyRedHead, I met you at a bar in Dallas. My dad dropped me off; I was visiting my parents. You were with your friend WolfSong, I think? Wolf something. I had fun hanging out with the two of you.

Don't think I've met anyone else in here, in person. So, Hi! Nice to meet you virtually.

JDeere · 02-08-2015, 11:24 PM

Howdy Singles, just checking in to bump up the thread!

BUMP BUMP!

Artzy76 · 03-02-2015, 07:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JDeere

Howdy Singles, just checking in to bump up the thread!

BUMP BUMP!

Thank you for the bump Tee Hee!

01-20-2015, 06:04 AM	#9343
Zimmeh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Me Relationship Status: I am a human and not a possession Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Volusia County, FL Posts: 6,746 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 23,549 Thanked 13,441 Times in 4,316 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Good Morning Everyone! I am back to being single, and I'm not ready for a relationship. Just here to make friends and laugh. Have a good day, Zimmeh __________________ "A loving heart is the truest wisdom" -Chinua Achebe

01-20-2015, 10:05 AM	#9345
FemmeBibliophile Member How Do You Identify?: i no longer do Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: null and void Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: where dreams disappear Posts: 473 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 121 Thanked 1,442 Times in 337 Posts Rep Power: 11169939	I'm single and ready for a relationship... But when I throw in the fact I have kids through adoption it does tend to throw quite a few people off... Oh well... One day my "charming" will come my way. I've tried POF and OkCupid... OkCupid had a better selection in my mind, but when it came to match ups it wasn't what I preferred (thanks, but I'm not into other pretty femmes heh)... __________________ The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you'll go. ― Dr. Seuss, I Can Read With My Eyes Shut!

01-20-2015, 10:19 AM	#9347
FemmeBibliophile Member How Do You Identify?: i no longer do Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: null and void Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: where dreams disappear Posts: 473 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 121 Thanked 1,442 Times in 337 Posts Rep Power: 11169939	I get told that I am being too "demanding" or too "bossy"... That I am expecting too much by expecting someone to "label" themselves... All because I ask that those who contact me be "either butch or FtM only please" And for the record... WTF is titwrestling???? __________________ The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you'll go. ― Dr. Seuss, I Can Read With My Eyes Shut!

01-21-2015, 05:53 PM	#9349
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,310 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Here I am in the singles thread. Zimmeh, I met you at the 2012 reunion in Little Rock. Sleepy, I met you there as well. CurlyRedHead, I met you at a bar in Dallas. My dad dropped me off; I was visiting my parents. You were with your friend WolfSong, I think? Wolf something. I had fun hanging out with the two of you. Don't think I've met anyone else in here, in person. So, Hi! Nice to meet you virtually. __________________ Reach out.

01-21-2015, 06:58 PM	#9351
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,871 Times in 9,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	Howdy ladies and gents and all in between! There are fresh homemade cookies on the table. __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

01-07-2015, 09:08 PM	#9341
rkim33 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Stud Preferred Pronoun?: You...Her... She....I Relationship Status: Single and dry for over a year now.."sob" Join Date: Jan 2015 Location: New York City Posts: 7 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 25 Times in 6 Posts Rep Power: 0	Very single and very ready to mingle in NYC. I have tried Okcupid and Dattch.... both not working all that well. We all have it pretty rough I am sure. Its only been like 4 days so..maybe I shouldnt complain haha. Anyone living in NYC? I am trying to make friends too and will always be down to meet up after a good conversation or two.

01-13-2015, 11:47 PM	#9342
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,871 Times in 9,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	Hey Singles, I hope everyone is well!

01-20-2015, 07:27 AM	#9344
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,727 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Yeah I've tried plenty of fish and ok cupid. I have met people bit better suited on cupid than POF but it's really rare to. Maybe one every few months. Love reading people's profiles and answers to questions on cupid though. I love clutching my pearls and tutting at the shocking amount of Tory like answers from dykes. I'd put my cupid name up here for anyone interested in A read but I've had some stalking issues so msg me for it and I'll happy fling it your way.

01-20-2015, 10:12 AM	#9346
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,727 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Yeah. Neither site offers gender expression search. But I found I got better results with cupid when I selected gay and queer for sexuality rather than lesbian. The only drawback to that was that I also got a lot of feminine bisexual girls asking me if I'd like to try feminine for a change. I just ignore it. Pof I get femmine dykes asking to "titwrestle" etc (lol er, hi and yes my day is going well...). I never get asked by butches. They usually think they aren't "butch enough" to ask. But feminine and femmes certainly think its worth a shot anyway. They tell me "hey! No harm in asking right?" Ah if only everyone thought that...

01-21-2015, 06:51 PM	#9350
Shystonefem Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Shy for President Join Date: May 2014 Location: NH Posts: 1,105 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,475 Thanked 3,678 Times in 898 Posts Rep Power: 21474847	I guess I am wondering why only femmes are (really) posting here. Lol

01-21-2015, 08:54 PM	#9353
SleepyButch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dude Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Hidden Valley Ranch Posts: 3,510 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,220 Thanked 11,244 Times in 2,753 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Last time I checked, I wasn't a femme either. Thanks for the cookies JD! __________________ . You cannot embrace those things that will not embrace you back.

01-21-2015, 10:20 PM	#9355
SleepyButch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dude Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Hidden Valley Ranch Posts: 3,510 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,220 Thanked 11,244 Times in 2,753 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	A little singles humor.... Sometimes I feel this way lol __________________ . You cannot embrace those things that will not embrace you back.

01-22-2015, 12:05 AM	#9356
C0LLETTE Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Depends on the day. Preferred Pronoun?: "I" and "we" Relationship Status: Very good. Thank you for asking. Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 11,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,676 Thanked 15,262 Times in 4,345 Posts Rep Power: 21474859

02-08-2015, 11:24 PM	#9359
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,871 Times in 9,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	Howdy Singles, just checking in to bump up the thread! BUMP BUMP! __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein