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09-24-2010, 12:00 AM
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For anyone who has ever had a LDR
“Well hello lover, how was your day?”
She asked as she laid her jacket over the chair. “Mine was ok, I missed you more than words can say”. She said as she took down and brushed out her hair. “ I love you too, she purred so softly in her lover’s ear”. As she stripped off her clothes and slipped into her negligee. “It’s turning so cold now, great snuggling weather there’s a chill in the air”. She sighed as she turned back the covers to climb into a cold bed alone. “ You are my everything, I love you so deeply. Sweet dreams my love.” As a tear ran down her face she slowly hung up the phone.
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09-24-2010, 12:03 AM
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09-24-2010, 12:16 AM
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there is such a bittersweetness to LDRs. I have had a few and in the courting phase, I loved them! The people were romantic, sensual, creative, and very attentive. I loved the travel, both theirs to me and me to them. I loved the never ending verbal foreplay. And the delightful ways we both found to keep us connected and to make more dimension to our romance. I loved the little gifts sent via mail, that they found for me in their real life and wanted me to have so i would know they were thinking of me and could show how well they knew me. I loved the intensity, as well as the simplicity of LDRs.
the only thing I dont like about LDRs is the inevitable..someone has to move if it is to go the next level. I have been burnt a few times badly and I cant imagine what it would take to get me to even consider, let alone actually do, moving. And the longer I am alone and the more self sufficient and safe I feel in my own PAID FOR COMPLETELY house, the less open I am to consider letting someone move in with me if they were the one to move to me. Knowing someone in a perpetual honeymoon type relationship is not the same as dating someone who kicks off their old shoes and walks across your aging linoleum so the two of you can kick back and watch SUV reruns. You dont get to see how they suck on a straw the whole time and make aggravating noises with it. Or how they dont clean up after their cat. Or that they are organizational freaks and you are content piling all the silverware in a wicker basket and digging thru it when you need something. (this is me!) and LDRs dont let you have body heat. Or protective arms. Or hands that handle you like you are so loved. But they can lead to that. Frankly I loved LDRs. Its the moving that ruined them for me...
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09-24-2010, 12:37 AM
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Thank you so much for sharing with me. I appreciate your thoughts and opinions.
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09-24-2010, 12:40 AM
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Beautiful!
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10-30-2010, 05:25 PM
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Can’t you see me for who I am.
I stand here in the corner invisible to everyone. I’m not that young pretty one all the bois talk to. I’m not that eager one to please you. I’m not that one who flirts and teases with all the bois. I’m’ not that one willing to forget herself to be with you. I’m not the selfish one that uses people and then tosses them aside. I am the one older and wiser one with life experience and intelligence. I am the one that knows how to make a house a home. I am the one that knows who she is and what she wants. I am the one that is the slow, giving lover for my butch only. I am the one that will be by your side when all others have walked. I am the one that you will desire and want, once your youth and ego is gone.
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10-30-2010, 05:28 PM
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I have had a few ldr, and my recent one sucked only for the fact I was being lied to from the start. But most of them have been wonder and I would do it again.
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10-30-2010, 05:42 PM
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It's hard and takes A LOT of work, the rewards I have found AMAZING!!
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10-30-2010, 05:54 PM
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and that is why i have learned that not everyone is bad and that I will love again
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10-30-2010, 05:59 PM
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ive had some fantastic LDRs and ive had some not so great. the not so great ones i had very high expetations of them and them of me. the fantastic ones were the ones where we kept it on a honest "lets do it for the good times" and see what happens type. neither of us making any big promises. although the traveling was a pain in the but and expensive it was usually well worth it.
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10-30-2010, 06:02 PM
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10-30-2010, 06:07 PM
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If we had the knowledge and tools we have now.... LOL
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10-30-2010, 06:11 PM
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I don't care for LDRs.
They are frustrating as hell. It's like a limbo that doesn't seem to go away. I hate limbo. |
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10-30-2010, 06:13 PM
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10-30-2010, 06:17 PM
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Everyone on here that knows me knows I have screamed for years that I wouldnt.. I dont wanna etc etc....
I cant say that anymore. I am open. I am willing to say after speaking with friends what my boundaries are. I wont move. Communicate, communicate, communicate with me and so many other things... But, I would open my heart for the right one. Near or far. Sure it will and would be frustrating but my baby would be so worth the wait... 
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10-30-2010, 06:25 PM
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I so remember those feelings. Damon and I were in a LDR in the beginning. We saw each other on weekends thank goodness but those inbetween nights were very tough. However, they made the relationship that much stronger.
Today we work different shifts and I see him only 2 nights a week and a small amount on the weekends. I wouldnt have him work any other shift, however, it does make it hard sometimes. Those times in the beginning are what I rely on to remind me that love is what matters not how much time you get to spend together. Sometimes I have to remind myself that our time together is even more special BECAUSE it is short. Its easy to get caught up in the missing of that person when you are apart. So do what you can to make that time special. Beautiful writing.. by the way... Thanks for sharing
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10-30-2010, 06:35 PM
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   Soooo happy for you both...
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10-30-2010, 07:50 PM
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 Organic and I knew each other before the Reunion. Neither one of us anticipated he'd come home with me from the Reunion, though. Or did I come home with him? Well, we were in the same van.  I've had LDRs that worked the way they needed to work for us to function and then there were some that didn't. It is what it is; it's up to the couple to determine exactly what IT is, though. |
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10-30-2010, 07:53 PM
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Im not sure I will get in another one right now only because people have to high of expectations for me, I work and i am finally getting my career going. plus people say I am to young and blah blah.
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10-30-2010, 08:48 PM
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Beautiful and well written. I have had more than my share of LDRs. I would never do it again. It was too painful. A few women and I remain friends to this day but it took awhile to get to that point. The ones who were completely false; oh I won't risk it again. Learned my lesson.
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